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does age matter cause im 13 almost 14 n i like a 17 year old n a 18 year old n my friend is bout ready to get me n the 18 year old out..plz help me
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Hunnie..dont even bother..okay if the 17-18 year old is interested in you sorry to say but its only for one thing...i know from experience trust me!!! Hope i helped
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Well, I think that a difference that big will matter. You're going to have different interests, hobbies, et cetera. School is going to be SO different -- you're probably in middle school and this guy has eigher graduated, dropped out, or is in high school. So that would probably be a problem.
Also, if you're under 16 and you have sex with someone over 16, he can get arrested for statutory rape -- even if you wanted to have sex. If he's over 18, he can go to prison for 5 years.
I really wouldn't suggest going out with this guy. You should probably find someone closer to your own age.
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I don't think it matters at all. All that matters is he wants you for you, not for sex. Age is just a number sweetie. If you like him and think he just wont use you for sex, go for it. Good luck.
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If they want to be with you just for you, and not for sex I think it's perfectly okay. Don't get me wrong I'm not telling you to go against the law but I was 13 and dated a 19 and when I was 14 I dated a 17 year old. Age IS just a number..just be careful what you do with these guys.
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i think its matters now. not in a few years. but by law you cant be dating these men when they go to college. youd have to be a maximum of 2 years younger. so. for like a year youd be able to date him. after that youd have to wait until youre in college. or 18.
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13 is too young to be dating a 17 year old. There is much more than 4 years. When your 13 your going into the 8th Grade and the 17 year old is either a junior or senior in high school and you two are in 2 different places in your life. Also its illegel for you to date the 17 year old bc of the age difference.
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Well , usually 17 and 18 year old's go out with girls for different reasons then 13 or 14 year old guys do you may not be ready for what they want to do with you ..
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um.. . age dosn't really matter but when your like 14 and the guys 18 that would be pretty wierd and you don't know like how experienced this guy could be you don't want him trying something on you that your not ready to try.
hope i helped !
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well age doent really matter, BUT.... he is probably going to want to do more things than you will probably be ready to do, if you do end up going out dont let him pressurise you into doing something you dont want to do!!! hope it all goes well hun xxxxx
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At your age,yes,age does matter!!There are so many differences between an 18-yr-old and a 13-yr-old I can't even begin to list them here!!But the number one thing-IT'S ILLEGAL!!!! It's totally normal and natural to fantasize about or crush on an older guy at your age.But look out for any 18-yr-old guy who will go after a 13-yr-old.His intentions are 9 times outta 10,NOT good!! I know you probably don't want to hear this but it's the truth.Don't worry about it,I'm sure you will find a good guy that's closer to your age!! ;)
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When girls are your age they always like older boys, because they can drive and stuff, the truth is that the older boys most of the time really arent wantin a relationship if you know what i mean, so let him know where you stand on that part of the relationship and as far as your question age doesnt matter, its about how you feel when your with that person that makes a diference! Good Luck! :*:SaRa:*:
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its about maturity level ....if ur on the same level than its fine but if ur not then its not ok
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Age doesnt matter!! But since its illegal.. it wouldnt be the right thing to do!! Just look for guys closer to your age!! Anythin Else Just ask!! x0x!!
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That's not bad as long as he respects you and your body (as a friend I mean). I liked a guy who is turning 21 and I am 16, but he won't mess with me because we are 5 years apart, and because he respects me and my family. So we are so-called jux friends. I hope this helps. Age ain't nothing but a number but beeeeeee careful! Good Luck! God Bless! Beebyes!
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If you feel a connection with the person and feel confortable around him then i think that age doesn't matter. If he's good to you then age is the last concern. Hope i helped.
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Well age can be confussing because it all depends on where the range of age is. Where you and this boy you like stand its illegal. age 14 to 18 is a 4 year difference and thats a big deal, Its illegal BUT say you were 24 yrs old and he was 28 yrs old that would be COMPLETLY normal! So do you see where im commig from? It all depends and in this case its not good.
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Age does matter but im 15 n im going out with an 18 year old. So you really have nothing to worry about, do what you want. xOx
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that's illegal eh
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yes at this age it does, becuase your a minor and he is not. he could get in some serious trouble over you. so play it smart!
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Yes, at this age I think it really does matter. When you are an adult, 4 years is like nothing. But when you are a teenager, its an eternity. If it were me, I wouldn't go out with him. You could get a bad reputation and he could pressure you into doing somethings you dont want to do.
Hope I helped!
<3 Alyssa
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Just don't have sex, it's illegal for anyone 18 or over to have sex with someone younger than like 18 or 16. But other than that, go for it. My guy's 16 and I'm 13, so yeah, it happens.
~Laura~
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Nah you'Re fine.. go foR it!! HoweveR, just use youR head mixed with some good judgement... he's an "Adult", you'Re a MinoR.. which could lead to tRouble! Just be caReful!! Hope I helped!! =D
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if u like him and you have been talking for along time and your parents aprove of it then it wil be ok
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age doesnt matter at all! As long as yur in luv, thats all that's important! :)
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Nope, it doesn't matter but you can't have sex with him until you're 18 cuz its considered rape cuz you are not an adult yet. But lets jus tsay that you liked a 24 year old, that's a little bit too old. Hope I helped :)
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K, no offense, but an 18 year old dating a 13 year old is wrong! The only reason on why an 18 year old would go after a 13 year old is because older guys think younger girls are much more naive and "easy" to get. Which means they only want you for what you can give them...SEX! That would be illegal because hes an adult and you are a minor.
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well i dunno kinda cuz there iz such a huge gap between your ages and yea but if u 2 do go out and do sexual thignz dont tell to many ppl bout it cuz that can be considered like rape or melastation u kno well juss kinda keep stuff to yourself if u do n e thing k hunni hope i helped if u need n e thing juss ask*
Caitlin
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when you get older, age doesnt really matter. but i think at your age the difference between 14 and 18 is too much. an 18 year old is a legal adult and will be into alot of differnt things than you. it is also considered statutory rape if you were to have sex, even if you were consenting. plus your parents may not approve of you dating an 18 year old. try to find some guys in your class, i'm sure there are plenty!
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you need to reword your question because it is so hard to understand what you're asking:-/
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i think it does matter... i mean it doesnt sound like your mature enough to be dating someone so much older... just give it time...
-Ashley
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