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okay im 13/f and me and my boyfriend have been going out for 1 month and like 9 days and we havent kissed yet and i want him to make the first move but i want him to do it and get it over with and like yeah and his friend said that i should just do it but im scared...what should i do?
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tell him your really not good at making first moves. Or if you dont wanna tell him that and you just wanna make the first move go to the movies or something, sit next to him, grab him by the shoulder and just kiss him. guys like it wen girls are agressive... its somethin to be like proud of. I know it gets really scarey but just think he wants to kiss hes not gunna flip he'll like it ... and be rele glad u did it. gl
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dont rush things.let it just be the perfect place and timin. you can also talk 2 him..and ask him why havent ya kiss yet..Talk more about ya relationship. Hope this works
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this happened to me too.... i was too afraid to make the first move and he ended up breaking up with me... so i would say just go for it if u really like him! hold his and first then maybe ask him if its ok if u kiss him... or if u really get scared then tell his friend that ull break up with him if he doesnt make the first move soon or something like that! good luck and have fun! :)
~BeCcAh~
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Ok a first kiss needs to be special. Wether it's your first kiss ever or first kiss with him. Listen, do you really want to remember your first kiss as something you did to get over with? Don't you want him to kiss you when he really wants to and feels like, damn i really like this girl enough to kiss her. And if you've been together for a whole month and havn't kissed, HELLO this guy really likes you for who, he's not with you to do stuff sexually(WHICH ALOT OF GUYS DO!). Your actually lucky you have a decent boyfriend, but if you really want to kiss him because you like him alot and stuff, then yea go head, kiss him yourself. good luck
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ya i know what you meen. coming from a guys point of view i think it is wierd for the girl to make the first move on anything. and ya first kisses are scary i remember mine i was so scared i would have ran off but i tolld myself this "you either do it and forget it after it's done or you don't and wonder what it would have been like" maybe give him hints although he may not get it on the first mark but if he knows you well wnough he should get the point. don't be scared cause god is alwyas with you even if you don't bielieve in that stuff. he is.
well hope i helped
good luck
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I was in the same situation..ok well when you guys hug make a deal with your friend or something so when you hug make her say is that all..I wanna see more! and then he'll kiss you! thats what my best friend/cousin did and now we kiss all the time without a care in the world! hope I helped! good luck =) eXoH KelleY
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go for it .. in the movies ...sit in the back
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try making the first move give him a hug and then go for it you will feel so much better after its over
hope i helped roxie xx
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He is just as scared as you are. Just give him a little more time. It will be worth the wait. Just look in his eyes a lot when you are close to him and glance down at his lips every now and again and he will get the hint that the time is right. Good luck... :)
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I am in EXACTLY the same situation. In fact, I've been going out with my boyfriend for...1 month and 2 days. I am just as scared as you.
I don't wanna mess up or anything. Is that how you feel? I'm not going to say that you should just go ahead and make a move, cause I know that it's not as easy as that.
What I'd do is drop hints and get friends to drop hints that you want to kiss him and things like that. OR, this might be more effective, go to the movies or watch a movie on the couch together or something and get reaaaally close to him. It'll happen naturally when the time comes.
Let me know how it all goes.
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well how i see it you shouldnt just do it bcuz u want to you should wait until you are ready!! i no that im not helping that way but wait a few more weeks and if you guys kiss great but i think you should wait untill you are ready and the special time comes!! if you just want to do it then let him make the first move bcuz guys get moody lol or if he doesnt then you sould go for it!!
HOPE I HELPED!!
~MICHELLE
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Maybe you should make the first move! Guys love that, and then yeah. haha Good luck;)
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