Question Posted Friday September 24 2004, 12:39 am
Hello .. Its just some simple questions .. they say Its easier to give out great advice than to actually follow it urself.... now I like my ex i was the one who broke things off (2 times).. i do know for sure he still has feelings for me but what i don't know is whether he would like to "go back" and try to see if it works (again).. i'm not going to tell u guys my whole story but when i say its complicated TRUST ME... so here are my questions.. pls be COMPLETELY HONEST.. answer them as if u were the one following the advice..ask urself "would I do it? REALLY?" ..
1.
Would tell ur ex u still have feeling for him? (even though he is still mad at u cus u broke things off (2 times) )
2.
would u give up and try to forget about him? REALLY?
3.would you tell him u still have feelings for him even though u r not sure if u want to go back until u fix some "issues" u have?
this is really imp for me cus i feel like i´m running away from something real..so pls if u canjust advice me with this ..or if u can leave a little note i´ll write into ur personal column.. thanks so much .
Additional info, added Sunday September 26 2004, 2:26 am: heey!! well guess what? we talked a lot yesterday and he wants to make things work! god i'm so happy =D .. i don't know whats going to be like or wether we date again but thats just a little step that he took and he came up and told me about his feelings ..so its good .. thanks anyways .. . Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? urkissmytkillme answered Friday September 24 2004, 5:19 pm: 1. yeah I probably would tell him
2. I would try to, but I highly doubt that it would happen
3. Yeah I would tell him, but I would also say that there's still some things that I'm not sure about. [ urkissmytkillme's advice column | Ask urkissmytkillme A Question ]
Buterflyhelper answered Friday September 24 2004, 12:57 am: I think the key to the question was, "this is really imp for me cus i feel like i´m running away from something real. The reason, It is obvious he wants to be in the relationship because he has let you go back and forth. Before you decide what you are going to tell him. Ask what to tell your self. You obviously are not ready for a serious relationship. Because you are runnning away everytime you get close to him. If it was me I would give it more time. Take some time to be by yourself with NO ONE. To see how you think with out someone there. Then when your head clears, you can find him ,or someone else) and see what happens. You have your hole life ahead of you. If he realy is your soulmate he will wait. You teo will find eachother agien. If not then your soulmate is yet to be found. It is more about you and how you feel about your self then wether it is time to be with him agein. [ Buterflyhelper's advice column | Ask Buterflyhelper A Question ]
princs answered Friday September 24 2004, 12:47 am: I will answer yes definetly to questions 1 and 3. I answer definetly becasue i am doin exactly that tomorrow. If you dont tell him then you will never know what could of happened and you will regret it forever i promise you!
As for question 2 if you tell him and hes not interested anymore then yes you need to forget about him and move on. If hes not sure then you need to give him time to think about it a bit (if you think hes worth waiting).
The worst that is going to happen is he will reject you, its not the end of the world. It cant be all that bad.
How are you planning on telling him cause i need a few ideas myself. I know i want to tell him i still love him i just dont know what to say.
Feel free to share any ideas you have.
Hope i helped :)
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