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Hey my name is Dana and I'm 13 years old I am a ballet dancer and I lvoe to write poetry and short stories, I have the greatest friends in the world, and they have my back everyday practically waiting for me to fall so they can pick me up !! I love to shop, dance, write, and travel the world. I have been to Puerto Rico, the Bahamas, Mexico, ST.Thomas, Fiji, Tahiti, Australia, Spain, Italy, France, London, and Germany !! A little advice to get ya started, In order to love, you have to love yourself !!

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Website: Dear Dana,
E-mail: ohsnapitsday@yahoo.com
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Location: Newy York .. hArriiSon babii
Age: 13
AIM: mAdE yA LoOk x0 oH sNaP iTs dAy x iTz a nEw dAy
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Member Since: August 24, 2004
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Last Update: August 25, 2004
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i recently moved to a new town and dont know any kids here im going to a new highschool starting 9th grade in 2 weeks but im scared i wont make any friends...is it easy to make friends and meet people there???thanks

First of all just be yourself .. everybody will love you, then maybe try joining a sport or club to meet new people, and try not to be shy, because if you see someone you might want to be freidsn with go up and say hi .. hope i helped

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Hey! okay well heres my problem! School starts in like 10days so i dont have alot of time!! i originally was going to get homeschooled cuz i get teased alot about my weight n etc... but then my mom said no!! I was then going to attend a boarding school in Fresno, Ca.. but that was too expensive.. now I'm stuff with a public highschool or a private school.. im gonna start working on my weight once school starts bu i was htinki9ng fo to highschoo (my reg. one) in 10th n shock alot of ppl!! lol .. but now, should i go to a Private school or what is there any other ideas, alternatives, suggestions??? Thanks alot!! Also, if you go to a private school.. do u think I'd get judged more there or what??!?!?!? Thanks Again, xOxOxO

Don't let them get to you.. I mean id you are happy with yourself and your school stay in public school but if you are looking to lose weight maybe if people see the difference they will see what a person you are theres more to a person then there looks and your probably a nice person don't lose the wegiht if youre happy with how you look but if not try wrking out or eating healthier so all the snobs can see they missed out on a beautiful perosn on the inside and out !

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Do you guys think my mom would freak out if i married some one older than she is?

well it depends how old your mom is and it depends how old you are i mean if she is like 45 yahh i think she would mind i mean usualy people with that age difference don't usually have the same things in common and they do things very differently ..

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Is this Dana L. from mbt. We are lauren and cara form mbt. my user name is bananaboatLC89. Tell me if this is you. If it isnt sorry to bother you.

no this is Dana its ok ...

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I am a mother of young children . You probally dont have any , I hope not . Anyways you are young so I'll see if you can help me ; WHAT CAN I DO TO GET MY CHILDREN TO LISTEN TO ME ? I have to tell them to do something like a hundred times by then I just get mad . Thanks AAWE

Give them an ultimatum like if you don't clean up your mess i'll take away your allowance or like if they want to go to a party or have a sleepover, they should know they have to do whatever you want them to do in order to go out

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Hey, a couple months ago me and my boyfriend got caught having sex. I'm 15 years old and my parents were not too happy with me. They had no idea that I was sexually active before. They grounded me and told me that I could never see my boyfriend again, but I talked them into letting me stay with him, thats all taken care of but how can I gain their trust back? please help..

Try bringing the guy to the hosue while your parents are there, or trty going out in big groups with friends ..

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whenever i walk my left ankle always seems to click! its really loud and people say i should get it checked out, but the thing is it doesnt hurt at all!! what do you think i should do?

You should defiantley get it checked out but it could just be the way something works i your body get it checked ut just in case

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my best friend and my best guy friend are going out now which i dont mind but they leave me out of everything we used to do everything toghter but now they are always by themselves or when they invite me i always feel like a 3rd wheel what can i do?

