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Identity Crisis
Okay, so lately I have been feeling very apathetic about things like; school, relationships, friendships, and my family. I used to be such a 'nice' person according to my friends and family. But then suddenly my personality's changing, and I really don't know why. It's not an existential kind of problem, but more of 'I don't know who I am as a person' kind of problem. It's been really bothering my lately, and it has been deteriorating the relationships I have made around the people that I really care about. I didn't think that I needed help for this, but it's really bugging me. How can I know who I really am as a person?
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You didn't give your age but sometimes when your 14 and 15 you start changing. But its just you're maturing in some way and that can effect the way you think. I guess. Because I used to be all about music and now I barely know any of the songs but when I was like 12 I knew every new rock song. I don't anymore though because it doesnt make me happy like it did. other things make me happi. You're probably going through a change that will make you the person that you are. I often really don't know who I am either because I'm still maturing and changing. So don't worry it will pass. haha.
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Close your eyes. Imagine something. A situation. Picture yourself in it. Are you wearing black, white, pink? Is your hair long or short? Whats your hobbies? Form a perfect image of yourself FOR yourself. Sometimes music can help you set the scene for yourself. When you think of yourself in the future, how do YOU see yourself? You will be amazed at what you will learn about yourself sometimes.
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You could try to search for "personality quiz" at www.google.com .
Think about your life and what it was like before and after you felt like this.Maybe you should talk about this to someone.
This kind of thing never last too long.In the end it will surely be allright.Try to understand your life and yourself.Don't give up.You will eventually succeed.
Talk to people and let them know how you feel.Explain to them that they mean a lot to you and you don't want to lose them.
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Can you look deep down inside you? Its what you mind says
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You're not alone in feeling this way because almost everyone goes through this at one point or another. We all at some point stop and look at ourselves and ask ourselves who we are. I've been asking myself that question for years now and I still haven't found my answer.
You're growing up and changing just like things around you are changing and you're starting to question things but don't think of it as a bad thing at all. Just give yourself time to find the answers and they will come to you in time. I've found with something like this there (about who you really are) it's nothing somoene can tell you - it's something you have to explore for yourself to find the answers.
As for your relationships around you the best you can really do is ask them to try and bare with you while you go through this phase but give yourself time to discover who you really are. It's really all you can do but don't let it get to the point that you are starting to worry you're loosing yourself. Worrying about it will only make you stress about it more but I think with something like this it does take time and patience.
Don't worry, you'll find yourself and who you are.
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