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hey, im making an xanga cuz i like to mess around with profiles and stuff. but like what is it used for and what can i do to spice mine up with out downloading things. or like how do i put better things in it. but is it just to like write journal entries in? or is there more u can use it for.. (link)
northstarr is right, www.buddyprofile.com is perfect. They'res so much stuff u can do.


Ok, i found this tube of lip gloss from when i moved about a year and a half ago. Do u think it's ok to use it? (link)
Yeah, lip gloss doesn't expire. But don't use it if it has nasty crap in it.


hey gurlz,
how can i make time to change my tampon at school? i never have time in between classes, and i dont like to leave the class w/ my purse b/c everbody would know. i usually don't put stuff in mypurse b/c all my friends go through it. i usually ut stuff in my lunch box, and change during lunch. can any of u give me advice on how to manage it?
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Between classes tell your teacher u need extra time. She'll understand, you're a girl. If u need to change during lunch, you could wait for everyone to leave or just change. When u say "manage it" if u mean not being made fun of, u wont. ALL girls get their period and girls won't make fun of u. ( i didn't no wut u meant) well hope i helped


should i change my look from preppy 2 punk 4 a guy? (link)
No, you shouldn't change who you are for a guy. You know why, he'll know it's not the real you, and that would make him dislike you. Just be yourself, and the best you can be. Stick with your friends, there's other guys out there. Boys really don't matter, why do they anyway??? Someday, you'll find someone that you can be yourself around. BUt that guy isn't.


I'm so confused. I hang out with my friends and stuff but I don't really have a best friend. I feel like when I'm with my friends I'm just a third wheel or somebody thats just there. PLease give me some advice people! (link)
It's ok not to have a best friend!!! You just don't like to pick favorites and that's fine. You aren't hurting anyone. And if your friends hang with you, you're improtant to them , don't worry.


does anyone know any eyeshadow colors that would look really nice on a dark haired gurl? my face is sorta red all the time too so i duno why tho lol but i heard blue looks really bad on all blondes, but i have a silver and it looks cute.. any others? please!! (link)
A light purple or a sheer pink. Maybe a smoky color.

Morgan


in writing we are writing biographies..does anyone have any good ideas on who i could do a biography on?

thanx
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It depends on what YOU'RE into. Are you into history?? Write about a historic person. Is you're best friend interesting? Write about her. Write about a family member, just anyone you think is interesting!


is it ok to flirt with guys if ur goin out with someone? (link)
yes, thats ok if you dont go too far with it. Be careful though, you might break someones heart.


I didn't know what category to put this is... but what are your opinions on tall girls.. I am 13 and 5"8" do u think thats weird cuz im starting to feel self consious but every1 is sayin its good cuz i can be a model.. any thought? think boys will like me or be intimdated? (link)
i know how you feel! I'm 13 nd 5'7. It does kinda suck, but the boys will catch up to you. All the girls are short in my grade and they have boyfriends. But they should catch up yo you. Tall is a pretty thing, even though it may not seem like it. I'd rather be tall than short. Hang in there and the boys will catch up to you, now just enjoy being the tall you.

If you had major growth recently u should be slowing down by now.


How do u know u are really ready for a boyfriend? (link)
there really isn't a way to tell. You just have to try it, if you feel you aren't ready, you're not ready. Just follow your heart.


one of my good friends told on me and my other friends for drinking and smoking weed to her mom, even though she was there and did it too. now i am in big trouble and its because she told on us! how do i confront her about it? (link)
She might have been trying to protect you. Maybe she got scared when she heard you did that and she told. I thik she told on you cuz she luvs you.


Ok i've been dating my boyfriend for 3 months and all we've done is makeout everytime he goes down my pants, he pulls out his hand really fast. and i shave so i dont know whats wrong. what should i do? (link)
Maybe when he goes down your pants he thinks you aren't ready, or maybe he's not ready. That's maybe why he does that.


