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betrayal
my bestest, bestest, BeStEsT friend in the whole wide world jus did the worst thing a best friend cud eva do. She slept wit my crush. She sed she didnt mean to, and basically CrIeD, BEGGING me to forgive her. But how can i? She smokes, and she said it wuz becuz she wuz high. Yur probably wonderin wats she doin at his house in the first place. She goes there to get cigarettes. Its bad enuff that kidds our age shudnt be smoking, but anyway.... So she slept wit him, while i wuz on vacation. I'm jus glad she told me, but how can i ever forgive her? She PrOMISeD me she wud never do this to me, and she did. But then again, i mean its not like i wuz goin out wit him in the first place, so it isnt really my crush's fault. She said He came on to HER, but of course thats wat she's gonna say. I dunno wat to do. I'm jus so glad she told me, cuz she could've jus lied and sed everything wuz OK. But deep down...i'll let the picture speak for itself >:0. She begged me for forgiveness, and i want to forgive her, but i cant. Wat shud i do?
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Well I can see where you're coming from. My best friend's older sister slept with my boyfriend. And my best friend got kissed by him, claiming he came onto her. I forgave my friend, because she pulled away, but I won't forgive her sister because her sister knew he was mine and did it anyways because she knew it would upset me. I felt horrible. But I'm trying to put it behind and forgive her. He wasn't your boyfriend so you shouldn't be so upset that you won't talk to her again. It wasn't right for her to do that but don't let it ruin your friendship. Just make sure she doesn't do it again because if she does then you might have a reason not to be friends with her. But don't sweat it. It's okay to be upset, but just tell her how much it upset you and give her forgiveness and see where it goes from there.
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were you going out with him? no. do you own him or her? no did you ask her not to do anything with him? im guessing no. the fact that she promised not to do this to you does make me see your side of the story so im sorry i was harsh on you, but still that isnt unforgiveable. forgiveness isnt an emotion it is an action, you are in control of it if you want to forgive her you can. the thing is if she was stoned then her judgment was seriously impaired. My friend did it with another guy once when he was stoned and hes been feeling dirty about it ever since. now im not saying what she did was OK, it definitly was wrong, however it isnt something worth ending such a clsoe friendship over.
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yes forgive her cause he's just a crush she's a friend and if she really is sorry then and she told u on top of that.but it seems like if she feels really bad and gurls tend to kinda beleave there crushes more but maybe he did come on up her but they were "High" so u will never no anywayz its not like he went with u but she seems really sorry i think u should 4give her even though that is fucked up buts its not like she did it while ur were with him or anything.im sorry if i was kinda mean but i hoped i helped a lil.
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I'd have to say that you shouldn't forgive her. I'm sorry it has to be that way but she deserves it. What she doesn't deserve is a great friend like you. It's hard enough to keep friendships together today with sex among young teens on the rise but to give in to it all and have her do that with your crush just isn't right. It's not the friend thing to do and if she was really your friend she wouldn't have done that.
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I wouldn't forgive her. She could have said no, and she should have been responsible and respected your feelings. If you REALLY want to forgive her, and you've, like, been friends since 1st grade, you probably oculd, but tell her to stop smoking or you won't forgive her.
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I mean since she probably knew that you liked him which was pretty low, i mean if your friend smokes she might already be bad news but then again thats her business, i mean i think you should forgive her I mean it probably took a lot to tell you she probably really feels bad but if she screws up again I would definatley think about who's screwing who
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woah.. this is defintely alot of drama.. ur friend doesnt sound like a good friend to me n sounds like she has alot of promblems n needs to get help..if i were you i wuld lose the boyfriend b/c he cheated on you! n i dont know if u shuld 4give ur friend its ur call... but ur friend shuld really gets sum help wit the whole smoking n getting high thing...
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She should have respected you and known that you liked him. You should just talk to her and let her know your feelings and i think you should try to forgive her but if it happends again I would not forgive her that easily. Hope I helped! And good luck!
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If i were in your shoes i'd be really pissed off too.she did tell you though and you have to give her alot of credit for that.I mean most girls i know would just lie about it.You werent going out so thats a good thing otherwise that would just be really mean.If she begged you for forgiveness i think that really means she doesnt want ot loose you as a friend.All friendships have hard times and good times.You should try and get all your anger out and forgive her.Maybe not right away but soon try to.hope i helped.
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Well she was nice to tell you but real friend dont do crap like that if shes always been there for you then 4 give her but if she always does stuff like this juss let her go slowly..hoped i helped rate plz
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