Question Posted Sunday September 26 2004, 10:38 pm
Okay. Me and my best friend(male) have been best friends for two years. I've liked him on and off for the past two years as well. He's a very wonderful person and eveytime I tell him how I really feel about him, he tells me the same old story until recently he said I got him thinkin. But the problem is is that I hooked him up with my friend, I have a BIG JEALOUSY issue. And I hate to be around them when their together and everything because I would give the world to be with him and he knows it... but also, there's this other guy I like, but he's really really shy and he knows I like him but it seems like he dosen't have anything to say when I talk to him, but he likes me too, but now I am kinda trapped between the both of them. What should I do to get to my crush????
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? xpianogirl89x answered Monday September 27 2004, 8:25 pm: Hmm... I would say go for the shy guy who you think you like. No offense to your best friend but it sounds like he's not ready or he's leading you on. Talk to him a little more but don't get too hopeful. Plus if you did go out with him and then break up, think about how awful it would be to lose a friend like him...(By the way I've had this same problem too and if my BFF went out with one of my friends i would have jealousy issues too :-p ) If you got him thinking leave it at that and go in for the other guy. Strike up a conversation about anything really.. If he plays any sports ask him when his next home game is and hint that you want to come watch him. Be subtle and flirty.... hehe well good luck!
xbellaxobambinax69 answered Monday September 27 2004, 8:39 am: well before you go out with eigther of them you need to make up your mind about who you like. but maybe you should talk to your friend about how you feel maybe she will understand. if not you have nothing to do but w8 for them to break up and w8 for her to be completley over him. i dont understand why if you like this kid so much you would hook your friend up with him knowing you have a big jealousy issue...
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JeSSiiHaLL answered Sunday September 26 2004, 11:24 pm: HEY!!
well you kno what that shy guy might be extreamly scard and not know what to say you should bring up things like how you hate/like school... forget about the other guy i mean if he is goin out with your friend and then dumps her and gose to you it seems like your kinda a fall back gurl.. hope i helped [ JeSSiiHaLL's advice column | Ask JeSSiiHaLL A Question ]
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