Tell your friends how you feel but since they are dating give them some time alone they might appreciate that

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my bestest, bestest, BeStEsT friend in the whole wide world jus did the worst thing a best friend cud eva do. She slept wit my crush. She sed she didnt mean to, and basically CrIeD, BEGGING me to forgive her. But how can i? She smokes, and she said it wuz becuz she wuz high. Yur probably wonderin wats she doin at his house in the first place. She goes there to get cigarettes. Its bad enuff that kidds our age shudnt be smoking, but anyway.... So she slept wit him, while i wuz on vacation. I'm jus glad she told me, but how can i ever forgive her? She PrOMISeD me she wud never do this to me, and she did. But then again, i mean its not like i wuz goin out wit him in the first place, so it isnt really my crush's fault. She said He came on to HER, but of course thats wat she's gonna say. I dunno wat to do. I'm jus so glad she told me, cuz she could've jus lied and sed everything wuz OK. But deep down...i'll let the picture speak for itself >:0. She begged me for forgiveness, and i want to forgive her, but i cant. Wat shud i do?

I mean since she probably knew that you liked him which was pretty low, i mean if your friend smokes she might already be bad news but then again thats her business, i mean i think you should forgive her I mean it probably took a lot to tell you she probably really feels bad but if she screws up again I would definatley think about who's screwing who

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I went to the beach today and I got burnt on my chest, lower back and thighs. Its not burned too badly but its sore and I can;t put lotion on my skin feels like its burning off and it blisters then scabs over. What are some thing I can do to help get rid of the pain??

You could use aloe or after sun cooling lotion that usually has aloe .. lol

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does age matter cause im 13 almost 14 n i like a 17 year old n a 18 year old n my friend is bout ready to get me n the 18 year old out..plz help me

Well , usually 17 and 18 year old's go out with girls for different reasons then 13 or 14 year old guys do you may not be ready for what they want to do with you ..

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A friend of mine has recently put on some extra weight, yet she continues to wear the same clothes that are obviously to small for her. While in her bathing suit she said she didn't understand why it was so small, and that it must have shrunk. I don't know if she realizes the truth or if she is in denial.

I am her good friend, should I tell her the truth of what I am thinking, and if so how do I do it without hurting her feelings?

Has your friend been acting differently lately, maybe she has been having some porblems with her family or something ask her if she is feeling ok but if she os fine just maybe tell her that the fit of her clothes may be a little different then she is used to or you could just butt out of it and let her decide what hse wants to wear!

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Ok - I recently got a petsitting job about 3 weeks ago. It's great and I love it!!! But my boss is hitting on me. He's a older guy around his late 40 - 50`s (I am not good with age) And his wife owns it. She is the sweetest lady. Well me and him went on a client interview and somehow he brushed aganist my butt with his hand, I was thinking hmm ok whatever. Then just at different times it seem ackward, he was like after you and wanted me to go first and different things like that. Well when I first meet him I sorta did have this weird feeling in my stomach, but just thought it was nervousness. Well then I had to go over his house to pick up invoices for the clients. And I walked up and he was on the pourch and before we went in the house we were talking and he reached towards my lips and I backed away I am like what what he's like you had a hair .. and reached again well I took my hand and like rubed it across my face I am like oh ok. And that was weird. Well I told my mom about it and she said that that is very weird and everything and it's up to me if I want to quit my job or not. I mean I love it so much, it's just that freaks me out. My mom said whenever I was going someplace and we knew he would be there, she would go with me. But I'm just afraid since he knows my schedule what if I go to a clients house and go inside and he's in there .. or what if he's stalking me watching me walk around the dogs. Whats really weird too is that he always wears sunglasses and smokes cigars. I don`t know what to do tho. Also their was a misunderstanding about one day I was suppose to work and he like curked out on me. Then when I had to go to his house (my mom came with me) he was like calm. It's really weird. What would you do?? :-/

Alright .. I would talk to your boss and tell him how you feel you're probably a great worker s0o0o you give him an ultimatum If you don't treat me with more respect I'm outta here !!

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