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do i ask him out?
Hey, Im 13 and Im in 8th grade, and I have a crush on Travis my friend hes also 13 and in 8th grade. We have alot in common, but Ive always been kinda shy and not telling people that I like them. But i wrote travis a note one day that i thought he was hott i didnt get a bad responce:) or a good one :(, and nothing is different between us and we are still good friends, i talk to him all the time. I wanna go out with him, but Im afraid of rejection so I dont know if I should ask him out. I feel that he might like me but I can never be positive. One of my bestfriends, Brittany thinks I should ask him out cuz if i dont i might miss a chance to go out with him if he likes me, and he might get over me and go out with someone else:( SO... my question is should i ask him out, i would really appreaciate your advice! THANKS!
im very scared and confused!!
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well dont be scared and confused! that's going to make things soo much harder! remember- this is only one boy, he cant be the only one meant for you... so rejection is really just a game in a way. either he likes you or he doesnt, there is nothing to do but play the game and see if you win or not. im also realllllly shy too, like im not when im not around boys, but as soon as a boy is involved... BAMN! im shy. it's one of those traits that holds you back a lot... trust me... i understand ;). writing him a note is a really good thing to do if you're too shy to say it to him in person. if you two are really good friends, you should try and bring up small conversation [homework, gossip, whatever] and if the conversation can keep up for a while and he's interested in talking... just slip in "so who do you like these days?"... it may seem like impossible to do, but you'll get the hang of it sooner or later. If you think it's too early to ask him, ask a close friend of his... most likely he'll know if things will work. Your friend Brittany is right because he may be snatched up soon, but if you arent ready to even ask him out, you wont get far if your pressured into going out with him. to answer your question- i say get your facts first, make more conversation, and try to get as certain [not 100%] that he might say yes. it's really hard to answer this without knowing you or this travis kid, so i hope from what ive said might somehow influence your choices! best of luck! tell me how things go =] -ask_anything
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I think that u should talk to him in person tell him wat u r goin through. And ur friend Brittany is right cuz u might miss the chance and u will regret eva not askin him out, and u shouldn't live with regretion. So if u want talk to in person or wright him another note, and see wat he says. If when u wrote him the first note and nothing happened bad happened with u guys then u should feel comfortable to say wats on ur mind to him, and if he's not a jerk then I think that u should go for it and ask him out!!!
Hope I helped. Let me kno how it goes!!
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welll.. miss... scared and confused..
i would say go for the gold or ull miss out on the end of the rainbow. lol. you should ask him out.
--x0 Manda=x--
hope i helped.
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One of my all-famous answers to this question, is get your BFF to go up to him and say "Hi, I was just wondering if you like [YOUR NAME]. Because if so, I'll tell her. I'd like to see you two together, you two would look really cute!"
That way it would seem like you had nothing to do with it. If she comes back and says he was interested, then talk to him about it. If he says no really fast, it probably either means "no" or "yes, but I'm really embarrased to let anyone know"
So try that! See what happens! It'll seem like you had nothing to do with it and all the pressure will be on him!!!
Hope it works out, thanks for coming to me!! :)
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yeah sure, ask him out, if youre good friends he will either say yes, or that he just wants to be good friends, and that should be ok with you. if he rejects you though, and says he doesnt want to be friends anymore (highly doubtful), then he wasnt a good friend to begin with.
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