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Loneliness...


Question Posted Friday April 27 2007, 8:19 pm

okay.. im so pasinate about god and im 14. I love talking about him and i want to live a god centered life. I go to church but everyone in my youth group goes to have fun with everyone and flirt with eachother which is annoying because none of them like having serious convos about god and make christians look bad. I want to find a good group of chrstians to talk to about jsut everything and kinda like have them as a support group to encourage me to continue living for god. but i feel so lonely all the time like no one really wants to live for god at this kind of age. my mom tells me i have a old soul so it will be hard to find friends that are intrested in that kind of stuff. but it really sucks.. how do you think i could find some people to just fellowship with... and actrually live the christian life and spread my faith with people who actrually care to answer those questions!

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mylordwon answered Friday April 27 2007, 10:37 pm:
Praise the Lord! This is AWESOME that you are passionate about God. He is passionate about you too. Bless you for not following the crowd. That is to be commended.

You may just be in a season where God wants to minister to you, to teach you, and just have you get close to Him, so don't get discouraged. God knows your heart and will provide all your needs; including friends, in His timing. I know it's hard, but stay strong. Practically speaking, there is a place called [Link](Mouse over link to see full location) It's the Christian version of My Space.

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rubbermaid answered Friday April 27 2007, 10:08 pm:
Well, since i'm not christian i don't really know, but People aren't perfect. So maybe they're not as religious as you are, you can't just isolate yourself because they aren't as perfect as how you want them to be. Don't concentrate on what you don't have, like a perfect group that's the same as you, because not all people are the same and it's stupid to feel like you're all alone because nobody is. You're lucky to even be in a youth group now, are you really alone? Concentrate on what you do have, like your family who probably have the same beliefs. I don't know, but i really think it's selfish to think that you're better than everyone else and because of that you need your own group. just appreciate what you have.

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Bey answered Friday April 27 2007, 9:31 pm:
Annoy the comments of the person below becasue this sends the wrong message. It is find to believe inGod and be passionate about him as long as you are not judging nayone else and forcing your beliefs on them. But you shouldn't be expirimenting with things you know are wrong in the first place like the user below said. If you already know what you feel is morally wrong than live your live within those means. Now you are young and although I feel you have your mind made up you should not completly close your mind off from the other religions and aspecrs fo the world becasue you will meet many people in life who may not believe what you believe and you have to be respectful to them as well. But you have to understand that God will send the right friends into your life when the time comes he knows what you are going through and as long as you live right and respect him he will guide you in the direction of the company you want to keep. You may have already founf it because even though people don't behave the way you want them to behave or believe what you want them to believe that does not mean you still can't be friends try to get closer to yourt friends by talking of general things that interest them and maybe you as well and then things will work out as long as you have love and respect in your heart.

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christina answered Friday April 27 2007, 9:30 pm:
Spreading faith is hard. Nobody likes someone else's beliefs shoved down their throats, and no one wants to talk about God ALL THE TIME. I realize you're looking for kids your age, but most kids your age aren't into that stuff. They're all about being athiest & bisexual because it's the new "cool" thing to do.

The most I can tell you is to try getting up a support group at your school for kids are as passionate about Christ as you are. If nobody joins, it's not a loss nor a failure because there are always adults willing to have a good conversation. They get lonely too because kids are too busy with their friends to give adults a chance.

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varsity_prep_xo answered Friday April 27 2007, 9:26 pm:
even if they're having fun with eachother and flirting doesn't mean they aren't just as active and passionate about the christian religion as you. these are the people who are probably most in touch with God at this stage of their lives and therefore you'll probably find the most in common in terms of motivation with religion with these kids. i mean, christians are allowed to have fun... just keep attending regular masses and bible studies when you want to experiance the serious things about religion (i.e. spreading your faith) and make friends with the other kids your age even if they aren;t as interested in it as you. ... you can't really force your beliefs on anyone so you might as well go out and have fun!

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bryanna_banana123 answered Friday April 27 2007, 9:22 pm:
mkayy...it sounds to me like your uptight. God doesnt want you to be his perfect little child...he wants you to experiment with boys and such.....your 14 and you should live your life....you can still believe in god.

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