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i hate my dad
I HATE MY DAD! hes such an idiot... hes not in my life at all. hes a co dependant jerk. when i was little he didnt make me lunch and he makes me do everything for him... he can b OK sometimes but yeah its not enough i still hate him... hes not in my life at all but he'll pick random times to step in and ruin it. like something that my moms been letting me do for 7 months all of the sudden i cant do bcuz of him. I HATE HIM SOOOOO MUCH. my mom wont even stick up for me or what she knows is right... what should i do?
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im sorry but we r not the ones being little immature brats....ur the one that is complaining so much...we r just stating the facts...im sure u have been through a lot of emotional abuse but whining that he wont let u do some things isnt the answer...u need 2 talk 2 him CLAMLY and tell him u care about him and u wish u 2 cud get close and stuff like that...it will take time....but im sure the stuff hes doing....its for a reason...if hes not in ur life very much then maybe hes been through a lot of things that u dont know about....and maybe u shud talk 2 ur mom...now if ur saying like ur mom lets u like go out every night and he said u cant for one night then thats just being a spoiled brat but if u really believe its about something she shud stick up for u for then talk 2 her about it....maybe yall cud go see a family conselor...but complaining about it on here is not gunna fix anything....hope this helps...
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i know how u feel. i have the same problem......with my MOM. just don't do anything and tell him everything u told us, IF he was dat bad to u. thats wat i did wit my mom and wen she needed me tha most, she came bak to me.
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as much as you don't want to hear this, YOU could step into your dad's life. at least make an effort. don't just wait for him to baby you. you should make some father-daughter plans with him. and don't be so defensive towards him. and if he's still an ass, you need to seek a family counseler.
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Look, shes saying what we're all thinking, wait no she's not. Shut the fuck up and suck it up. There are many people out there who are much worse of than you. Nobody likes their parents and you're just a spoiled little whore who gets all pissy when daddy makes her take out the trash.
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Grow up. Get a job. Get an apartment. Move.
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LYK OMG HE IS SUCH A NAZI. Please shut the fuck up. Oh look, he isn't in your life, he didn't make you lunch, HE DOESNT LET YOU DO SOMETHING. He could also not be in your life by actually leaving for the majority of your life. I never knew my dad until I was 7 or 8 but I'm not whining about it. Frankjly I don't care. He doesn't have to make you lunch. Has anyone ever made my lunch? No not really, but you don't see me complaining. I never got to do alot of things but through my hypnotic powers of persuasion and just a thieflike ability to get around things I always got to do the things I was never allowed to do. Noone ever stuck up for me, I learned to stick up for myself.
Be more fucking independant. Suck it up.
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if your mom wants to go and take his side, knowing how he is, then fuck it go and do what he said you can;t do anyway.
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heh, i hate both of my parents, so i dont really know what to do. i guess if you wanted to have a better relationship with him ask him why he always ruins stuff for you, or why he wont let you do anything. make sure to do it when your mom is not around because that might make him change his answer. if you have siblings that might be the reason though, thats how it is with me atleast.
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My dad is an alcoholic, which is actually pretty hard for me to say, but he is...sometimes it really makes me feel like I hate him....because he is never around and never helps me and my mom deserves SOOO much better....I realize though, that he is still my dad....regardless of what he does or doesn't do, he still loves me....knowning that he cares about me at least makes me want to care about him and makes me want to try to help him sober up...maybe if you told your dad that you don't think he's fair and explain to him how ur feeling he might understand a little bit....just remember that he loves you and try to not say you hate him, because I think it's in human's nature to always love your parents...hope i helped a little
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