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Question Posted Tuesday May 17 2005, 10:17 am

Well I like this guy and he has a g/f but he secretly likes me and when he is not with his g/f he talks to me and hugs me and jokes around with me but when he is with her he never looks at me. His aunt tells me he likes me and I like him secretly too. He always trys to stare at me when his gf is not looking but his g/f is one of my good friends. What should I do?

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Taniqua's-teen-advice answered Thursday May 19 2005, 2:44 pm:
That is terrible, its alright to think that someone elses b/f is cute but to secretly be together that is just wrong, you need to forget him because if he's secretly being with you, how do you know if he does it to you. Also, she's your good friend and right now you're betraying her trust and will probably lose her friendship over a boy, that's not good at all.

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Deanimal answered Wednesday May 18 2005, 7:42 pm:
Ooooh, a scandal! Sounds like a lot of fun to me. My take on romance at your age (and mine) is that it really doesn't matter, so, hey, go for it. ;) Kiss him on the <i>lips</i>

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xOshannenOx answered Tuesday May 17 2005, 5:07 pm:
ok if this guy liked you so much then he would break up with his g/f dont u think? i would only be his friend if his g/f broke up with him you would have to get like PERMISSION to go out with him scince she is your friend i think he is useing you as his back up incase his g/f breaks up with him so i would ask him if he realli likes you to break up with his g/f then but if he says no then dont count on him asking u out in the near future

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karenR answered Tuesday May 17 2005, 3:48 pm:
You should leave him alone. If he cares for you that much then why does he have the other girlfriend? He obviously isn't breaking up with her to go out with you. He wants to have his cake and eat it to...just doesn't work that way. Sorry. :)

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Van_10 answered Tuesday May 17 2005, 11:37 am:
hi there,
well it happens, if you say she's yor friend, you wouldnt approach this guy, think about it, if the tables were tuned would you like your friend to be after your man ?

if he doesnt look at you when she's around that should give you an idea, that he might not want her to be aware that he likes you ? the question is who does he like better and even if he likes u better how will your friend take the news ?
is it worth losing your friendship over ?

think about the decision you make, it says something about who we are, forget impression forget perception,i can't tell u what to do
under advice you

take care of your self

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kiiss_this_xo answered Tuesday May 17 2005, 11:28 am:
this jsut happened to my friend except they werent going out... go for it tell him how you feel and that your not gonna wait around for him because maybe if hes still going out with her and talking to you he just wants someone to fall back on when he break up with his girlfriend or something like that so make sure you let him kno whose boss okkk? =]] good luck

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