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nAmE: KelleY
aGe: 13
sEx: female**
stAtuS: single..and hating it..=o(

advice

well i was going out with this guy for 7 or 8 months and we really loved each other but he started high school and he cheated on me over the summer and a week ago i went to the mall with his best friend and we went to the movies and started holding hands and his friend said he loves me already and i like his friend.. so i broke up with my boyfriend and his friend asked me out and now my boyfriend (ex) is soo upset and he cries over me and he doesn't know that me and his friend are going out.... should i stick with my first love or his friend?

just follow your heart..who do you love more? your new love or your old? I think that you should stay with this person for awhile because you need a break from your old b.f if he cheated on you..and you dont want to make your old b.f think that he can cheat on you and get away with it! hope that helped Ox

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Ever since i could remember my parents havent been exactly intimate i guess you could say. They have always seemed happy together and i always thought they would be together forever. Then a few days ago my mom told me that she was having problems with my dad and that they might get divorced. i was shocked and hurt. it killed me that i couldnt do anything about. and the worst part of it is i am the only one out of my family that knows how my mom feels. my dad and brother are clueless. i dont know how to handle this HUGE secret on my shoulders. how can i handle this horrible situation. please someone tell my what to do!

talk to your mom .. tell her how you feel she'll understand..have divorsed parents are hard..believe me..tell you mom that you need your dad and your mom and that to give him another chance and then maybe plan a date for them or something so they can have a good time and your mom can relize how much she'll miss your dad..

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There's this girl who sometimes hangs out with me at school.The only thing she does is brag, like really randomly and its sooo annoying! She just says random things about how big her house is, how well she can dance, and blah blah blah and i hate it. I'm plain out sick of it and everybody is, and next time she brags to me i wanna say something that will shut her up...like a good comeback. I'm not like being mean, but seriously she's annoying everyone and i just wanna say something witty to shut her up. any ideas?

so she says her thing and you go : wow shut up no1 cares ! your so freaking annoying no1 cares about your house or how you can dance or anything! damn.. and then when everyone is like awww you own her and stuff give her a lil smile to show her your right ! =o) Ox hope that helped lol nice question! need more questions like that in this thing! hah

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there's this boy in school that i have a crush on
but he's popular and i don't think he would like me i don't know what to do i can't stop thinking about him

I had the same problem yet I didn't know that he liked me too but this is the same thing that happened to my friend without him liking her first..well if you flirt with him a lot he would get alil hint and then he will start hanging out with you and before you know it you guys will be going out! hope i helped Ox

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ok, there's this guy that I like...and he (for sure) likes me...and it seems like he is dropping hints on asking me out...like (this is kinda long) he asked me how I acted with the guys at my school (he's in 9th i'm in 8th)I don't rub up all over them and that they grab my butt etc...and then the other night on the fone (he calls me normally on a daily basis) he suddenly forgot wut he was going to say and he was like "it could have been about me and u..."and then another time he was like ' know for sure now that stuff is going to happen between us and I was like stuff??? sooo...does this mean he wants to ask me out...or...wut???

yeah deffinitly..well if he already likes you then yeah..and about that thing about boys grabbing your butt..well if you like him dont tell him that haha. hope I helped Ox

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Ok theres a guy in school who I like, His name is Jake. Hes a grade younger than me. Well Jake rides my bus, everyone thinks he likes me, and I get hugs and he tells me he loves me. But when hes around his friends (most are mine as well) he doesn't act the same. And there are some days where he doesn't even talk to me in the hall. My question is : is it possible that sometimes he is in a bad mood, or are most guys like this? or does he just not like me.

by the way 14/f .... hes 14 as well but still in a grade below.

all boys are like that..I mean all..I dont think theres one boy that isnt..yeah he likes you but around friends hes just weird..dont worry about..if you like him to talk to him! Ox

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hey, i need some advice! someone help me out here. I really like this guy...but I don't know how to tell him. I'm worried that he doesnt like me, what do i do to make it get through to him that i like him without making it straight forward and making a fool of myself?

well you could write a note telling him that and asking if he would ever go out with you..? Ox

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ok well me and this guy are really close friends. i asked him who he liked and hes like no one actually. so im like ok. and then he said to me one night on the internet, promise that we wont fall for eachother again. and im like ok. but i feel like im getting vibes or w/e that he likes me. cuz we were playing bball(one on one) adn he touched my butt a couple of times.(on purpose? who knows) and then hes like u should go to my tourney. and i hope u go and all. so i went. and he kept "eyeing me" like every so often he would just quickly look at me.

so my question is..and i just imagining things..or do u think he likes me but he doesnt want to say..or something

o one more thing when i asked him who he likes he said something like...well i dont want to make a big deal about it, cuz i no its nothing...

signed,
really confused

well I think he likes you but doesn't want to go out..he might figure out that one day he wants a realationship but right now hes probably confused like you and the readon he told you that he didn't like anyone is because he said before that you guys wouldn't fall for eachother..hope i helped Ox

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my friend name is Brittany she has a b.o. problem and ervery1 hates it. i dont kno wat to say ta her wit out hurtn' her feelns' but can somebody pleaze help me out thanks.

