Question Posted Saturday September 18 2004, 11:19 pm
well i have a problem.. i like this guy alot.. like so0 much.. hes really str8 to chill with and weve chilled alot buhh i dont know.. he likes me buhh he wants to do shit with me b4 we go out.. he thinks i will cuz i did things with these 2 guys this summer which was jus a hook up and having fun..buhh as for me and him.. i dont wanna do anything with him yet* or until we go out cuz i dont want him to see me as a grl to take advange of..and juss a hook up.. i want him to see me as a gf.. and he knos im not a ho so wats rong? i dont kno if its like he needs to try me out to see wat hes gettin or rele want to b with mee.. does this make sense to any of youu..?!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? TrueLife answered Sunday September 19 2004, 10:45 am: If he really likes u he won't care about taking advantage of u. u be da one in charge u take action! Tell him that your not ready for that in your relationship yet. Also say that u really care about him and the guys ova da summa u didn't care about as much as him. If he seems pissed off he neva really liked u for u he liked u for the way u look and thats not love.
BlueEyedBlondie725 answered Sunday September 19 2004, 12:34 am: Just tell him what you just told us. Just be like "Why do you want to do stuff with me before we go out? I don't want to do that. I'm not that type of girl. Yea, I did that with 2 guys during the summer, but that was just a hook up. I normally don't do that. But, as for you, I really like you and I don't want to just do stuff with you, I want to be your girlfriend, I don't want to be a hoe or look like one. I want you to actually see me as a girlfriend, not just someone that gives you stuff. I mean, do you even like me, to the point where we could go out?" Just say stuff like that and how you feel about that situation. I hope this helps and if you still need help, just post a message in my inbox.
JeSSiiHaLL answered Saturday September 18 2004, 11:26 pm: WHOA... ONE THING TO REMEMBER...* most guess are horney hehe * dont got out with him just b.c you think he likes you but really he just wants your body and stuff so dont give in i kno its hard at least wait until you guys go out for awhile...
Sherry answered Saturday September 18 2004, 11:22 pm: Just tell him that you want a relationship with him and the other stuff will come later..it looks as if he just wants some..so he might not be that good for you. [ Sherry's advice column | Ask Sherry A Question ]
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