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love and family
I've decided that I want to give my EX another chance.. But whenever I talk about him.. everyone in my family starts sayin that I don't need him and that he's not worth it..I haven't changed my mind on giving kevin another chance.. I just wanted to know if anyone new how i could get my family to forget about the things that kevin has did to me and how i could get my family to like him...
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well u should listen to your family because they just want the best for u but i understand where your coming from and i think that people should be givin second chances. but what kind of stuff did he do too u if it is something serious let him go or if he cheated on you mutiply times before you don't need him and if u keep hanging on he will think that your easy just let him go there are other fish in the sea as hard is it will be to leave him it will be best if u do hope this helps
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Personally I wouldn't listen to your family if he makes you happy and you have really thought about it and made sure your happy with your desicion.
Well if you tell your parents all the sweet things he does for you and maybe they will reconsider. Im not sure, but dont lie to your parents if he hasnt done things but if he has tell them. Well good luck
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I'm not sure if your family will forget what did he, but try adn tell them all of the good things he does for you and how happy he makes you.Hope i helped.
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Unfortunately, there is nothing that you can do to make them like him. It's all up to him. He has to prove to them that he's changed. If he treats you good, then in time they will come around.
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i feel you on this one.. im going back out with my EX now too.. if you do end up going with him.. you just have to prove to your familly how much he means to you and that hes really not bad. i cant say much more things will fall into place eventually!
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Try talking to you parents and telling them "People always deserver a second chance" And has he changed? If he has just tell them how he's changed and stuff and just be like "I know he's hurt me in the pass, but that was the pass, he's changed now, and I want to give him a second chance because I really like him, and I just want you guys to also give him a second chance.." Just say something like that. And have your EX come over and let your family and you two hang out so they can see he won't hurt you again and stuff. Hope this helps! If you need anything else, just post a message in my inbox.
xoxo Kourtney
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Well, I think that if you really love and care for this guy, you should go for it. But keep in mind that things might not go the way you planned. It seems like your family doesn't think highly of Kevin -- why? Did he break up with you? Cheat? Something else? Think of the reasons why you shouldn't go out with him again. Then decide if you truly want to put yourself at risk for heartbreak. You might just be setting yourself up. Don't rush into anything. Take it very slowly. Make sure that he knows that you want things to be better this time around -- not just the same. Good luck, no matter what you decide.
<3 Holly
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You gotta realize family is suppose to do that lol their gonna see how sum1 treats you and tell you wats n their hearts but if u like him and think he realli has changed tell ur family...hoped i helped
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its great how your open to your family about some of your social life You should tell them that Kevin has realized what he's done to you before and he never wants to do that to you again and that he swears he'll change tell your family how happy it would make you to be with him..juss tell the truth n ull be okayy!
good luckk!!
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It's great how your open to your family about some of your social life. You should tell them that Kevin has realized what he's done to you before and he never wants to do that to you again and that he swears he'll change. Also tell them that he cares about you alot...kinda tell your family how happy it would make you to be with him and that if what he did before happens again that you had warned yourself and braced yourself for this again.
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There's really nothing you can do, it's what Kevin has to do. He's going to have to be the one to step up and talk with your family. If he's done some bad things then he'll just have to prove himself. The only thing you can do is let them know that you're going to try to work it out with Kevin, and ask them to be openminded about the idea. Maybe not accepting just yet, but willing to give a 2nd chance. Hopefully Kevin does make a change and your family won't be closed minded and accepts ya'lls relationship!
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Okay..if the reason you broke up w/ him is a dangerous reason (like he beat u,raped you,etc) then your family is right...i dont think he SHOULD get a 2nd chance. But if its somethin else than WHO CARES what ur fam. says. Do what your heart tells ya! GOOD LUCK! MAKE A GOOD CHOICE!!!
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