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I'm completely fed up- I made it clear to this one guy that I'd been dating that I was really busy and was going to move out soon, etc., etc. I did not ever tell him that I wanted to stop dating, but it should be clear due to these signs:

-He called 3x in one day, I didn't return his calls.
-He calls and leaves a message sometimes, asking me to go hang out with him somewhere..and again, I DON'T call back.

Today, he left a message saying something like this:
..it's a nice day, let's go to the beach after class. I'm a little worried, you haven't called me in a week.

Yes, I haven't called him in a week. When I did, it was only to say i was too busy. POINT BLANK>

HE does NOT get the point! He seems to be so desperate that he'll continuously call me, even when I never call him back. It's been this way for a while now, and I'm really getting fed up.

What to do?? (link)
Just tell him to stop calling or when he calles ignore him because if he does that he is harassing you.


Okay, so lately I have been feeling very apathetic about things like; school, relationships, friendships, and my family. I used to be such a 'nice' person according to my friends and family. But then suddenly my personality's changing, and I really don't know why. It's not an existential kind of problem, but more of 'I don't know who I am as a person' kind of problem. It's been really bothering my lately, and it has been deteriorating the relationships I have made around the people that I really care about. I didn't think that I needed help for this, but it's really bugging me. How can I know who I really am as a person? (link)
Can you look deep down inside you? Its what you mind says


So me and my friends we are really good kids... and we have really wanted to do something i dont know "rebellious" so should we?? we were either gunna drink or go get high or something... but i would just be a once in a lifetime thing though. oh and i am 14 by the way (link)
If your that young you should do drugs.


what is dry sex? is it just sex with clothes on, and is it exactly the same as regular sex? (link)
Dry sex is with clthes, reg. is withhout when the girl gets pregent.


do guys like *it* shaved or not. like do guys kno that girls should shave down there? and how do yu make it stop itching? thanks (link)
Guys dont shave it, If there hair its there if not then no


okay i dont track my period.
so that may be a prolem..

but 2 days ago, me and my boyfriend tried hacing sex.
but he couldnt get anywhere near to fit it so nothing really happened
and i know he hadnt cum before that or anything

is there any reason why i shoudl worry that i may be pregnant? (link)
Well if he cant get in in you then most likly you wont be pregent.


i just got another hair curler, but it wont work. i know its not the hair curler thats not working, cause i've tried using lots of them, and they're all good. everytime i use it, just the bottom of my hair gets like one big curve, but it doesnt actually curl it or do anything to the top or anything, and it's really frustrating. how do i get it to make all of my hair wavy/curly, even the top part, instead of just a curve on the bottom? (link)
All you have to do id get a perm


13/f
in my grade im like in the middle in popularity. this year i started becoming really close friends with a girl in a popular group. her birthday is coming up and she invited me to her party with her and just her group. there are 6 of them and including her, i'm friends/aquaintances with 4 of them. she said she would understand because it would be awkward. i'm not sure if i want to go. should i go and risk it being awkward? and what are some ways to make it less awkward and uncomfortable for me?

help is appreciated!! (link)
Go if you want to


im 16/f and i weigh only 89.9 pounds what are some things i can do to put on weight? (link)
eat more!!!


if you are on birth control and take a pregnancy test, does it effect the test results at all? (link)
I dont think it does but im not sure


i hvae been in a lot of fights at my new school becasue people say im mean and insulting. I dont really know what it is that i am doing. My old school wasnt a public school, but everyone was mean and snooty and i had public school friends, not saying that public schools are bad, but my frends were just mean people.

The people at my new school have always been in perfect litttle catilian rich people everyone is secretly mean to eachother enviornments, where i have been raised[[incluiding mine and my old friends familes]] in mean bitchy enviornments. The girls at my new school are used to being treated like princesses everyone being nice to them, no one even saying sumthing mean as a joke. they just DONT get it.


ive been trying my hardest to not be mean, but people even still tell me that im mean, and i dnt understand, ill say the stupid, meaningless thing, that i say in a VERY sarcastic way, that anyone would be able to tell that i was joking, even if i was sorta serious, but not letting anyone know. BUt everyone takes it WAY too personally, and they dont understand the fulmeaning thats its a JOKE!

like i said try to be nicer, but i cant seem to get that meaness out of me. I have frends, but i dnt want to loose them because im mean, so what should i do OTHER than trying, because everytime i try it doesnt work. (link)
Well i think you jsut try to be nice to them and see how far that takes you if it work write back.


ok so my sister is goin out with this guy but shes denying it..i think shes embarresed or something but its really obvious.i know she is so dont tell me mabye shes not..ok the thing is he never actually said there going out to me.so its kinda like i dont know. but ok i like him alot...is that bad?? i mean like since there supposivly not going out? (link)
Well if your sister going out wih him them you can like bu not as a bf that was would gross


i was wondering what time of the month you can most likly get pregnant and when its least likly, like is it more likley right b4 your period or right after, or what, thanks (link)
You can get pregent at any time i guess. If you dont want to get pregent then use a condom.


On saturday, I went to the movies with the boy of my DREAMS. I REALLY like this kid, and we've been talking for about a month, and My friends and I were eatting dinner outside and my friend made me laugh and i FARTED! and EVERYONE of my friends started LAUGHING and I started to cry because with me, farts dont exsist, like really, if i fart i get SO embarassed and I FARTED INFRONT OF HIM!!!!! And for the past 3 days its been replaying in my head CONSTANTLY and I cant concentrate, i cant go by the kid i like, i am completely mortified and humilated. WHAT DO I DO?! I feel like I need therapy because of it, im about to cry just thinking about it, because since then he's been different, and I dont know how to relax and let it roll off my shoulders! I'M MAJORLY STRESSING THE FACT THAT I FARTED! I know this sounds hilarious but its seriously screwing up my mental health! and everyone is telling me that i should just not even care BUT I CANT! it was SO EMBARASSING! and to top it off, we were supposed to be all kissing and making out that night and he didnt do it once!!!!!!!! THats why i think its different!

PLEASE HELP ME!! I FEEL LIKE CRAWLING UP IN A WHOLE AND DIEING!!!!! =[ (link)
Everyone farts if they laugh well just say everyone farts (i bet they fatr all the time)


i have a crush on a guy named sam.

i have a guyfriend named brett. i think he likes me, but i dont like him. i like his friend, sam. but brett told me that sam bullies him, and that brett doesnt really like sam.

i think brett likes me. brett doesnt know i like sam. i dont want brett to tell me he likes me or ask me out or any of that because i like the friendship we are in.

however, i'm having some issues. i continually lead him on, but he knows that the guy i like isn't him because of things i said like he's in one of my classes where brett isn't in that class.

how do i stop brett from making a move? i love him like a brother... nothing more. i want to be with sam. but i dont want to hurt brett's feelings by having a crush on the guy that bullies him, you know?

please help me... (link)
Well you need to tell the guy you like that you do like him. You shouldnt date someone that you dont like.




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