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My friend ruined everything between me and this guy...
There's this guy I like and i thought he liked me too. But then my friend had to go and mess everything up. She ran up to him and started bugging him and told him I was in love with him (which I'm not-I just like him). And now he's acting all weird around me. What should I do?
(I'm 13 and in 7th grade and I'm a female)
PLEASE HELP!!
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Aw okay sweetie listen here. 7th grade boys are IMMATURE! Don't let it bother you! Okay well believe me, i have gone through this situation many many times!!! Well, this is the best thing to do, first of all play it off like you have no clue that your friend told him. If you don't act wierd, then chances are he won't either... and back off a little. Don't make it appear that you like him and don't give him any special attention that might clue him in on your little crush! Playing hard to get is ALWAYS the best way to go, trust me ask any guy. As long as you don't totally blow him off like he is nothing, and don't take it to the extreme then you should be fine. Flash him a quick smile from across the room but don't run up to him and hug him or whatnot. And listen, eventually he will get over it, trust me on this. And good news, the older you get the less immature these boys will be! So don't sweat it hun... give it a week or so and it will all be over!! :) I promise!
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thats sounds alot like my life right about now. my friend went up to the guy that i liked, and did the same thing. i think that you should just pull him aside, and talk to him, and explain what happened. if he still acts wierd around you, i dont think that you should let it bug you. *Katie
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confront him and let him know what your feeling - YOURSELF
xo jessie
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First of all that wasnt very nice of your friend. What i think you should do is pull your crush aside and say listen i dont love you it is just a crush and Im probley over you. And love will come and go but maybe your friend was trying to protect u i dont know u should probley talk to her to. good luck! <3 American Girl
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I can see your point! that is what happend to my sister kinda! but that is not a true friend if she is gonna do that to you and if you like him you need to tell him "hey look i am not in love with you i just like you" hope he will inderstand. hope i helped! luv ~addie~
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Well if this guy is acting weird around you then its not worth it...Just make sure your not mad at your friend...guys come and go in your life but your friends will always be there for you no matter what! just remember that..i wouldnt worry to much about the guy trust me your only 13 there will be MANY guys in your life! im 16 and i've had tons of boyfriends and believe me i havent even been in a real serious relationship until my freshman year in high school..so dont worry to much...just keep cool and dont let him know it bothers you and try not to care that much...things will happen as the way they are supposed to happen!
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I'm 13/f and I'm in the same situation right now because there is this boy that is beyond orgasmic and I always say how fine he looks to other people and now my whole class knows and theyr'e gonna tell him. He thinks I'm obsessed with him, but I'm not, and I'm juss gonna go up to him and say that I don't like him cuz he got a madd grimy attitude wit me and he can't handle me anyway cuz I'm too bootylicious. That'yll teach that boy not to mess wit me, and it might work for you, too. So....be a tough girl and nobody will mess wit u.
$$$BABII D$$$
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you have to give him time, he likes you thats why hes acting wierd around you hes nervous go and talk to him, I know its not easy but just try
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two words: BE HONEST. all you have to do, as uncomfortable as it may seem, is to go up to him and tell him that your friend was being a jerk and that you don't LOVE him, you only LIKE him, and explain that you just want to stay together like you were before your friend butted her head in. hopefully this will calm him down and letting him know your intentions can help alot too. anymore problems, feel free to ask me!
Kat
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first off i cant beilve yo even call her your friend she totally betrayed you! you asked her not to tell and she goes up to him and tells!! wat a nive friend! you like him not 'love' him and those are two totally difforent meanings! ignore your friend and that guy! then he will be the one coming to you!
♥ []D [] []v[] []D Michelle
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