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Hey..I'm a 15 year old female. I love giving advice to people who ask me for it, I've been through a lot of stuff so I try my best to answer your questions from what experience I've had. Ask me anything, dont be afraid :) xOx
Gender: Female
Age: 15
Member Since: August 16, 2004
Answers: 22
Last Update: September 13, 2004
Visitors: 1789


my mom recently found out ive been cutting myself so now she questions it all the time and along with alot of other people do! i just want them to back off, its kind of a personal problem. what should i do? pleez help n' thanks. (link)
I kno its hard n it gets frustrating, but your mom n everyone else is just trying to help. They care about you n what happens to you. I had tha same problem n I got help cuz I listened to everyone. Just give it some time n think about how much they really care about you, n dont cut yourself anymore. If you ever need to talk or anything just leave me a message :-) Goodluck hun xOx


what is the function and meaning of the website ebay?
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umm haha tha meaning? i dont kno...all i kno is you bid for stuff..lol sorry..


I have a best friend. He is going to be 18 and im only 15 and 1/2. I fell madly in love with him but my parents say hes too old for me. So no one knows I love him as more then a friend. I dont know if i should tell him, he might not return the feeling. even if he does return the feeling, theres my parents. so should i not tell anyone? (link)
I was in tha same exact position. I told tha guy how I felt n he told me he loved me too. I never told my parents about it, n we kinda kept it a secret from people. I would just say I was going out with my friends when I would really go n hang out with him. Try telling him how you feel, dont worry about other people. I hope things work out for you, Goodluck. :) xOx


k, im the girl who asked the ? about askin my mom to wear thongs. Do ne of u no where the sell cute ones. I jus like to be accesorized. I WONT SHOW IT!! lol. I jus would like to know where they sell some cute ones so when I go to the store, I can look and pick??? THANXS!!!! (link)
Victorias secret :)


Okay...I know a lot of people ask what they should do if they're bad dancers and mostly they're told that they just need more confidence and that they can't be THAT bad. The thing is, I'm REALLY bad, and I'm not just saying it. There have been dances at my school and whenever I go I feel really stupid when I'm out there dancing because I know I suck at it. My boyfriend wanted to take me clubbing once and I had to make up an excuse because I didn't want to embarrass myself! Is there any way I can improve without taking classes? Or is it something that you sort of have to be a natural at? I don't want to have to avoid dancing situations forever! (okay, I'll stop with the drama) Anyway, any advice would help. Thanks! (link)
Dancing is my favorite thing to do in tha world. I love it, I think im good at it. I have taken dance classes in tha past, for years. Whenever music comes on I just dance, lol, it might sound stupid but it makes me better. I go to clubs ALL tha time n just dance away. Try it, it works :) Hope I helped. xOx


I am only 15 and I already have a kid and pretty much my life is ruined.I hate bein a mom at 15 it really sucks.The father of my child is wonderful though.He helps and supports my child as much as he can although both of our lives are pretty much over.I can't stand gettin up every 2 hours to feed her.I really regret getting in bed with the father.It was the stupidest thing ive ever done.I now hate my life.I have a beautiful baby but a messed up life.I ruined my life to fast.I should have waited till I was older and well now I just don't know what to do.I love my baby very much but im just not so sure that i can handle raising a child along with going to school and working to pay for the expences of my child....Plz someone help me.I really need to know what to do.I don't wanna give it to an adoption center but that might be my only choice.I really need some advice so someone plz help.

Desperate for my life back and confused!! (link)
Dont worry, you will get through this hard time. Just be thankful tha father is supporting you in every way. It could be a lot worse. Dont put tha baby up for adoption, I think thats tha worst thing you could possibly do at this point. Ask friends n family to help out if its that hard. I hope things get better for you, goodluck hun :) xOx


hey..i am g0in thr0 al0t latley..me and my bf have been fighting n0n st0p..and its scaring me..but ne ways..im almost 16..and i weigh 115..i HATE triple numbers..i want the perfect b0dy..my b0yfriend says im beautifull all the time..but thats kinda what b0yfriends r supp0sed t0 d0..i want to get down to 99..i was belimic way back in the day..but i was 0n the f0ne with my friend and i t0ld her i want t0 bec0me an0rexic..she flipped 0ut and hung up..so0oo i was like fine i w0nt d0 that..and last nite i made myself thr0w up t0 see what its like..i kinda s0rta liked it =\..well my bf said if i ever d0 ne thing "physc0" it w0uld be 0ver f0r g00d..and i was w0nderin w0uld he n0tice if i g0t t0 99..and if ne 0ne else w0uld n0tice..well i neEd helP! =(..MaNdiE x0 (link)
Yes they would prolly notice. Don't do anything like that to yourself, its wrong. Just try diets n exercising, dont make yourself throw up. If people think your beautiful, take their word for it, its prolly true, 115 isnt that bad for your age. If you feel like you need to do this then try talking to someone about it, its really not healthy to do that to yourself, be happy with what you have :) Hope I helped hun. xOx


