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dunno what to do
ok theres this guy that i met online ad we talked and stuff and i sorta like him and he likes me and we talk on the phone everynight now he wants to meet me do u think i should meet him
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NO WAY! Do not meet up with this guy. Most people who you meet online are total fakes! Usually their 30 year olds who take advantage of teenage girls. The pictures youve seen could b fake. Do your parents even know if your talking to this guy? If they dont, i think u should tell them and if u do decide to meet him, bring a buddy along, please. My dad works in Corrections at a state jail...hes seen things like this happen to girls our age. They seem like a teenage boy, sound like a teenage boy, send u pics of a teenage boy..but then they get the girl to meet them and they end up being a 30 year old sex addict who rapes the girl! So please...dont do it!
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lets see im going to take no fo 800 alex. do not meet him IRL. no matter how comfortable you feel, pics are easy to fake, even live webcams can be fakes, though thats harder. tell your parents what your doing and where you going, if you do decide to go. they will most likely forbid you from going and lock in your room which should happen anyways. there are predetors out there online. anyways if you absolutely feel you must meet him then tell a close friend to tell your parents if you dont come back by a set time, that way the police will have something to go on just in case,
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creditials. HUNey. creditials.
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If u do meet him make sure u take someone with u. It can be very dangerous to meet people off the internet so just make sure ur careful and have someone there.
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internet dates can be very very dangerous so if u feel like u really gotta meet this guy then do it somewhere really well populated!.. he could turn out to be a rapist or some pysco .. there are some messed up ppl out there. make sure u bring friends for back up. if he asks u to meet him anywhere like at his house or somewhere not too well populated then forget about it!(i would say meet him at the mall - tons of ppl and witnesses [INSIDE THE MALL])- hope i could help
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sure if u reall like him n trust him also make sure he is the age he says and that u've seen him on webcam kay
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if u really trust him and its something you really wanna do, go for it..
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if you are 100% (and i mean 100%) sure that he is the age he says he is, if uve seen him on webcam then you can get a rouge idea of what he looks like. but if youve only seen pictures of him he could b anybody!!! i would go 2 meet him with a couple of mates - dont go alone thoe!!! he mite not b as nice as he makes out he is!!!
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Well it depends on alot of things really, your age, his age, i personally wouldnt do it, but how well do you really know this guy? You cant trust ppl like you used to able to, i wouldnt meet some internet guy if i only "sorta liked him". Use your head dawl! Good luck in your decision!:*:SaRa:*:
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i think you should totally meet him. I have experienced the same thing you are. I met this guy from the internet and we fell in love so i totally think you should meet him
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sure why not?!:-D
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That's how I met my fiance! But be careful. Meet in a public place, let lots of people know where you are, and try to make it a group thing the first time you meet.
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Well, there are a lot of risks involved with meeting someone in person that you've met online. A lot of times, these people don't turn out to be the way you hoped, or the way they made themselves out to be. I'd really suggest not meeting this guy at all, but if you feel comfortable doing so, make sure you take a few precautions:
-Always meet in a public place, not somewhere private. Don't go off on a private little walk somewhere, because this could turn out bad.
-Make sure a few people know where you are. If something bad happens, and you've told no one where you're going and who you're meeting, it could mean a matter of life or death.
-Don't do anything with this guy that you wouldn't do around, say, a younger sibling. That means no drinking if you're underage, and no drugs. It could impair your judgement and something bad could happen.
I'm not trying to scare you, but a lot of bad things happen when people meet like this. Take as many precautions as you can, if you choose to meet him.
<3 Holly
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If you think you like him and you think he likes you be confident and go meet him and see if you guys can be a good couple. You never know he might be your soul mate.
Jordan
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hey hun ... i don't think that is the best idea in the world ... i mean, just because you've seen pics of him, doesn't mean he is actually that person ... and the voice on the ohone can be decieving ... i don't think it is a good idea
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I think it' ok, but bring a group of friends and go to a public place. I would also have an adult drop you off and make sure your guy friend looks safe. Mabye go bowling or to the mall or something. Better safe than sorry! You never know though, you might meet a new friend.
Hope I helped!
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If you want to meet him , you should but go with a group of friends because you nebver know what can happen.hope i helped.
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Yes, but make sure he doesn't turn out to be some creepy 40 year old who molests younger girls.
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Well.. it can be very dangerous in so many ways. But if you feel taht you truly have a connection with this guy.. then at least take a friend or two or three with you! lol That way if he tries something, you can all scatter and scream!! lol But if you think this is just a crush that you can totally get over, don't risk the danger.Hope this is help for ya!
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Well, have you two seen pictures of each other, I mean do you know its him and not some like 30 year old talking to you? Do have proof of him and stuff? If you do, then I don't see whats wrong with meeting up with him. Maybe bring some friends along to be on the safe side and just go to the mall and be on the safe side and stuff. Hope this helps. If you still need help, just post a message in my inbox.
xoxo Kourtney
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probably not. but if you really really want to then bring friends. i made the mistake of meeting someone once by myself and he tried to pressure me to do things i didnt want to.
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Honestly, i dont think u shud meet him. As u know, its extremely dangerous. BUT, if u want, u can get a big group of yur friends to go wit u so u'll be safe. Good luck!
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Well thats something that you need to be careful about. I think that meeting him is really up to you but if you want to meet him try meeting him in a public place and go with a group of friends... once you start getting to know him in person then maybe it would be better to have your alone time... just be careful
hope i helped....
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it depends on what your age is, if your really young, then no, but if your in your like say in your 20s and feel like you know and trust this guy really well, then i say go for it. I advise taking a friend with you the first time though.
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