Question Posted Sunday September 26 2004, 10:20 pm
so i like this guy. he likes me too, but hes concerned about the age difference and he wouldnt want my parents pressing charges on him, i know its illegal if we have sex, but i dont plan on it. hes 18 and ill be 15 in a month. i have talked to my parents and they both have no problem with him. i see where he is coming from but, when we are together we make out and stuff and it makes me want to be more than "friends with benefits".
so my question is should i pursue it and be like screw what my parents say if they ever found a reason to not like him? thanks in advance.
MoonFisher answered Monday September 27 2004, 2:53 am: You can pursue a relationship with him, but I would be cautious about making it sexual. You don't want to get your friend in trouble! Only you know your parents well enough to gauge whether or not they will ever flip on you or him. If you do decide to take the relationship to a sexual level, you need to be extremely cautious not to get pregnant or ill, as that could be used to incriminate him. It sounds like you already talked this over with your parents, which is very good. Just do your best to keep your parents from developing negative opinions of him. [ MoonFisher's advice column | Ask MoonFisher A Question ]
Sherry answered Sunday September 26 2004, 10:47 pm: I heard its illegal for him to even be with you..even if you dont have sex..but if your parents are ok with it..then why not? Cops wont find out.. [ Sherry's advice column | Ask Sherry A Question ]
blondie75 answered Sunday September 26 2004, 10:45 pm: id say definatly go for it. if u dont have sex you cant get in trouble right. so just dont have sex. Good luck! hope i helped! [ blondie75's advice column | Ask blondie75 A Question ]
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