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flirting...=(
my best friend flirts with my boyfriend all the time and I think hes flirting back..She has a boyfrined tho..she flirts with everyone but its really bothering me..I dont wanna be like "I dont wanna fight but I've notice your flirting with my boyfriend" becuase shes like one of my best friends..what should I do? I dont wanna talk to her bout it but I want it to stop...what do I do..? =(
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Ummm...you are the type of girl that is nice and don't want to confront. well, there is nothing to say except get over it and tell her that she should stop. If she is your best friend than she will understand,say sorry and stuff. If she is not your best friend, she will denied and be mad at you. You take the chance. But in my opinion, you should just confront her and get it over with. What is the point of having to worry about this when you should be worry about what are you going to do and stuff? (If you want, you can ignore the last part :) -.-" )
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JUst talk to your boyfriend then Be like " ive noticed that my friend flirts with you alot and Do u flirt back cause It seems like it just a little bit " and If he gets mad there is likely a little somethin somethin between them or else he has not right to get mad Right?? lol well I hope I helped if I didnt then im me at footballbabe454 my name is Ashley bye
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Well, first things first, you won't be anywhere your problem if you don't talk to your friend about it. Ask her if she likes your boyfriend 'n tell her that it seems like she likes/flirts with your boyfriend.However...she's not the only you need to talk to...sounds like ya need to have a word with your boyfriend too. Tell him it's kinda hurting you because it seems like he's flirting with your friend. If they're really close people to you, then they should understand you! Good Luck 'n Hope I helped!
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ahh! I had this problem too! My friend she flirts with everyone she knows.. lol i dun wanna call her a hoe or anything but she has a NEW boyfriend every five minutes... ok lets jus say she gets around ALOT. and i get mad at her alot. and i jus flip sometimes. But I talked to her about it on the internet and asked her if she liked me boyfriend cause it seemed liek he liked her and she said no and so i was like ok and let it go for a while so I was out one day and my boyfriend had gone to go to the bathroom or something and I was like it sure seems like he likes u more. and she was like ew no! hes going out with u! and I was like well do u like him? and she said no and I was like THEN STOP FLIRTING WITH HIM!
well she got mad for a bit and then i proved to her that she does it alot. She stopped doing it a little but it still comes up often.... Ive been with my boyfriend for 8 months and dont wanna lose him to a "friend" lol...
So yea talk to her about it, through e-mail,IM, on the phone or when u see it happening the most!
I hope I helped and if u have anymore questions IM me*craviinkiisses8*
Good luck!
*AnGe*
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Well, first of all-You are not going to get ANYWHERE, if you don't talk to her. You should talk to her, but don't automatically say "YOU'VE BEEN FLIRTING WITH MY BOYFRIEND!". That won't help at all. Take your time, and be patient. Ask her questions like: Do you like my boyfriend? Are you having problems with your boyfriend? or something like that. JUST DONT make it like an interview with 1000 questions. Then tell her you've been noticing her kind of flirting with your boyfriend. If she doesn't get really mad, ask her why she has been doing it. If she says 'no', but you think she's lying. Don't say "I think you are lying". Say something like "Okay, if you say you aren't then I trust you. You are my friend, and I hope you are telling me the truth." If she gets mad, tell her that you are sorry for accusing her and you just wanted to know what was really happening. You could probably go to your boyfriend to and ask him. TRUST him. TRUSt her also. They are close to you, and trust that they are being honest. Good Luck, and I hope I helped some. If you need anything else, drop one in my inbox!
-casey<33
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Honey, I know you don't want to risk your friendship but if your friend is making the move on your man , then do something about it . This could lead to major trust issues in your friendship and you really can't call it friendship without the not-all-the-time-so-perfect-trust . In friendships , trust isn't perfect, but it's a good factor to know that you actually have it . Talk to her and if she comtinues then do what you have to do and you're the only one who knows whats best to do . ONLY YOU ARE THE ONLY ONE WHO KNOWS WHATS BEST TO DO . Well I hope I was some help and peace . Have a nice day .
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I.M.O. she's not a real friend if she flirts with your boyfriend. i think you should diffinitly tell her how you feel about her flirting with your boyfirend because trulley you shouldn't watch your so called friend flirting with your boyfirned and then seeing him flirt back.
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