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parental problems
Ever since i could remember my parents havent been exactly intimate i guess you could say. They have always seemed happy together and i always thought they would be together forever. Then a few days ago my mom told me that she was having problems with my dad and that they might get divorced. i was shocked and hurt. it killed me that i couldnt do anything about. and the worst part of it is i am the only one out of my family that knows how my mom feels. my dad and brother are clueless. i dont know how to handle this HUGE secret on my shoulders. how can i handle this horrible situation. please someone tell my what to do!
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Well, For one, you just told us! But, you should talk to your mom about it. Even though it may not be easy. Pull your mom aside one day and ask her more about it. Like, having a mother daughter conversation. Believe me, it will take a lift off your shoulders by talking to her! Hope you take my advice, and i hope things get better.
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You know..YOUr mom was a super BIG loser for burdening this to you.
I am sorry but how crappy is that to tell your KId before your spouse.
She needs some help.
You have tot ell her that she needs to tell YOUr DAD first before you....man..i wish I could tell her a thing or two
How dare she unload to you....
She needs counseling...she needs to talk to another adult..not you.
I feel for you...this is super not fair..to you.
This is NOT up to you to handle this..tell you mom she NEEDS to be the adult and GROW up.
I am sorry..i am so mad that my advice realy is stiny..i just want you to know that I am thinking of you..and praying that things get better.
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tell someone, like a friend or your brother, or even your dad if your up to it. I had to go through a smialar situation, and I told my brother, and then after a week of us knowing, I told my mom everything. You feel super guilty afterwards, but it's better to feel guilty because something is out in the open that if it isn't.
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I know its hard that your parents might get divorced but theres nothing really you can do. Just think your parents will be more happy once they are apart. If they are always fighting, just think you wont have to listen to their agruements and fights at night. I know it sucks but it might be for the best. Its not like you wont see any of your parents. Some of my friends have divorced parents and at first they didnt take it very well but now they have adjusted to it. They dont mind anymore going to their dads house every other weekend. Maybe it wont be as bad as you think. I hoped i helped.
*sk8terbabe019*
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Well, it's a big deal when parents get divorced to the children. If you belive in god, maybe you should look to him, and you should know that it's not your fault. Plus if there is a reason for them to get divorced it might not immediatley happen. You might be able to change it. I mean I think that they are drifting apart, and some people think that you can't deal, but one of my friends was in your position, and what she did is she recreated their first date, and they realized they wouldn't know what they'd do with out each other. plus parents get into fights sometimes. and they resolve it too; It might not work in your situation, but I am just trying to help.
Good Luck!
Helping_you!
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my parents got divorced when i was 6, it sucks but i got over the fact because i want both my parents to be happy and their obviously not happy together so.... just kinda wait and see what happens
good luck
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ok, u gotta calm down. i kno its definently shocking and hurtful, but u gotta always keep positive. if u feel like its too hard to handle, then get a diary and write it down inside. that way, uve gotten it off of ur shoulders. divorces are nothing 4 u 2 worry about. just let ur parents handle it and everything will be fine. if u ever wanna im me my s/n is volleyballash101. hope i helped ya!
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give up.
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talk to your mom .. tell her how you feel she'll understand..have divorsed parents are hard..believe me..tell you mom that you need your dad and your mom and that to give him another chance and then maybe plan a date for them or something so they can have a good time and your mom can relize how much she'll miss your dad..<33 good luck
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there is no exact way to handle situations like that, that i no of, besides talking about them...but good luck.
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