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How can i become a more confident person?
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well i have been working on that a lot lately. the best thing to do is to smile! and if soemone says something that you don't like or don't agree with...just state your opinion. Just relize that in the end your friends and family are still gonna love you! plus maybe tyr wearing clothes that make you feel comfortable. Just be yourslef that is the best thing...*Alina
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A quote from an old but good movie called.. eh i foget the name but anyways "Feel the fear and go for it" Confidence/bravery is not the absence of fear, its acting in spite of it. Everyone is afraid theyve jsut learned to deal with it.
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You just have to be yourself and I know it is hard but once you do that it will be a lot easier. HOpe I helped! rate me please!
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This is an easy question because I JUST went through this! Lol I wasnt very confident about ANYTHING! Its just the way I grew up. My mom use to call me stupid all the time never thought I could do things right. She use to tell me that she hated me and told me that if it wasnt for her I would be on the streets because my father never wanted me. I grew up without a father so there was like no support on things that I thought I did good at. I was always afraid of doing things by myself. I thought I would screw things up. Well my teacher started crackin down and started to show me things I was good at! You have to believe in things your going for if you want to get them done right. and once you get them done right you feel so good about yourself! Its like "wow I did that!" You have to FEEL good about yourself! Be supportive of yourself, be confident!!! Dont focus on things that you cant do. Practice them until you get them right. But never focus on negative things. Exspecailly on your apperance! There is no reason to look down upon yourself such as physical apperance! Show your body off! Yor only young once!!Another things is Smile here and there! They say smiling is like the flu its easy to catch it and pass it on! Doing good deeds always makes me feel much better about myself. Knowing I helped someone out just makes my day. Im not kidding! Its the best feeling I could ever share! OK I am so sorry I drug out something so little but I hope I helped!
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Well I will be honest that I am a pretty confident and I do understand where you are coming from.
How do you feel about yourself? Do you feel you are pretty enough to have a guy like you? Do you think that your smart? Is there something about yourself that you just love?
If you say yes to more than 2 are you being COMPLETELY honest. not for me or anyone but you. In my opinion to have more confidence you need to except who you are. all of you. To be honest with yourself and to think more positive.
I have had some really hard times that no one has ever known about and when I was going through those hard times I hated myself and who I was. I thought I was ugly, totally stupid (which I still think) just a complete freak. I started thinking that if I wasn't good enough for myself than how am I ever going to be liked? I started out with the one thing that I loved about myself, My smile. I know corny but I focused on that and and some how inside myself I found that it doesn't matter what other people think this is who I am and no one can change that. It made me so happy thinking that I was me someone different than everyone else and I was special.
So the moral is just take something that you love about yourself no matter what it is and just think positive and be proud of who you are and I am completly sure that you have more confidenc. Good Luck and I hope my advice was of-use.
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kat
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I personally think to become a more confident person you hafta forget and put behind what you think other people think about you or when people say something negative about you if they do. You have to feel confortable in the skin your in. Some people who think they are better then other people make negative comments, but even if they seem pretty on the outside they are probably ugly unlike you on the inside.
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All you need is a positive additude about yourself. Belive in yourself and don't get caught up in what others think about you.
~Hope I was of help~
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You hafta believe in yourself and dont care about wat any 1 else thinks juss stand out for wat i thinks right and dont let ne 1 tell u other wise but most importantant iz believing u can do it!!!
hope i helped if u need n e thing juss ask*
Caitlin
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Just dont think everyone is focusing on you b/c they aren't they are worried about themselves. NOt everyone is watching every little thing you do. Think positve thoughts and tell your self the good qualitys you have. Try to Not be shy when you meet people and just be yourself.
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try readin in front of ppl go to the library and read to lil kids*LOL
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To just trust yourself and beleive in yourself!Latas!
.::Chelsea::.
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Try going to modeling/acting classes... if you put yourself out there it really helps.. they teach you ways to be more confident. I started modeling and even if modeling isnt something your interested in just taking the classes help. i bet that there is a ton of other things you could do. Make more friends and just step a bit out of your comfort zone...
Hope i helped....
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