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going to a party with no friends
13/f
in my grade im like in the middle in popularity. this year i started becoming really close friends with a girl in a popular group. her birthday is coming up and she invited me to her party with her and just her group. there are 6 of them and including her, i'm friends/aquaintances with 4 of them. she said she would understand because it would be awkward. i'm not sure if i want to go. should i go and risk it being awkward? and what are some ways to make it less awkward and uncomfortable for me?
help is appreciated!!
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Go my suggestion is that you go and have fun...ive been in a similar problem like this before and i went and they were actually nice to me. SO go and make new friends and go for her and no one else and if u feel lonely then just tell her and she'll pave the way. =)
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you should go!!
if youre close friends with her then hang out with her a lot and talk to the other 4 girls a lot. this is a good chance to make new friends!!
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If you're friends with 4 of the girls, why would it be akward. Her birthday party could give you the opprotunity to become closer friends and get to know each other better. If you don't really want to go, don't. It might be fun and you never know .. you could have a really good time. If it does tend to get akward, just start a conversation and talk to them. Make sure you talk and just have fun instead of just staning there. Enjoy yourself :]
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Go if you want to
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Whether she's "popular" or not, shouldn't mean anything. No one talks like that or classifies anyone in the REAL world. You might as well quit categorizing people & creating situations in where you would feel "awkward." If you're friends with her, go to her party & have fun. Who cares about stereotypes & whether or not you are going to be awkward with people YOU put above yourself? If you're friends or acquintances with these people, it shouldn't be too uncomfortable. Just be yourself & quit thinking anyone is better than you & that things are going to suck. Have a positive attitude & you'll have fun.
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