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ok..my friends that I sit with at lunch I'm starting not to like..I was invited to sit with my best friend Amanda and her friends..but like I'm really good friends with some of them..like theres about 16 people there and I'm close with like 8 of them so that would be ok but I dunno how to break it to my other friends and I'm scared that I'm not gonna fit in that much at the new table..there all saying yeah I want you to sit with us and stuff but I dont wanna be like an intruder..what should I do? -rate high-
K e l l e y
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try it out!! duh just see how it is yur friends wont get madd just balance the two tables out sit w/ one on day an another the next; who yu sit w/ at luch aint a big deal
steffy
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Well, Kelley, you just need to sit where you want. You don't have to sit in the same place or with the same people everyday. The idea of having specific tables is pretty segretory, if you ask me. Eat lunch at one table, then go hang out at the other, and switch the next day. I always spent most of my lunches on the go, floating from friend to friend around the campus. The more friends, the merrier!
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You should go if you really want to! If they invited you to go over, and you are close to half the people...I'm sure it will be fine! Just tell your friends at your table that you want to switch tables for awhile. It's not them, it's just you want to sit with your other friends. GOod luck..hope I helped some :D
-casey
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Kelley, be You . They might not like you , but heck this is school and THESE ARE GIRLS . There's someone or some people in that group who don't like you because, maybe they're jealous e.t.c. Not everyone's going to like you and you know this and YOU'RE NO BEING A INTRUDER . If they aren't being content with theirself that they don't want you to sit with them, then that's there problem not your's . YOU work on what you need to work on and let them work on what they need to be . If you want to sit with them , then sit with them . If you don't want to sit with them then don't . These are choices that we all have to make and this choice is up to you . Remember this is just my advice . I hope I was some help and peace . Have a nice day !!!
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Why do you only have to sit at one table every single day? I don't understand why you can't just sit where you feel like it one day, and then go somewhere else the next day. You don't need to just ignore the people you sit with now, but that doesn't mean you need to sit with them and only them every day.
Just spice it up a bit.
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