What are ways I can get taller? I'm 14/m. (link)
Sorry dude, you can't make yourself get taller. Oh, don't drink coffee, I heard it makes you shorter. But Idk for sure. Wear shoes that make you look taller, lol


WOW i really need ur help u see i have this mom that is drivin me up tha wall and i have no idea whut to do i tred everythigna dn no matter whut i end up grounded! i need someones help b4 ifreekin get grourned again !

SO plz help me
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I don't understand what is going on or what you did wrong. Talk to you dad? Maybe he'll talk to her for you. Or explain to her, "Mom, Please stop" and explain why. I'm sorry if I didn't help, but I tried.


well see, my friend Ricky like just broke up w/ his gf. And he was really into her. I mean REALLY. he loved her more than anyhting in the world. And now she broke ^ w/ him for another guy and hes soo fuckin depressed now. he started to cut himself again ((which he hasnt done once since they went out)). And hes attempting suicide. Im so scared idk what to do. And im mad cuz mad becouse i cant do anything. so if u guys have any ideas please tell me. im desperate. i dont want him to die..... (link)
Oh my god, you need to tell somebody right away. If he's cutting it could lead to suicide. Tell a parent, his parents, or at least someone! If she broke up with him, she's not right for him. Someday he'll find someone, but now he needs help. So you need to tel someone, and you could save a life.


ok my best friend got her nipples priced by this guy (not a professinal) but the thing is his done alot of pircings on ppl...o yeah were all 15...but she doens't know if he did it right or not my boyfriend is suppose to look at it n let her now..but wat should she do to keep it clean n stuff like that... (link)
First of all, she should have gotten it done by a professional. They use clean seril equiptment and they give you clean stuff. Go to Claire's or something and ask where your friend can get cleaning stuff. I'm not sure, but I think rubbing alcohol works. But I'm not positive, you'll have to ask sumone.


I really want my nose and ears pierced. The problem is Im scared of needles. I've had my ears pierced one but I took them out because I didnt like them. I was about 10 then. And Im 15 now. Does anyone here have there nose pierced? And can you tell me how bad it hurt and the proceduce. And if you're scared of needles how you delt with it? Thanks!! (link)
Ugh, I hate needles! Close your eyes when they're about tp pierce your ear. Trust me, if you close your eyes and hold someone's hand, it'll be over bfore you know it. The nose? I don't have it pierced but I need to be honest. I head it does hurt a little. But do the same with my ear pierce advice.


Ok, theres this guy I like and ive liked him for a long time. This summer though, he would be kinda mean, but then he would ask me out...then so far this school year, he stares at me during class, but he goes and asks some other to homecoming...Does this guy like me or not. Please help me figure this out! (link)
That's Hard. IF he stares at you, maybe, if he asked another girl, high doubt he likes you. Could it be he wants to make you jealous or angry? You said yourself he was mean. Maybe find another guy, I don't know if this one would work out.


What do you think is the scariest movie you have ever watched... I need some ideas for some really scary movies (link)
The Grudge (in theatures) Texas Chainsaw Massacre, Ammityville Horror, Exorcist, The Ring, Halloween, Nightmare on Elm Street, Audition, Freaks, Saw (theatures), Have fun!


Ok, don't think I am crazy or anything, I just DO NOT like scary movies. I end up thinking about them long after I have watched them. Now, I know the best idea is not to watch them, but unfortunatly I don't always have that choice. Any good techniques besides the simple "Remember that it is fake?" Thanks (link)
Well, you don't HAVE to watch them do you? If it's a party maybe take your bff in a room and talk to her while veryone watches the movie. And it IS fake. Just some goofy guy trying to scare you. MAybe after the movie watch a really funny movie. Also, watch th movie, and ask a friend who's seen it let you know when a scary part is coming so you can leave. Also, sometimes it's ridiculous. "Ok, there's a killer on the loose, it's pitch black, my flashlight doesn't work, let's go for a walk!" When you think about it, they're stupid. ANd think of the things that scares you in a funny situation.




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