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My life is pretty boring..i work all the time and talk to my boyfriend(although thats not really boring) i go to school, fun stuff..i like to help people out as much as i can!i love my friends and my boyfriend to death. I dont really like much attention though i do complain a lot..oh well..im pretty crazy and out going. i'll tell you whats on my mind usually with out thinking twice..
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There's this guy I like and i thought he liked me too. But then my friend had to go and mess everything up. She ran up to him and started bugging him and told him I was in love with him (which I'm not-I just like him). And now he's acting all weird around me. What should I do?
(I'm 13 and in 7th grade and I'm a female)
PLEASE HELP!!
Well if this guy is acting weird around you then its not worth it...Just make sure your not mad at your friend...guys come and go in your life but your friends will always be there for you no matter what! just remember that..i wouldnt worry to much about the guy trust me your only 13 there will be MANY guys in your life! im 16 and i've had tons of boyfriends and believe me i havent even been in a real serious relationship until my freshman year in high school..so dont worry to much...just keep cool and dont let him know it bothers you and try not to care that much...things will happen as the way they are supposed to happen!
Ok I feel really weird about this. Ok how do you know if ur gay or a lez or if you're bi? Well cuz I mean its not like girls turn me on or anything its just the fact like I tend to look at girls boobs and butt and sometimes its like damn I wish I had that... but I mean I have sex a lot with guys so does that mean I am BI?? Please HELP ME!!!
it doesnt mean that your gay or lez just because you do that..maybe you just look to see what you maybe dont have? or the fact that maybe you really wish you had other people's bodies because your not happy with yours..if a girl dont turn you on then i dont think your lez
does age matter cause im 13 almost 14 n i like a 17 year old n a 18 year old n my friend is bout ready to get me n the 18 year old out..plz help me
Hunnie..dont even bother..okay if the 17-18 year old is interested in you sorry to say but its only for one thing...i know from experience trust me!!! Hope i helped
what does bipolar mean?
Bipolar is a type of depression..its where your mood changes rapidly like your happy one second and completely mad or sad the next..its a mood dissorder kinda..if your wanted to a lot more about it check with a doctor...hope i helped
is it better to wear tampons during your period if your a cheerleader or pads??? plz help!
Its better to wear tampons definetly...but only if your body doesnt reject them then its fine to wear them it all depends on your age...hope i helped
My boyfriend and i had sex the first time last week. Now we are doing it w/out the condom. He says that he has his cum under control and he knows when it is comming out. So he said that when it comes out or feels like it he will get out of me and wipe it off. He said w/out cum you can not get pregnate b/c with cum it has the sperms. Now is this true or is he lying to get me pregnate. Please help Me!!!!!!! :*(
You can trust your guy...hes telling the truth..You have to have the cum in you to get pregnate because thats what has the sperm..so your cool dont worry..Hope i helped!
Yea ok i like this guy a lot... and he used to like me... i don't know if he still likes me.. we live like really close together. i really wanna tell him my feelings for him but i don't want to sound so suddle.. he told me he is looking for a really hott and caring g/f. i don't consider myself hott but i do have a lot of the traits he is looking for.. he is such a great guy and i really want to tell him the way i feel. i have known him sense we were in 1st grade and he is the best guy. we were going to go out 2 times before and i just wasn't ready i kind of led him on.. i don't want to do that.. i want to show him i am for real and i don't want to mess this up this time.. what do i do?? how do i tell him?? i don't know how to even act around him anymore... PLEASE HELP ME!!!
Trust me..telling someone that you have feelings for them is one of the hardest things in the world to do!...Well if you have a hard time telling guys how you feel to their faces try writing a letter to him and explaining what happened in the past..and how you feel for him now..and hopefully the feelings are mutual and something will happen...Best Wishes
ok listen to this crap.. i am like almost best friends with my ex b/f and i mean i feel like he is just dragging me a long.. i tell him straight up how i feel about people because i mean thats what friends are... but when i ask him if he has feelings for someone he lies right to my face and is all like no im just seeing what she'll say or man im just playing her or something.. he says hes looking for a real relationship but then he says all this crap like oh yea im just foolin with people.. why would u just want to ruin ur life like that?? i mean been there done that and i mean i have ruined my life doing stupid stuff but i am turning it around trying my best to be me.. but i mean what do i do?? do i just like smack him into reality and tell him its bound to happen someday that he will have a girlfriend and be as happy as we once were or do i just sit back and see what happens??
