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my first love... or his best friend


Question Posted Saturday November 6 2004, 9:34 pm

well i was going out with this guy for 7 or 8 months and we really loved each other but he started high school and he cheated on me over the summer and a week ago i went to the mall with his best friend and we went to the movies and started holding hands and his friend said he loves me already and i like his friend.. so i broke up with my boyfriend and his friend asked me out and now my boyfriend (ex) is soo upset and he cries over me and he doesn't know that me and his friend are going out.... should i stick with my first love or his friend?

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iL0VEo2o3 answered Tuesday November 9 2004, 8:46 pm:
hey...ya'll did go out for a long time..but he did cheat on you. all i can say is, is that you should follow your heart. u no it will probably upset him more if u tell him that ur goin out wit his best friend. but, think about how ur b/f would feel if u broke up wit him to go back out wit ur ex...jux bcuz he cries over you. think about it!!
- SaRaH

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PrEtTyKiTtY0428 answered Sunday November 7 2004, 9:37 pm:
i think u shouldnt be with any of them rite now. since u broke up with ur first love hes prolly really hurt and u dont want to rush into another relationship, especially if its with his best friend. he will be really hurt and it might ruin their friendship. just give him time to get over the breakup and then see if its ok to go out with his friend.

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PerkyPeacock answered Sunday November 7 2004, 12:48 pm:
umm.... which ever one you like more, go for it... but be sure his friend wasn't using you as a hook up i suppose. it'll all work out and you'll end up with the one you're supposed to be with, just follow your heart and make it less complicated.

best of luck

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KiLLeROnDaCourT answered Sunday November 7 2004, 10:09 am:
look what that 1st guy did 2 u. remind him of that. his best friend seems sweet and u should stick with him and ignore the fact that ur ex. cries over u. hope i helped ya!

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P4TH3T1Cx1426 answered Sunday November 7 2004, 9:20 am:
eat a pumpkin.

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bAbiixgurlx3 answered Saturday November 6 2004, 11:29 pm:
just follow your heart..who do you love more? your new love or your old? I think that you should stay with this person for awhile because you need a break from your old b.f if he cheated on you..and you dont want to make your old b.f think that he can cheat on you and get away with it! hope that helped Ox

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MissIiVannaH answered Saturday November 6 2004, 10:41 pm:
You are in a tough situation.You need to think about who you enjoy most of your time with.If you ex boyfriend crys over you is because he regrets messing up and wants u back and might deserve a second chance.And i dont think you can fall in love real quick with his best friend.But it really depends on who you enjoy more time withand trust.but i think you should go with your ex he deserves second chance.GOOD LUCK!

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