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My boyfriend: everytime he goes down my pants, he pulls out his hand really fast... Why?
Ok i've been dating my boyfriend for 3 months and all we've done is makeout everytime he goes down my pants, he pulls out his hand really fast. and i shave so i dont know whats wrong. what should i do?
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Maybe when he goes down your pants he thinks you aren't ready, or maybe he's not ready. That's maybe why he does that.
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ask him is something wrong he should tell you
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hey..maybe the guy is just scared...you know maybe he dosent know wut he doing..or sometimes..hes might not want to seem like a nasty person..if its kewl with you that he goes down your pants just say its ok..or to make it better just grab his hand and push it down in to your pants some more...witha sexy look on your face...maybe he will be more confident after that..you naw mean?..well peace out and be safe
--Pinoy Boi
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Maybe he's just scared, or doesn't want to seem nasty or dirty to you. If indeed you do want him to "go down your pants", you should tell him that it's okay. Maybe he doesn't want you to feel wierd, I mean, you've only been together for 3 months. Good luck.
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hmm..maybe he's scared he'll do sumthin wrong or hurt u..its prolly not u he's prolly jus nervous about wut ur reaction might be..and maybe he doesn't even realize he's doin it..it might jus be a natural reaction..or maybe he thinx u dont want him to do it and he's waitin for u to tell him its ok..so next time he does that just tell him its ok and uwant him 2! xO--cOurt
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PROBABLY HE TOLD HE HAD MISS RESPECTED U. AND DIDN'T WANT TO HAVE SEX. OR PROBABLY HE JUST WANT TO WAIT SOME MORE TIME BEFORE BEING SEXUAL TOGETHER U MIGHT NOT BE THE PROBLEM IT MIGHT BE HIM. HE PROBALY WANT TO KEEP THINKS SLOW FOR KNOW.. GOOD LUCK~!!!!!!!! GIVE HIM TIME
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u prolly shouldnt do anything he prolly just might not notice that his hand is down ur pants until a minute later then realizes its not right and pulls his hand out!! but im sure its nothing bad...he just might be a lil emberassed or something.*-x-*Aimee*-x-*
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Maybe your guy is a little scared. Maybe he is still a virgin and gets embarrassed easily. He probably thinks hes undeveloped or something and gets a little scared that if things go to far, that you'll make fun of him because maybe he doesnt have that large of a pe*is
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maybe hes nervous ... like a wuss to touch u... u should put ur hand down his pants... tease him and show him ur not nervous... and if him being nervous is the case den he'll think well if she can do it so can i =] i mean dats if u want him to touch u.. lol i wouldnt mind ;]
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umm ask him wht is the matter...this will seem really acward but ask him then after he tells u (if he does) then try nd improve...
Good Luck hun x3
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Ask him why he does that. I believe that he is afraid or shy. When he gets close, he just holds back and maybe feels embarrassed. Talk it out like a couple should.
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Shaving might be the problem. After all, a woman's body is SUPPOSED to have hair, and maybe you just don't feel the way he expected.
I don't think hair matters - if it's there or not. Maybe he's never done this before, maybe he doesn't realize girls get wet, maybe he's just really nervous. Maybe he doesn't want to go that far, but feels pressured.
It could be any number of things. If you're at a point where you're letting his hands down your pants, then you should be perfectly able to ask him what's going on. Don't ask in the heat of the moment. Make it a neutral time and place, and then just ask why he seems uncomfortable.
Good luck.
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Your boyfriend wants sex. This is his way of showing you he's ready but he's not sure you are. If you are, go ahead and try it! ~*Jenni*~
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well maib like when u guys are hookin up nd shiit its maken him hornee or whatever nd liike he wants ta dO it but he aint sure if u want him too nd maib he jus gets nervus !! hope i helpd xoxox Jessi xoxo
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hey you should wait alil bit. Maybe hes just bein shy and doesnt want you to think hes using you or movin to fast!! maybe give him signs to keep going
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maybe he is shy and don't know if u will let him so next time u guys plan on doin this and he starts to go down ur pants tell him that it is alright and u will let him and of thats not the reason ask him y he does it i know that it is a weird ? but tell u were wondering
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The reason why he pulls out his hand is because he thought he was ready but then he got nervous! You should talk to him and ask him why he is nervous! He'll eventually cool down and not be nervous any more! Hope I helped :)
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Could it be that he's nervous, not ready, or think that you shaving is freakish? It does happen.
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