Well you can try talking to him about it...but hes a guy so he prolly wont listen very well and if he dont take your advice then just sit back and let things flow like they should flow..and let him learn from his mistakes! thats all you can really do...try to be a good friend by talking and then sit back and see if he takes it all in...good luck!
i know this is really long.. but i really need help.
okay.. me and my boyfriend of like 2 yrs just broke up about 3 weeks ago. we were always the couple that everyone said "are going to get married.. they belong together" and we were SO CLOSE! there was never a day that we didnt talk fool around or just love being with eachother. we broke up and things were a little weird for like a week.. but now its just like were best friends again. and its weird bc sometimes its even like were still a couple. we always talk and laugh and fool around.. and i miss it. sometimes i still want to be with him but other times i just love being single and i think maybe its the best for the both of us.. that maybe its just time to move on- and that doesnt scare me, bc in some cases i just want to move on.
okay- so a little while after we broke up he started fooling around w/ one of my "friends".. this got me really upset. not that it happened just the fact that my friend wud do that to me after that long of a relationship and she totally knew how much he still meant to me.
then i met this guy. hes like amazing. we became close and i got with him a couple times. its not like were BF/GF but.. i think we might be getting there. we both like e/o. my ex knows n all of our friends too. i like both my ex and this new guy.. do u think i should hang on to my ex bc things might go back to how they were before (like they have done before).. or should i just totally move on from my ex and be with my new guy. im so confused i just need help.. i like my new guy.. but i dont wanna leave my old love if there is still something between us.. what should i do?
Before you do make a choice between them..i think you should talk to your ex and see if there is any chance of getting back together and see if he still feels the same way...and if there is a chance..then i would try and hold on for a little while longer not to much..i'd say no longer then a month tops...and if there is nothing there then try and go for your new guy...moving on from your first love may be very hard at sometimes..because he's the one you shared a lot of stuff with im sure..and about your friend..if she was really your friend she wouldnt step on your past relationships..and if you have a problem with what he is doing then you should say something to her..but i wish you the best of luck..this is a hard position your in!
It seems like the only thing boys like me for is my looks. I mean there's this one really nice guy that likes me for my personality, but most guys don't even TRY to get to know me, they just like my looks. -.-; Anyone else have this problem? o.O;
I rate! ^_^
Yeah, i thin a lot of girls have this problem...most guys are pigs..TRUST me on this one..but if you want a guys to notice you for you and not your looks try just being their friend first and build up from there..thats what i've done in the past...BUt good luck with the guys who does like you for you!
ok theres this boy i datedd 2 yers ago for 8 months nad recently we started talking agian and i just moved to las vegas and he lives in georgia and we recently got in a fight and i heard rumors that hes telling everyone that the reason hes pissed at me is because i said i wouldnt sleep with him but i neve said that adn the person that told me doenst lie what do i do or think
He's a guy...they say stuff all the time that isnt true...But i wouldnt worry about it...you live in las vegas now..thats pretty far away..but your real friends wouldnt believe what hes saying..But i'd just blow it off for now..unless it keeps up then just say something to him about it..Best Wishes
I really need advice. My Girlfriend and I, fight sometimes and over the stupidest shit, and I'm the one who brings it up. We don't get the chance to talk much anymore, and I miss the good ole times with her, where we'd hold each other close while we were walking or the different ways she holds me. I just don't want to lose her or have her drift away to another guy, cause she's the only one I love and the person I care most about. But I don't like fighting with her, and I don't want to everytime we do, I end up feeling really bad and breakdown crying, and its cause of things I say *I'm usually kidding around with the things I say* please give me some advice on what I should do, I don't want to fight with her anymore, or lose her in anyway. I love her soo very much and noone will understand
You should try not to joke around and say stuff like that...because it sounds like maybe she thinks your always serious about stuff...and she takes it to heart...Maybe you guys just needed to chill out a little bit...dont worry if she sounds the way i think she is...if you give her time she'll get back to the way she used to be..Just dont push her because girls hate when you are very demanding and push them to do things...
Okay, if I want to give my boyfriend a hand job and a blow job, how do go abouts doing that?Like I don't know what to do and where and when to do it, and I don't know how I'm supposed to be like laying or sitting or what?Please help. I would appreciate it very much!By the way, I'm 15 and a girl my boyfriend is also 15
okay first of all...you dont need to be doing that stuff..your only frickin 15 years old! Enjoy life dont worry about sucking some guys dick or anything like that...I dont think your old enough to even be thinking about that stuff..even if you decided to do stuff like that you should maybe think about it when your atleast two or three years older...i mean my god your like what 8th-9th grade for crying out loud..i mean please show some respect for yourself..i mean you dont really even know whats out there..if you start with that then you guys may not end up stopping and go farther then that..and one day'll you'll prolly end up pregnant...but seriously your way to young to be thinking about acting on anything that has to do with sex!
ok , can you die from drinking soda a lot of times!!!??? omg im so scared . please help me!!
