|
Im soo scared what do i do??
My boyfriend and i had sex the first time last week. Now we are doing it w/out the condom. He says that he has his cum under control and he knows when it is comming out. So he said that when it comes out or feels like it he will get out of me and wipe it off. He said w/out cum you can not get pregnate b/c with cum it has the sperms. Now is this true or is he lying to get me pregnate. Please help Me!!!!!!! :*(
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category?
Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions?
um u need to tell him hes an idiot and put the condom on. you will get pregnate if ur not already because no guy can control it 100%
]
ok well just to be safe tell him that you guys are going to use condoms!! and if he says no then don't have sex anymore! because you don't want to take the risk of getting pregnant!! so just use protection and be safe instead of not! please take my advice!
]
No matter what you should always use a condom first of all. 2nd guys sometimes say they can control there cum, but guess what they cant. 3rd whiping it off is not gonna help, its still there. My advice is either make the guy use a condom, or dont have sex with him at all.
*You might wanna take a pregnecy test
*HOpe I helped
Britt
]
I dont know if hes lying just to get u pregnant, but there is this stuff called precum which can make u pregnant. So use protection just to be 100% sure u arent gonna get pregnant and also u want to make sure that u r protected from STIs.
]
girl don't believe him. he's full of shit. there is always sperm on a dick if he masturbates. so don't believe him. use a condom. most guys will do n e thing so they don't have 2 wear a condom.
]
He might not be lying to you just to get you pregnant, but he is completely misinformed about the situation. You absolutely can get pregnant, even if he pulls out before he ejaculates, because there guys have pre-cum a lot when they are turned on. Sperm is in pre-cum as well. Trust me, this is how I was born.
He is probably telling you this because for some guys, they like to think that it feels better without a condom.
You might want to use a condom even if you go on birth control. You can never be too sure about whether or not your partner has contacted an STD.
]
Tell your boyfriend to stop being an ass and use condoms. He's lying to you all the way.
]
You should be using a condom anyway. There are always chances and sperm can swim so if they are anywhere near you vagina theres a chance of getting pregnant. Safety first, use a condom.
hope it helps *amber*
]
You NEED to use a condom unless you're on the pill, or some other form of birth control. I mean, I've been on the pill for awhile and my guy and I still use condoms.
I mean, unless you do want to get pregnant, and you don't sound like you do, judging by the way you seem a bit freaked out.
You can get pregnant if semen gets anywhere near your vaginal area because sperm can swim. You do need semen to get pregnant, though. BE CAREFUL. MAKE him use a condom if you want him to. A lot of guys don't like it, but you know what...you don't want to get pregnant.
I hope this helped!
-Siren =)
]
Use a condom until you are ready cuz he could pre ejaculate without knoing nd it jsut takes a lil bit to get you pregnant, or go to a clinic to get put on the pill or the shot, but they dont always work so its still safe to use a condom.
]
Its true what he says, but i think you guys should go back to using condoms just to be extra safe because as you might know there are alot of diseases out there. safety first.
]
What the hell was he thinking???? OF COURSE (to me) you can still get pregnant! Sounds to me like he tryin to get you pregnant or whatever.....beeecareful if your not ready for babiez, might wanna stick to condoms. Well hope this somewhat helped! Good Luck! God Bless! Beebyes!
]
Yes, you can get pregnant even if he pulls out or whatever. I doubt he's lying to get you pregnant, he's probably either lying just because he doesn't want to use a condom orrrr he just really thinks that. Anyways, unless you want a baby, use a condom.
]
Yes it is possible to get pregnant from precum. It is also pregnant for him to think he's not "ready" yet and he really is.
This is where my baby came from.
He's not lying tp get you pregnant. He is lying to feel good.
]
Ok, you sound stupid and about 10 so I will let you in on a little secret. What you dont know about the world is that everyone in it is trying to manipulate you. They are all out to get you. You are being so clever by suspecting that your boyfriend wants to get you pregnant because thats what guys do, they want to get you pregnant. Why yo ask? Because they want to harvest your baby for the big sacrifice.
And another thing, you CAN get pregant without sperm. It's called magic, dumbass.
]
listen he doesnt know when its comin out hes a guy lol u need advice from a guy and even if u use a condum its still posible so plz im new here and plz spread the word thnx
ur advicer alex
]
yes u can get pregnant if u dont use a condom no matter what u do...wiping it off, pulling out...it doesnt matter u can still get prenant!!!! he might not be lyin 2 u 2 get prenant but maybe he just likes it better w/o the condom cuz it does feel better....but u need 2 talk 2 him and tell him u dont want 2 get pregnant and yall will either use a condom or u wont do it at all...hope this helps...
]
WEAR A CONDOM!!!!!!!!! dude... there is still a chance u can get pregnet..!!! and plus u can get like dieases and crap without a condom like genatol warts! they can mess up your whole life!!
Tell your boyfriend u dont care if he can feel himself " cumming " tell him 2 wear a glove or he aint getting no love...
