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boy problemss


Question Posted Tuesday May 17 2005, 11:23 am

i'm in 10th grade/female and theres this boy i was talking to for about 4 months then we suddenly just stopped talking because of people making up all these rumors about us so he ended it cause he thought i was the one saying it all. for awhile i was ok with it but then i got the feeling i was never really over him. and now i can't stop thinking about him were sitll friends and i tried talking to him about it but he says things are just different now. how can i get over him, please help its been soo long since we stopped talking and i'm still not over him. like wtf?

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iluvdabby answered Thursday May 19 2005, 1:41 pm:
Okay i here where ure coming from you should try to talk to him if he heres the real story im preety sure he will forgive you

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Taniqua's-teen-advice answered Wednesday May 18 2005, 6:30 pm:
Okay, just try to talk to him again and I mean if he really likes you he wouldn't believe you would say those things. Move on with with life, there are other fish in the sea, if you don't catch a fish, you're not just going to stop looking. You never know there might be someone better waiting for you.

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fall_to_pieces answered Wednesday May 18 2005, 12:03 pm:
get over him by totally forgetting about him. i know that seems harsh and kind of hard, but its the only way. you should want to be his friend if he thinks that you started the rumors. if he thought that, then he did not think you as a friend. the only way to forget or get over a person without hurting yourself or the other person is to just go on with you life. you need to keep on living, even if it is hard. i know the feeling, and life is passing you by when you sit there thinking about some one who won't think about you because he is an asshole.
hope i helped.

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karenR answered Tuesday May 17 2005, 3:46 pm:
I think rumors and gossip just naturally come up when people start spending time together. Isn't to much can be done about it really because people love to talk.

If the rumors are bad ones...you just hope that your friends know you well enough that they don't believe them. Nobody else is important.

If he feels that strongly about it then all you can do is assure him that you didn't start the rumors (I mean really, why would you?) and find another guy. Hard I know but its the best way to get over him. :)

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angel_sarah23 answered Tuesday May 17 2005, 1:59 pm:
rumous r stupid who believes them??? try talking to him and say that you didnt sthat the rumous, ask him why he decided to believe them in the first place, hun theres no way of really getting over somebody if he's a love you'll never get over him ever he'll still be there in your heart even if someone has hurt you so bad they'll be there, try going out with ya mates and spending lots of time having laughs u wont be thinking about him then, with time it wont hurt as much and u'll start to think why u liked him in the first place, good luck hun! x

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Van_10 answered Tuesday May 17 2005, 1:12 pm:
hi there
well i feel your pain, i don't know why people start rumors, i am thinking they are jealos and don't want to see you happy

i can't tell you of anything that would get you over this guy
i don't know if he belived these rumours, you should talk to him just to clear the air , just incase rumours start again

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