Question Posted Sunday September 19 2004, 10:20 pm
hi. im one of those girls who get all the attention from all the guys. yeah they literally follow me around and fight over me. i like the attention, sure, who wouldnt... but it gets realllllly annoying. like im trying to hang with my girls and they just keep talking to me and fighting over me and other girls think im a slut cuz all these guys are always FLIRTING with ME. its not like i come on to them.. what should i do?
thanx alot
-sick of being ms popular
PBODY answered Wednesday October 20 2004, 9:00 pm: here is a bit of helpful advice.....STOP BEIN A HOE!!!! if u wouldnt fuck every guy that "flirts" with u they might leave u alone....im sure u are and attractive young lady but u r a slut...close ur legs it helps keep the smell away [ PBODY's advice column | Ask PBODY A Question ]
beautifulsoul answered Monday September 20 2004, 6:47 pm: Just tell these guys that you don't always want to be around them. Say you just need some space, like everyone else. If they really like you, they'll understand. [ beautifulsoul's advice column | Ask beautifulsoul A Question ]
juicyfruit answered Monday September 20 2004, 2:03 am: Start being ugly and a bitch. They'll stop coming to you then. lol
No I'm kidding really...I honestly dont know what you CAN do. You're obvoiusly beautiful. I guess just ignore it and when they come to you when you're with your girls just walk away. [ juicyfruit's advice column | Ask juicyfruit A Question ]
Siren_Cytherea answered Monday September 20 2004, 12:20 am: I SO know how you feel. It started for me when I was in ninth grade, and I had all these guys who liked me. I loved it, at first, because I'd been ugly and fat in middle school. I lost weight over the summer, my body developed a little more...but then the attention started to drive me crazy.
I'm sorry to tell you there isn't much you can do, short of making yourself ugly as hell, and I doubt you want to do that.
You and your friends know you're not a slut, right? All that should matter on this is your opinion of yourself, and no one else's. If other girls who don't know you think you're a slut, let them think that. Let 'em think whatever the heck they want.
You and your friends know what the real situation is, and that you can't help the way guys act around you. All you can do is know that the opinions of the girls who aren't your friends doesn't matter, and ignore the guys.
I hope this helped on some level!
-Siren =) [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
storageanddisposal answered Sunday September 19 2004, 11:24 pm: To answer your first question, I wouldn't! It would freak me out if guys followed me around and fought over me. For your second one, tell all of the members of your fan club to fight to the death. After a victor immerges, kick him in the crotch as hard as you can. I think that will solve your problem. [ storageanddisposal's advice column | Ask storageanddisposal A Question ]
LilMia811 answered Sunday September 19 2004, 11:05 pm: Its nnot your fault those guys are on your dick like that. Who cares what those girls think, fuck them, you know you are not a slut and thats all that matters. [ LilMia811's advice column | Ask LilMia811 A Question ]
FrEe2bMe answered Sunday September 19 2004, 10:31 pm: Well, first of all in a way you should admire nad appreciate all the attention. Some girls would kill to be in your place. But, I understand what you are saying. Maybe next time all these guys come up to you when you are around other girls your could introduce the guys to the other girls. You could be like "Billy, have you met Susie.." and let it work from there. Also, you could totally shock them and be like HEY we were just talking about how I just pooped..did you just poop? They'd prolly be so shocked and walk away and you'd get a laugh. Don't take what you have for granted though. :) [ FrEe2bMe's advice column | Ask FrEe2bMe A Question ]
MisSoccer19 answered Sunday September 19 2004, 10:29 pm: You have to be doing something to them to make them want to flirt with you...maybe ur just a naturally flirty person or maybe you don't even realize it, but they wouldn't keep on flirting with you and making you 'ms popularity' if you didn't give them reason to. step back and look at what you're doing...if you want them to change, you might have to do some changing first [ MisSoccer19's advice column | Ask MisSoccer19 A Question ]
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