Can you still get breasts after you've had your period like 9 times? (link)
Yes you can still get breasts, Ive had my period for 2 years n im still growing, so dont worry :) xOx


Am I bi-sexual, or bi-curious if i fantasize about doing more then making out with some of my girl friends? (link)
Bi-curious, a lot of girls go through this so dont worry. xOx


ok i know i had this questions earlier but i didnt ge tot see the answer to it... is getting your belly button peirced dangerous at all? and also is there an age where you to be old enough to get them peirced. thanx cuz i really want to get them done!!!!
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If you go to a professional you should be all set. Just clean it well n take good care of it. I have mine done n I love it! :) All you need is your parents permission. Goodluck. xOx


Ok if u have sex in a pool or like in the shower pretty much in water and u dont wear a condom can n e thign happen like when the guy busts?!?!?!?!
plz answer and DONT delete!!!!!!



NEED TO KNO!!!!! (link)
Yes, anything could happen, just like if you weren't in tha water. Stay safe n use protection :) xOx


does age matter cause im 13 almost 14 n i like a 17 year old n a 18 year old n my friend is bout ready to get me n the 18 year old out..plz help me (link)
Age does matter but im 15 n im going out with an 18 year old. So you really have nothing to worry about, do what you want. xOx


ok thers this girl i like alot but i dont think she likes me and she makes me so horney and stuff but i dont know wut 2 do \.. i like need a hormone pill or something! plz help me! im scared. its fucked up. well if u need age were 12 in 7th grade (link)
Tell her how you feel, you never kno, she may feel tha same way. You dont need a hormone pill, its normal to feel like that.


lately my boobs have been killing me. they itch sumtimes on the nipple and then the rest of my boob feels like sum1 hit me 100 times. they just hurt! wut can i do and is it normal? (link)
Its perfectly normal, You're just growing


How long should u wait to know someone before you should kiss them?????? (link)
Whenever you feel like it is tha right time :) xOx


is it wrong to be so in love that you would die for him? (link)
No, it is perfectly normal. That's how I feel about my boyfriend, I love him so much and if anything ever happened in our relationship I'd die. I'd die for him anyday. I've hurt myself for him at times. Dont worry about it. Ask me anything..xOx


ok i wrote this like b4 but i was wondering..

see i have a bf namd chris.. who i love with everything i can love someone with.. ive been with him for 9 months (i knew him for 3 years prior to that) and im still CRAZY about him. I want to be with him forever. I love him so much. and im 15. i would die for him and theres like 3 other ppl i can say that about. i lost my virginity to him bc i wanted to always remember him no matter where in life we went. i think about marring him and having his kids. (not now of course!) and like when i think of him ever moving away i cry! like it upsets me that much! or like if something bad would ever happen to him like say he dies.. i cry! i mean i hear ppl on here talk about love.. but i kno im in love. and with the things with my mom and how she doesnt want me to be with him cause he is black (im white) well it just makes me want to stay with him more and it makes me fall more in love with him! its like i dont care what ANYONE has to say about me and him.. i love him and i cant help it. i would do anything for him! and for me to be 15 and think like this.. well when i told my cousin about it she thought i was dumb and that i shouldnt be tied down like that. but i tried to tell her i dont want to be with no one else besides him! i want to be with him forever. and dont think im some 15 yr old girl thats talkin outta her a$$ here.. i never said this about no one and probally wont for a long long loooooong time. but im dead serious. is it ok for me to feel this way? i just want ur opinions. its not like gonna change the way i feel for him if u guys say no its not normal. but i just want to hear from you all.

thanks a bunch
Manda (link)
It is okay for you to feel like this. I feel tha same exact way about my boyfriend, my parents dont like me being with him because of tha stuff we do together, but i love him so much and if anything ever happened to him i would die, ive hurt myself over him before because i didnt like seeing him hurt. I kno how you feel, and its normal. Ask me anything :)xOx


How much will I bleed the first time I have sex.. when my cherry gets popped? (link)
It all depends, every girl is different..You could bleed a lot, a little or none at all.


what are usually the first signs of pregnancy?? (link)
Usually tha first signs of pregnancy are morning sickness, missed periods, peeing more often, etc. Hope I helped.


the guy i am interested in told me that the only way he would consider going out with me is if i have sex with him 1st. i like this guy but i am a virgin i just dont know if it is worth it. what shoul i do? :( (link)
Dont have sex with him if hes just gonna use you like that. You want your first time to be with someone special. It's not worth it. Hope this helped. Goodluck :)xOx




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