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hi. im one of those girls who get all the attention from all the guys. yeah they literally follow me around and fight over me. i like the attention, sure, who wouldnt... but it gets realllllly annoying. like im trying to hang with my girls and they just keep talking to me and fighting over me and other girls think im a slut cuz all these guys are always FLIRTING with ME. its not like i come on to them.. what should i do?
thanx alot
-sick of being ms popular (link)
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Shut up you wineing bitch. Theres prolly people out there with worse problems. Ur prolly not pretty ne way
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this is gonna be long..
okay. so my best friend's name is jess. she's been my best friend since 4th grade. well, in about october of last year, she decided to get a new best friend [katie] & kick me to second place. i was really really hurt because i never thought i would lose her. i still call her my best friend because she truly is my best friend.
i've tried so hard to get her back but nothing works. i want my best friend back. i have talked to her about it numerous times. she says katie has never had a best friend so now it's her turn to be in the "spotlight". did jess stop & think about our friendship? about how i would feel? about how this affects me? of course not. it's basically like she felt sorry for katie so now they're best friends. does she even care about what she did to me? doesn't seem like it. i really don't understand why she would do that to me.
i want my best friend back more than anything. i would do anything to have things back to the way they used to be. i feel so left out & isolated around them because they completely ignore me when we all hang out together. so now i have no best friend & i've felt betrayed, sad, mad, disappointed, & confused for the last 8 months. i'm beginning to think i'll never get her back. i will seriously cry if i don't [i have cried many times over this problem already].
please don't say stop trying or move on. i really don't want to. thanks to anyone that can help me. i'm crying as i type this.
i hate my life. (link)
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uhm.....are you in love with this girl...fuk her....she ditched you so therefore she doesnt deserve you....it seems like u guys are a little too close or you are n love with her.
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13/f
in my grade im like in the middle in popularity. this year i started becoming really close friends with a girl in a popular group. her birthday is coming up and she invited me to her party with her and just her group. there are 6 of them and including her, i'm friends/aquaintances with 4 of them. she said she would understand because it would be awkward. i'm not sure if i want to go. should i go and risk it being awkward? and what are some ways to make it less awkward and uncomfortable for me?
help is appreciated!! (link)
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Go my suggestion is that you go and have fun...ive been in a similar problem like this before and i went and they were actually nice to me. SO go and make new friends and go for her and no one else and if u feel lonely then just tell her and she'll pave the way. =)
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okay.. im so pasinate about god and im 14. I love talking about him and i want to live a god centered life. I go to church but everyone in my youth group goes to have fun with everyone and flirt with eachother which is annoying because none of them like having serious convos about god and make christians look bad. I want to find a good group of chrstians to talk to about jsut everything and kinda like have them as a support group to encourage me to continue living for god. but i feel so lonely all the time like no one really wants to live for god at this kind of age. my mom tells me i have a old soul so it will be hard to find friends that are intrested in that kind of stuff. but it really sucks.. how do you think i could find some people to just fellowship with... and actrually live the christian life and spread my faith with people who actrually care to answer those questions! (link)
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mkayy...it sounds to me like your uptight. God doesnt want you to be his perfect little child...he wants you to experiment with boys and such.....your 14 and you should live your life....you can still believe in god.
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im sleeping over my friend who's metabolism is the opposite of mine. she eats a ton but is super short & skinny. I'm tall & am skinny cause i watch what i eat. You see i'm sleeping over her house sunday. I'm 13 & no one i know who is my age diets like i do, or diets at all. My life is full of super skinny, great metabolized, eat-a-ton girls. At her house, they order from a restaurant usually. My friend always gets a burger & last time i was there i wasnt dieting so i got chicken fingers/fries. But now my problem is i dont want to be rude but i dont know what to order. i think salads are usually expensive & ill be embarassing telling her family i really watch what i eat. my friend has a jacuzzi also & we usually put on our bikinis & Jump on in after dinner. my friend loves deserts so she'll ask if i want a milkshake from the restaurant. for breakfast on sundays, they make eggs, bacon, sausage & pancakes. what should i do? i dont want to seem rude but i need to keep my diet. help!! please do so ASAP
~EAS (link)
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I would be like im going to bring my own lunch and dinner because my mom says i need to only eat these foods because the doc. says so. Or just not eat i do it all the time. If you get hungry just drink a glass of water.
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13/f. I was in the popular preppy group but now I am in the gothic. I think I am still bffs with my friend in the popular group. If I ask her anything around that or that she says oh ya why wouldn’t we be I love you or bffs still. We used to be bffs but then it was off and on because we didn’t do the same sports. So I got tired of thinking if tomorrow wed be bffs or not. But now I hate my life for so many reasons. even my friends hate my life. But I am just so happy around them I guess I never knew what bffs really were. My other ?bff? and I were never this close. So I just left them and was totally alone for like 3 days except for my other bff a guy that I am not sure about either. I left the ‘popular’ people because I always felt different. So now the popular group is totally falling apart so I was in both groups. But my gothic friends are always there for me and always are doing something and are totally rough I love them and they and he are the only ones that understand me. The popular people if I go with them their all together but I feel alone and they aren’t always for me. Then my bff that’s a guy is a dumb nerd that I love as my bff and we love each other as bf gf. But I don’t wana mess up our long friendship. Ive never had a bf. And he loves me but also loves my enemy the one person in the popular group ive never gotten along with at all. I no he really loves her and me. And he won’t got out with her because he also loves me and knows I hate her. I try to get them together a lot because there so good for eachother but he just wont I love him I want for him what he wants hes all I really got now I want him happy. And for me being gothic im a lot happier and I wana get my hair streaked or died red, purple, or black. my hair is brown now. I get threatened if I act gothic or buy any black (another reason why I hate my life) I used to be the shy happy little spoiled confused girl. Now the rebellious goth.
A is she still my bff
B is she lieing to me because she acts like a ‘part time’ bff
C did I do the right thing for leaveing the popular people
D which group should I stay in
E what should I do about me and my bff (the guy) I love as bf and bff
F why does my mom hate colored hair so much I did it before
And any questions I forgot and any advice at all I could use
please do not delete this question I seriously need help
~randomgrl777~ I might add more later
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Due not get involved with GOTHICS if you were meant to be preppy then that was the first thing you were then thats what u were meant to be ...take it from me goth is a religion and they will do anything to make you a conformist just like them....there all the same and it screwed me as well as it will you.
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i have suffered from bulemia since age 13 i am now 17 as i have weened myself off it i occasionally feel the need to start it up again.how do i gert my food to stay down...without needing to make myself sicl and what affect has this done to my body in/out... (link)
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Okay eat 5 small meals a day.....eat foods that you like and try to keep them down and you wont think about it as much if you only eat small portions every 2 or 3 hours a day. Carry granola bars and things like that around dont drink too much water though because it will make you feel The need to Get sick.
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