i rate very high.

signed confused friend.

buy bodyspray for her for a gift that smells good..and everytime your with her make sure you have bodyspray and if she smells just srapy her

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my ex bfs brother really likes me and wants me to go out with him (lets call him mike) and so does my friends ex bf and hes rlly nice. but i really miss mikes brother and i couldnt stand 2 c him knowing that i miss his brother (lets call his brother bob) and so i miss bob and like mike but hes three and a half yrs older than i am too... and this other guy whos in my english class really likes me 2 (josh) and i dont want to upset any guys or get myself hurt again bc bob really hurt me, its been about 3 months since i went out with anyone bc i miss bob but im way too good 4 him but still cant resist liking him... what should i do??

I think you should go out with josh because for one mike is a lot older than you and like if your with mike and you see bob then you'll just think about how you wouold rather be with bob..but if you like mike better then follow your heart! hope I helped Ox

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Ok, there's 2 people you'll have to know for this there's:

Steph: she's a sweet 9 year old girl, she lived next door to me, and she moved 4 months ago

Adam: He is Steph's big step brother, he's 14. he came every other weekend to Stephs house.

well, I had this biiig crush on Adam,a nd I was soo sad when they left. it all hit me as i watched the moving van drive off, that I loved him, I started crying remembering all the great memories. we've played spin the bottle he kissed me, that was my first kiss. and my last. it was just a kiss on the cheek, but it really ment a lot to me. well, a few weeks after Steph moved, I IMed Adam, and told him I Liked him. we hadn't talken ever since. or at least till yesterday, he e-mailed me. he told me that he really loved me back, and that he was going to tell me in real life, apperently he came over last Saturday, but I was at a biig choir performance. I couldn't belive it, i'm about ready to go nuts!!!I don't know what to do, he lives 3 hours away, I dont' have his phone number or anything. sombobdy please help me, I'll give out 5's!!!

well I say you e-mail him and ask him for his number and then you two can talk it out..tell him you like him soo much..I dont think theres anything wrong with long distance relationships as long as you guys talk..! hope I helped!

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ok welll i like this guy, whose name is Frankie. Frankie is a total skater dude, and i'm well... kinda preppy. The only reason i've really talked to him is cause he sat by me in a couple of my classes. When i talked to him he was really nice.. and sweet. I finally realized i liked him. I really dont kno if he likes me cuz he's so different from guys i normally like.. and soo different from me. Anyways we had this little inside joke thing where we always like wave to each other outside of this one class we have 2gether... and ya.. he always smilies and waves when he sees me and he is sooooo nice. I mean from what i can tell i barely kno him tho... it really stinks. Yesterday he switched some classes and now i have no classes with him... i'm really upset. It ruint my whole day yesterday anyways.. i really wanna talk to him and just get to know him better. but there are some problems... i'm pretty outgoing but i can be really shy around guys and stuff.... Frankie is totally different from me, and a skater dude...... most of his friends totally hate me.... and most of my friends dont realli kno him (and i wont tell them who he is)..... and i have no classes with him. He still waves to me tho. i need advice on how to like talk to frankie and like realli have a converstaion with him or just play around. i'm pretty creative, but with all the problems i dunno wut 2 do.... and i'm just not very bold when it comes to guys... plz help me find a way to talk to frankie!!!! (PS.. in case it helps, I'm 13)

alrightyy..well I would write him a note saying that it sucks you guys dont have any classes together anymore..and when you put your name on it put lil hearts next to your name for alil hint..and then I would tell your most trustworthy friend about him and say to Frankie that you and him and your "trustworthy friend" and one of his friends should hang out sometime (-you can put that in the note-) and see what he says if he says yes then make a day to do something and then after you do something like just hang out or something but if you wanna flirt then ask him how to teach you how to skateboard..if he does fall off lol I know it sounds stupid but he'll feel bad and help you up ! then the next day say to him I really had fun with you and I think I really like you (-either face to face or note again-) hope I helped! I have some other ideas too so if you dont like that one send one back and I'll give somemore advice! xo0 KelleY 0ox

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ok heres my problem.. i like these 2 guys. One is my best friends ex. boyfriend and they broke up a few days ago. Hes a sophmore. And hre goes to Ligonier. (Cord Taylor) The other one is a senior at Mt. Pleasant. (Spank Kastner) I dont know which one i like more. Mostly every weekend im with Cord and we might go tro Fright Nights this weekend. But if he takes another girl then i wanted to take Spank. Spank knows i like him though. His uncle told him biut i dont have the guts to tell Cord. My one friend was supposed to talk to him butidk if she did or not.
I want to go out with one of them that i can havbe fun with. Cause every time i go with friends, they always have a boyfriend or girlfriend with them and im always left out.
What can i do? i need help and alot of advice.

Signed:
Troublesome Redneck

well do either of them have g.fs? if one of them does focus on the other one if neither of them do forcus on the one you like more or have more fun with or you think is more into you and if they both do just be the biggest flirt you can be with both of them until one of them breaks up! hope I helped!

