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guy friend and best friend
my best friend and my best guy friend are going out now which i dont mind but they leave me out of everything we used to do everything toghter but now they are always by themselves or when they invite me i always feel like a 3rd wheel what can i do?
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I was going through the same exact thing till this morning. I talked to my best friend's boyfriend and told him exactly what my problem was. It turns out that's all I had to do. He talked to her about it and she apologized and promised that she'd stop ignoring me and spend more time like we used to.
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Tell your friends how you feel but since they are dating give them some time alone they might appreciate that
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tell them! thats not fair to you but just remember that they are going out.. and naturally they want time to them selves.
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Tewll them how u feel trhats the best thing u can do or else they are gonna ffade away but probably when they brake up they will begin talking to u again and i bet thats wuts gonna happen thats happens alot.but when they ask u to go somewhere then go along but bring someone else so u wont feel so left out.i hope i helped good luck with ur friendsi hope it all works out 4 the best....:)
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Well first of all you should tell them how u feel be straight forward i mean they need to hear it! Keep in mind that you have to be respectfull to there privacy to because they are going out. I can garentee if u tell them your problem will be solved cause if u dont nothings going to change u dont want that do u?
~LEGNA282~
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well if you have any other friends that are also good friends then start hanging out with them and see if your other friends miss you and realize they should invite you in with more activities that they do . or...invite them over and tell them that you feel like the 3rd wheel when your around them! I hope I helped!
~BLONDIE~
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Next time you go maybe bring a guy friend so you wont feel left out. You can all hang out and have fun.
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I have the same problem. I talked to me friend and she was cool about it and every now then it happends but it is better than always!
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i was once in the same situation and it does totally suck. definitely try to bring in a 4th friend. we used to ignore the 2 whenever they started getting all annoyingly lovey dovey and stuff. they eventually got the hint that when they're with us it's time to hang out. save the mushy stuff for when they're alone. if all else fails, talk to them about it! they might not even realize that you feel left out.
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Maybe when you go out with them bring a friend so you dont feel like the 3rd wheel and all four of u can just hang out n stuff
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