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I like like to help people out in hard times or times of confusion because i always have something to say right from the start. I really like music which is where i got my name from...stero child...i play violin..guitar..and piano. My life is pretty boring which is why i like to help people, i kinda brings excitment in my life for about 2 minutes.
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Location: New York
Occupation: student
Age: 17
AIM: stereochild06
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whats that song that goes..."im goooing doooown, im goooing dooown" that something then "my whole iss...upside dowwn" who sings it and whats it called? thanks in advance. (link)
suger we're goin down by fall out boy


if anyone cuts and they want to stop i would be happy to help you if you want. i used to cut myself and i havent done it in a while. i can explain to you why you do it if you dont already know(like why it makes you feel better). but if you want you can im me at blinkbabe2469. or my advice column is xForeverxForgottenx if you want to do it that way. but if you want help or you're depressed then i'll listen if you need someone. i know what it feels like to be alone...or atleast feel alone. (link)
I also think that what your doing is a nice thing i to was a cutter for a period. Any1 who does it can always use a little encouragment to stop which is what your doing. I admire that no matter what anyone else says.


Okay, this guy really likes me and stuff like that. i am starting to like him to, but he isn't the cutest guy ever, what should I do?? (link)
Personally i think if you like him to give him a shot. I know that a cute face is something to look at but the inside is what counts. Whats life without taking a few risks.


ok does anyone know what song this is in..and who its by? and its like rock(i dont its not much but its repeated in the song a lot)
"What I really ment to say...is I'm sorry for the way...I am..." and so on and so forth. if you've hear it then please let me know. (link)
o its cold by crossfade


if you swallow a hoagie whole... will it come out whole? (link)
I dunno...try it and let me know lol


i have a gigantic crush (not love) on this guy. but i know nothing will come out of it. i don't want to like him, but my heart is leading my head right now. how do i stop liking him? (link)
This same thing happens to me atleast once or twice every year lol.There's not a whole lot you can do about it it goes away during time, or maybe you could kinda get to know him and maybe he's not as great as you thought...if your already good friends with this person then maybe you should tell him then maybe the feeling will go away. Sometimes things work out weird like that.


i just got contacts on saturday and i like them alot and everything but the thing is i can't really see that good with them on. i don't know if i put them on wrong or my eye doctor gave me the wrong prescription. is it normal not to be able to see for the first couple of days you get contacts? or did i do something wrong?


p.s.- i always put the right contact in the correct eye... i have it in an order so i know that they are going in the right eye. (link)
I have contacts to i'v had them for a while...maybe there inside out ..you can tell when u take them out because when inside out the edge is more v shaped and when not inside out its more smooth lyk a bowl. If you still cant see them maybe you should contact ur eye doctor.


ok well i have this one friend and she used to get high and drunk and all that and she was really suicidal. i mean she was in the hospital for like 2 weeks. and then i had to talk her out of it again. but then she went edge and didnt do it at all and punched one of the kids who tryed to get her to. but now shes doing it again and its really scaring me. i mean she lives about an hour away from me so i cant really keep an eye on her or anything. and i dont see her much either but we used to be best friends and now were just good friends i guess. i dont like it when she does this but i cant stop her. i dont know what to tell her so she understands how i feel about this. please help! (link)
I think that you should tell your friend that you care about her more then she will ever know and that your afriad for her cuz if you ever lose her life just won't be the same. There'll b this big whole. I'v lost friends but none have died and i regret that we're not as close anymore. But you'll never solve anything without taking action. Tell her if when she's havinga problem...insteada doing the things she does to juss talk to you about it or maybe tell her 2 keep a journal and write her feelings down.


It's something like...
I think I'm trying to save the world from you, you've been savin me too, we could just stay in and save each other (link)
hmm im not really to sure sorry but if i figure it out i'll let you know.


I know the lyrics to this song, but I don't know what the song is called... where should I go to find the song title?

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I'm not sure which website it is but if you type me some of the lyrics i could maybe tell you cuz i know alotta songs...im all about music and hey whats the worst tha could happen.


