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Okay, well me and my boyfriend are pretty close. His friends are my friends and my friends are his. So we all go places and hang out together all the time. Well, it kind of seems like whenever we are together, me and him cant get away from each other! I mean dont get me wrong thats not a bad thing, but I'm starting to think that my friends are thinking that I need to stop being around him so much, and I dont have time for them. I love my friends, and i love my bf, but how can I balance all of those relationships? When me n him are together sometimes we get all kissy and we are hugging and everything and sometimes it feels weird becuase my friends tell me its so cute, but I think they are annoyed. What can i do?
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Maybe find out if they are annoyed first. It seems like it doesn't annoy them much. Ifthey say that it bothers them a bit then you can split your weekends between ur bf and ur friends like maybe on friday nite u can do somehing wit ur bf and then sat spend a day wit ur friens or vice versa. And then somedays you can all hang out as a group as u have been doing, if they wanted to..If it bothered them a lot i donn'tt hink they they would agree to hanging out with you wen ur wit ur bf, but since they say that they wanna i'm sure it doesn'tbother them. I hope this helped :)
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try to balance ur time... cuz they may think its cute now... but eventually they will get annoyed... try to divide ur time wit them... chill wit ur friends on a fri.. & chill wit ur boi on a sat... or vice versa...
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ok well maybe instead of kissing all the time in front of your friends and stuff then just hold his hand or dont even touch eachother just walk with eachother and stuff i mean its good to do stuff like hugging eachother in all but if you think your friends are getting mad then just do stuff like that and i dont mean the whole time yall are together just short periods of time. i hope i helped! tell me if i did! -kayla
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wow u have had a long relationship!! congrats lol! anyway..... dont break up with your bf and set a time wen only you and your friends get together and have fun!! dont include ur bf he will prob understand!! and if ur bf calls u on ur cell answer it but like dont take 5 billion years you no wat i mean? anyway wen you and your frieds set aside time together like once a week everthing should b fine!!
HOPE I HELPED!!
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yeah well its good your still really close after 10 monthes thats a long time! If your friends want seperate attention then they will tell you and stop saying its cute when they're annoyed, its really their fault. But anyway, you should make a girls nite at your house and invite your closest girls and have them sleep over... so you guys get seperate time to yourselves.
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My boyfriend and I are the same way...We like to show our affection...the thing is, other people don't wanna see it...So what I've figured out is that there's a time and place for everything..As much as my boyfriend and I like to kiss and just be all over eachother we know we can't in front of other people...Expecially when we aren't with other couples...So we try and find time to hang out just me and him...where we can be alone and do our thing and not feel wierd about other people seeing...And when we're with other people we just stick to holding hands or hugging and an occasional peck rather then going at it right in front of them. It does make the time that you spend together just the two of you a lot more specail as well because you are always looking forward to seeing eachother. If you are looking for a way to say something to him, I would just find a time when just you and him can hang out, and while you're hanging out just casual bring it up..just be like this is so much better to kiss you here ya know where I don't feel like everyones watching and judging us...I'm sure he'll agree and you'll start hanging out more just the two of you!! Good luck and I hope I helped!
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ask them... talk to them.. the same thing happend to me and i had to talk to them about it
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ok well when your around him and your friends try not to start out so much hanging with him..try going with your friends and when hes with his stay with yours..it seems like your friends are getting annoyed or jealus that he is like trying to take you away from them..but just try making more time fo your friends instead of always him..like even at home if your always calling him try calling your friends a lot to..but dont totally ditch him..cause then he might break up with you..hope I helped! =)
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