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i don't want to like him
i have a gigantic crush (not love) on this guy. but i know nothing will come out of it. i don't want to like him, but my heart is leading my head right now. how do i stop liking him?
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Well, I find that the easiest way to get oveR someone is to find someone new; new infatuations aRe fantastic Remedies. Goodluck; I wish you the best! Hope I helped!! =D
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Well, you said yourself it's only a crush. A big one, but a crush. So I'd let it pass you by. Someone else will come along sooner or later (hopefully sooner).
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well ok, you just can't make yourself decide that your not going to like someone all of a sudden! you have to give it some time, and just try to not think about it anymore, make youself believe that you have no future with this guy, and it might take a while and it will be painfull but you just have to say no to yourself, and thats the only way to get rid of your crush
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Well, you can't control who you like. I know how you feel, and yeah..it sucks. But you can't let it get to you, maybe you could find some things you don't like about him and think about those when you are thinking about him. Just try and move on to different guys..but yah, thats all I can think of..good luck! <3 Katie
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You don't. You can't help who you like.
-xXoBrianna
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This same thing happens to me atleast once or twice every year lol.There's not a whole lot you can do about it it goes away during time, or maybe you could kinda get to know him and maybe he's not as great as you thought...if your already good friends with this person then maybe you should tell him then maybe the feeling will go away. Sometimes things work out weird like that.
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Its hard to stop it but all you haver to do is stop hanging out with him or hanging around him. And dont talk about him to your friends. After a while the urge of likeing him will go away but the urge to like him will come back once in a while if you just got over him and you go to hang with him. But that will soon go away to. Well i hope iv helped a llittle dont be afraid to write back.
Signed
Short N Punky
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I had the same problem a little while ago. I created this treatment for myself called the "Davis" treatment, because that was his name. I just swore to myself that I wouldn't look at him, or say his name in conversation for a week. The next week, I swor to myself that I wouldn't THINK about him as well. By the next week, I'd forgotten about him entirely. try it!
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I went threw the same problem last year..and for some reason..I still like the guy, but I just don't have feelings for him..its very strange..life is fulled with a lot of complicated stuff..I tryed getting him off my mind by hanging out with other friends, family and doing stuff around the house and joining activites..summer of 2003 I finally got him off my mind...and when it came to the school year..I had changed my lunch period to an earlier lunch period in November..and I found out he was in the lunch period..so for some reason all the stuff I waste my time on over the summer forgettin all about him..came back to me..so you just have to try and keep him off your mind..(trust me this summer I didnt even bother forgetting about him bc I knew I was gonna have the same lunch w/ him again..and ha! here it is 1 week before school starts..and I find out I might be switchin to an earlier lunch..and the one im switchin to is the one he is in..so yeah eekk..(5th year with him..and its a bit of hell! lol)...just try and keep your mind off of him...and focus on studies and all! - hope I helped
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well i had the same problem the only reason y i liked him was cause he was really fine.but u can just act like he isnt thurr when u see him
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Find another guy get 2 kno em n then the sooner u start likin him the sooner youll get ur mind off of this guy
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crush on a new guy, ha ha!
No, just simply ignore him as well as you can and if it doesn't work, try other activities to take your mind off him.
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try to find a guy and get to know him and start flirting because maybe you guys would really hit it off
-hope i help
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i no how dat is!!! well, unfortunately there's really nothing u CAN do. maybe u'll find someone new since it's not love. but u can't MAKE urself stop liking them. BELIEVE ME!!! (i've tried) hope u get over him!
~Reenie~
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i always think you should follow your heart and not your head... and there really is nothing you can do to stop liking him... if you like someone you can't help it... just follow your heart.
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Just dont look at him.Dont talk to him.Have nothing to do with him.Lol hope this helped!Much <33
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find another guy and get to know him and like him better so you'll forget about the guy.
*hope this helps*
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That is a toughy. But it's normal. Most girls go through it... *sighs* All you can do is look at other guys. It'll take some time, trust me. There is a difference between dream and reality. And sometimes you have to go for the reality. My suggestion to you is...yeah, just look around, and see what else is out there. YOU ARE allowed to like more than one person.
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Throw away everything that reminds you of him like his name on papers and pictures. I used to have a big crush on one guy and I just tried to thinking of him. It took a while but when ever I saw him in school, I'd just walk by him and pretend like I never liked him. Hope this helps and good luck :)
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