Is it normal to hate yourself and your life?Like really hate yourself.I mean i would never commit suicide or anything.I'm eating next to nothing lately or nothing.i9'mnot really sure what to do anymore. (link)
I'd hafta say that i know your not the only personal in the world who has hated themself. I don't like me but i also know i wouldnt commit suicide either. Sometimes you just hafta thinka things to keep you going. LIke what you could become one day in the future, what i like tell myself when im down is that when im older and if i become famous i can rub i can rub it in the people's faces that have put me down in the past. Hope i helped.


hey sweetie..question!:) my boyfriends birthday is coming up on sep. 3rd..and the same day is our 6 month ann. my first varsity soccer game and his 17th birthday. i already got him gifts, but i wanted to know what else can i get him..or surprise him with. i was going to hang out with him that night and do stuff with him like normal - but make it all about him..but i have my game..are there any little things you can think of? thanks!!

x0x-dani (link)
After your game when u guys hang out maybe you should get him a cupcake that has a candle in it...something different from a regular cake cuz he'll probably get a cake from him family.


I've decided that I want to give my EX another chance.. But whenever I talk about him.. everyone in my family starts sayin that I don't need him and that he's not worth it..I haven't changed my mind on giving kevin another chance.. I just wanted to know if anyone new how i could get my family to forget about the things that kevin has did to me and how i could get my family to like him...

*~Needing help~* (link)
It's great how your open to your family about some of your social life. You should tell them that Kevin has realized what he's done to you before and he never wants to do that to you again and that he swears he'll change. Also tell them that he cares about you alot...kinda tell your family how happy it would make you to be with him and that if what he did before happens again that you had warned yourself and braced yourself for this again.


ok i know i had this questions earlier but i didnt ge tot see the answer to it... is getting your belly button peirced dangerous at all? and also is there an age where you to be old enough to get them peirced. thanx cuz i really want to get them done!!!!
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Getting your bellybutton pierced doesn't seem to dangerous especially if you have a professional do it. There is a vein close to where you pierce it but the professionals kno that they're doing. About 5 of my closest friends have it done and the worst thing that happened was that it got infected but it healed a lil while after that. I got my nose pierced which hurts alot more but its doing fine.My friends where 15 and 14 who got it done..as long as a parent consaults it then you can get it done. I think you will be fine if you get your belly button pierced.


Am I bi-sexual, or bi-curious if i fantasize about doing more then making out with some of my girl friends? (link)
To me it kinda seems more bi-curious. It would be offically bi-sexual if you actually made out with one of your girl friends. But the one question that you should ask yourself to find out the truth is would you rather be with a guy or a girl?


I really need help... I started dating an ex of mine thursday night.. Well today we started fighting. My cousin told me that he was just using me for sex. and I guess I kinda believed it. but I've been acting kinda shady towards him and he asked why. So i kinda mentioned it to him. and now hes really pissed off.. he hates my cousin.. he doesnt want me around him when I'm with her. and I'm almost always with her. but then hes like I'm going to bed.. I was like dont be mad at me. and he got off.. didnt even tell me he loved me. I'm afraid I really ruined things with him. and I love him more then anything in the world. I dont/cant lose him.. HELP! I'm crying here.. I dont know what to do!! (link)
Some guys have been known for using girls for sex. I think that you should tell him that you just wanted to know because this is something that you really suprised you to hear from your cousin . If he's a good guy he will tell you the truth and be upfront with you if he honestly loves you back. Next time your with him try to withold from sex and see if he starts 2 get frustrated then thats another way you can tell. Hope i helped.


Ok if u have sex in a pool or like in the shower pretty much in water and u dont wear a condom can n e thign happen like when the guy busts?!?!?!?!
plz answer and DONT delete!!!!!!



NEED TO KNO!!!!! (link)
When the big finally happens when your n the pool it is possbile that you can still get pregnant scientist have proven that. Water doesn't give a less effect.


does age matter cause im 13 almost 14 n i like a 17 year old n a 18 year old n my friend is bout ready to get me n the 18 year old out..plz help me (link)
If you feel a connection with the person and feel confortable around him then i think that age doesn't matter. If he's good to you then age is the last concern. Hope i helped.


How can i become a more confident person? (link)
I personally think to become a more confident person you hafta forget and put behind what you think other people think about you or when people say something negative about you if they do. You have to feel confortable in the skin your in. Some people who think they are better then other people make negative comments, but even if they seem pretty on the outside they are probably ugly unlike you on the inside.




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