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Alright, I highlighted my hair about August 17. Do you think it would be a good or bad for me to highlight it again? It's growing out so I think I should. Altho, I don't want to burn up my hair.

no thats long enough go for it! hope it comes out cute !

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i have this friend and he keeps telling me he likes me. He said he was in love with me and that he loved my body. He is really nice. People are always calling him gay and mean things. He keeps asking me out almost everyday. It is getting annoying. I keep telling him no. I try to say like i not being mean. (I'll sorta laugh like it is a joke.) I dont want to hurt his feelings. Today he asked me out. He said, "If you go out with me I'll give you a cell phone! It's prepaid and eveything!" I hate to keep telling him no, that i dont want to go out with him. How can I tell him I only like him as a friend and nothing more without hurting his feelings? I dont want thing to be too weird between us.

just like you said you just wanna be friends..that your sorry but all you see him as is just a friend nothing more..and that you dont wanna hurt his feelings you just think it would be weird because you guys are to close of friends..and if he continues to ask just say look I'm not trying to be mean but i dont like you like that and i dont think i would ever go out with you and if he seems upset in like an hour apologize and say that all you see him as is a friend! hope I helped*xo0 KelleY 0ox

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there is this boy in my class and he is like the most popular in the grade/skool....i like him alot cuz hes a gentleman,nice and funny. i am the tallest one in my grade and im like a couple of inches taller than him. i want to go out wiht him...but i dunno kno how its gonna work. He like trys to make me laugh andstuff but im shy when i like someone and i am around them. I think to mayself mayb i have a chance with him then i c all the other popular girls hanging around with me. How can i get him to ask me out and like me w/ my height?(plz give me ur TRUE & BEST opinion)(i hate when u say "he has to accpet u the way u are")(ps..i am not the most popular person but i am wellknown and nice to evryone therefore im not unpopluar but im not really really popluar)
THanKz...sry its long

well maybe you should ask him out..I hate when girls sit around waiting for the guy to ask them out..just go for it..if he says no then he wasn't planning on asking you out but if he says yes dont worry about your height! in my school it doesn't matter if people make a good couple or not..hope I helped!

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Is it wrong to like alot of people even though you know you only love one person. Saying my brothers girlfriends brother. He is my age but in a grade younger. Late bday and all. Now everyone knows. Including him. See theres this kid who knows him, lives by him, and has the same name. He knows me and he told him. Well like i wrote a note to who i reallie love and like he said he will go out with me but he doesnt reallie know me except knowin im his sisters boyfriends sister. Confusin? anyways My parents say i shouldnt be thinkin about boys at this age when im desperate i mean like everyone else is. But im not followin them. Why try to like sum1? Anyways please help me. Should I go out with him not be shy get to know him and take a risk without the parents knowin. Or be a sloucher no risks ever bein stupid no boy and parents that tease you about it even if u cant have a boyfriend. (my brothers teases me about his girlfriends brother bein my boyfriend, and m parents. but i CANT have a boyfriend) HELP

I would go from it..take the risk..and if your parents find out oh well..they cant make you break up with eachother..just get to know him..like whenever your brothers with his girlfriend you can be with your boyfriend..see it all works out..and after you get to know and you guys still like eachother stay together but if you dont like him break up! simple as that hehe =) hope I helped!

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Hey guys! I was wondering, what are some good ways I can do mii hair for homecoming? Thanks!!


*scrinch
*straighten
*half curly pony-tail
*curly bun
*a braided peice over the front of your hair line
*just up with some pieces in the front

hope I helped..if you want anymore just leave one in the box! =) KelleY

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okay im 13/f and me and my boyfriend have been going out for 1 month and like 9 days and we havent kissed yet and i want him to make the first move but i want him to do it and get it over with and like yeah and his friend said that i should just do it but im scared...what should i do?

I was in the same situation..ok well when you guys hug make a deal with your friend or something so when you hug make her say is that all..I wanna see more! and then he'll kiss you! thats what my best friend/cousin did and now we kiss all the time without a care in the world! hope I helped! good luck =) eXoH KelleY

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Okay, well me and my boyfriend are pretty close. His friends are my friends and my friends are his. So we all go places and hang out together all the time. Well, it kind of seems like whenever we are together, me and him cant get away from each other! I mean dont get me wrong thats not a bad thing, but I'm starting to think that my friends are thinking that I need to stop being around him so much, and I dont have time for them. I love my friends, and i love my bf, but how can I balance all of those relationships? When me n him are together sometimes we get all kissy and we are hugging and everything and sometimes it feels weird becuase my friends tell me its so cute, but I think they are annoyed. What can i do?

I Will Rate HigH! ThAnKs!
sIgnEd,
*cOnfUsEd*

ok well when your around him and your friends try not to start out so much hanging with him..try going with your friends and when hes with his stay with yours..it seems like your friends are getting annoyed or jealus that he is like trying to take you away from them..but just try making more time fo your friends instead of always him..like even at home if your always calling him try calling your friends a lot to..but dont totally ditch him..cause then he might break up with you..hope I helped! =)
xo0 KelleY 0ox

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