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help meeeee!!!!
i am 14 years old and i have had this porn in my room and and my grandma found it and showed it to my dad. my dad confronted me about it, but we didn't finish talking about. now that i've have a while to think about it, i really want to lie!! it's so embarrasing that he knows about it!! he might not think of me the same way again and i really don't want to be uncomfortable around him. what should i say?
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you need to remind your dad of a time when he was young... looking at his uncles playboys he found under the bathroom sink... just tell your dad youll never do it agian... and hell probaly believe you then forget about it... then you can watch more porn until you get caught again
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Your Dad WILL understand trust me your not the only boi look porno..lol a guy at our skool tells us how he jacks off to it..lol its normal trust me your not alone but yea..just be honest with him yea he'll be kinda creeped out but he'll get over it and he understands you know? Rate me!!
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Dude, this could bond you and your dad.
I bet he has stacks of porn.
Ask him if he'd like to "destroy" it.
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Tell him that you were curious...its a natural thing that you want to see the other sex. Dont be scared..it would of happened one day or another..and he needs to understand that your growing up and things like this will happen more often then once. just tell him the truth and you'll feel a lot better.
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Hopefully, your dad can understand that all teenagers are curious about sex. Have you and your dad every talked about the subject? If not, since you havent finished talking about the porn, it might be a good idea to be mature and confront him. Let him know that you feel it is normal to be curious. Are you sexually active? If not, then reassure him that you are not having sex but you understand about being protected and being safe. If you are, than please be honest with your dad. He will understand and probably have some wise advice.Good luck, and remember to be honest!
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You don't want to lie b/c parents hate when there kids lie. Just him like it is and that your sorry. Tell him it could have been worse like pot or something. Tell him not to think of you in that way. Tell him to think of you in the way he always thought of you. Hope I helped!
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tell him you forgot it was eevn ther. that your friend gave it to you and you told him to take it back but he must have left it there. say you're not interested in that stuff. you can barely stomach sex ed.
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dont lie! parents hate when their kids lie..and they wont be able to trust you very much anymore. just be honest and handle it like an adult. yeha ull get a lecture...but it was your choice 2 have it. sry hun but theres not an easy solution to everything!
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