No you cant die from drinking Soda/Pop i drink atleast two pops a day just make sure you drink other things too the most that will happen is maybe you'll go to the hospital but thats about it just make sure your drinking water and juice and stuff and you'll be fine
i cut myself..badly..the underside of my left arm is alomst completley scard and my left upper thigh is wicked bad..my mom knows i did* it but she thinks i stopped i promised my ex-best friend i would stop but shes dumb ne way..my boyfriend hates it but he said he cant stop me..ive already been to therapy..they THOUGHT it helped..yea rite..but i found a new friend..lets call her Babee C..well she cuts..worse then me..she carves like long poems into her..all my friends arent talking to me because of it besides her..and the truth is i miss them all..i used to be wicked happy untill my dad got lung cancer..i loved him..and i was his baby..i really want to stop but everytime i see blood ne where..it makes me want to..i think i should just keep my head up and rmember my dad how he was before..but its gonna be hard..if ne one has any ideas of what else i can do to stop please help me..i cant keep livin this way..thanx xX mandie Xx
Im going to tell you stright out you have a illness my friend used to do the same thing...you need to stop hanging out with people who cut..they will make you want to do it more..then you need to go back to therapy as soon as possible and doing stop going until your completely better and maybe you should talk to a doctor about getting anti-depressents and see how it goes from there..but i hope you find a way that help and my best wishes~!
I have a serious issue with cocaine. The saying is "If you've tried it once, you are addicted", and I am no exception. I tried it for my first time around February earlier this year. I then stopped for about 1 1/2-2 months when a lot of my friends and peers were doing it. Then another break, and then about 2 weeks ago I started summer school in a suburb town of my city, and my class was full of coke heads, which then made it extremely dificult cause I either got it free, cheap, or very easily. What would be some good advice to quit and/or avoid peer humilition because of the issue. Thank you.
For one if you feel like you really dont want to do drugs then you should get into a NA group from people with addictions...and maybe you should try and not talk to the people in your class that do coke unless you have to. Its best not to hang out with people who do what you want to stop doing because they will influence you to start doing it again...Best wishes with what you do and i hope that you stop doing drugs...because i would hate to have you end up doing to much and OD because my friend Oded on Ex! and it was horrible to know what she died from. and i know your family and friends wouldnt want to see you like that..So please try and get some help and dont hang out with junkies! BEST WISHES AND GOOD LUCK!
okay so i knoe how to kisss but ive never realy made out with a guy... so idk wut to do when i make out? where do i put like my hands? and how do i bring up the subject that i wanna make out with a guy?
There is no right or wrong way to make out...when it happens you'll know what to do..trust me..i went through the same exact thing..just make sure you dont think about it to much...but just show that your interested and things should happen if you want them to..and if the guy is feeling ya!
when is the best time to have sex without having to worry about getting pregnet?
There is no best way to have sex with out worrying about getting pregnant. If your that worried about getting pregnant them maybe you shouldnt be having sex in the first place if you already have had sex!
My boyfriend told me that, when you have sex your first time, there's no way to get pregnant.
I can't remember -exactly- how he explained it but it has to do with a certain thing, that cannot be penetrated by sperm, coating the male organ. And this -only- happens when a girl has sex the first time.
Is that true? Or is it equally possible to get pregnant when you have sex for the first time?
YES YOU CAN GET PREGNANT!!!!! You can get pregnant the first time. its no different then having sex 1000times..you can get pregnant anytime...dont believe him! Hes suck a liar! He just wants to have sex with you!
i am 14 years old and i have had this porn in my room and and my grandma found it and showed it to my dad. my dad confronted me about it, but we didn't finish talking about. now that i've have a while to think about it, i really want to lie!! it's so embarrasing that he knows about it!! he might not think of me the same way again and i really don't want to be uncomfortable around him. what should i say?
Tell him that you were curious...its a natural thing that you want to see the other sex. Dont be scared..it would of happened one day or another..and he needs to understand that your growing up and things like this will happen more often then once. just tell him the truth and you'll feel a lot better.