]
First of all, never have sex with him again if he refuses to use a condom! He does need to cum for the sperm to travel in, but theres something called pre-ejaculation fluid (this comes out before he cums), and that sometimes contains sperm. Also, he may not always pull it out on time! Not only are you at risk of getting pregant, but of STDS. Once he has cummed, he cant wipe it out. Don't listen to him. USE A CONDOM!
xoxo
ali
]
1- always use a condom..never know if he has STDs or some shit like that..
2- he may know when its coming out..but he may not wipe it all off...just a little bit of cum can have a sperm in it..
-hope i helped
]
not teh precum which is on the dick before nething and the cum cum doesnt really contain the sprem i wouldnt have sex with him unless he puts a condom on now!!!
-Cass-
]
to be honest guys can tell when they are going to cum but sometimes they enjoy the feeling so much that they dont want to like stop.and i seriously doubt hed want to be gettin u pregnant on purpose but there might be a time where he pulls out a little to late so the best bet is to play it safe and wear a condom
]
well it is tru but u can still get pregnant b/c he may not wip it all off and one little thing can get u pregnant so just wear the condom
]
He can have precum and that contains sperm. He can indeed get you pregnant without cumming. He's either stupid or flat out lying.
]
hes telling the truth but theres always precum(sperm that comes out before full ejaculation) and theres no way around that so theres still the chance to get pregnant
]
Please do not take any risks. Use a condom always. Your boyfriend is either lying or very misinformed. If you are scaried about getting condoms go to a planned parenthood office, they will always help you as much as they can. You might consider birth control as well. You have every right to choose the use of these contraceptives. If your boyfriend criticizes you for it he is not giving you the respect you deserve. Good luck, and stay strong.
]
i wouldn't ever have sex w/o a condom.. or at least untill u want children. trust me, i have a friend that got pregnant and she used the same theroy. trust me, my boyfriend and i have sex too, and i refuse to let him do anything untill he has a condom on. i know he thinks he knows when he's gunna cum, but i'd take a precaution, and don't have sex w/o a condom... PLUS on top of the risk of being preganant, you can std's which can be prevented with a condom. well, i hope that helps a little. good luck!
]
omg first of all why the hell would u do it wit out a condom> BAD IDEA! ... and half the time the term ur refering to, called "pulling out" does NOT work and u still have a high risk of pregnancy! and if ur bf has had unprotected sex b4 with another girl u also have the risk of STD's and junk like that! there are so many risks with having unprotected sex u should really stop!
hope i could help
*angelea
]
well even though hes say he can fell when its coming he should still wear a condom.Your still at risk for getting pregnet and getting a STD
]
Don't listen to him, there's no way he can do this. He doesn't know, or he's lying. Semen leaks out the entire time. He's not lying to get you pregnant, he's lying because it feels better without the condom. At least make him use a condom. MFS summed it up better than I can. I just saw that most put to trust him, and I didn't want you to think that just because this seems to the popular belief, it was the way to go. Guys at this age (Or any age for that matter) are mostly only concerned with their own needs.
]
You can trust your guy...hes telling the truth..You have to have the cum in you to get pregnate because thats what has the sperm..so your cool dont worry..Hope i helped!
]
That is true but there is always pre cum which occurs even before he cums all the way- i would suggest using a condom- he may say that hes gonna pull out but accidents can happen- and you wouldnt wanna get pregnant
]
If you have sex, there is a chance you will get pregnant. Repeat that to yourself, please. It doesn't matter if he pulls out or 'thinks he has it under control', because you only need one sperm out of the millions that are released to get you pregnant. Most of a guy's semen (the stuff that containing sperm) is released when he ejaculates (comes), that is true, but some of it is released beforehand, and yes, you can get pregnant from those sperm too. That means even if he pulls out before he comes, you can still get pregnant. Pulling out is not an alternative to contraception. The only safe sex is when you are using protection such as condoms. You need to use protection. I cannot emphasise this enough. If your boyfriend is not willing to play the game by these rules, do not have sex with him unless you are willing to accept the real possibility of pregnancy. Please, for your own sake, be responsible.
]
i'm not sure if can control everything in his body and know when everything can happen.i would be safe and use a condom because you never know what can happen.Please be safe.
~melissa~
]
lOl okAy wEll fiiRSt oFF .. gUYSz aLWAySz sAy tHEy'll "pUll iiT oUt" .. bUt tHEY dONT aLWAySz kNo .. sO wHy tAkE tHE cHAnCE ?! nD sECOnDLy .. nO hES noT LyiiNG tO u aBoUT gETtIn pREgnANT .. u cANNOt gET pREgNANT wiiTHOUt cUm !! .. aSk uRsELF .. iF u dONt tRUSt hIm thEN wHY r u evEn wiiTh hiiM ?
xOx kAy
]
He is full of shit.
He cannot control it, in fact, semen seeps out the entire time as his body's way of lubricating the penis and cleansing the glans. That semen is loaded with sperm. By doing what you just described, you are running a very high risk of getting pregnant.
Your boyfriend has no clue what the hell he's taling about.
]
i dont know if he is trying to lie to get your pregnant, just making an excuse to not do it with a condom, or just reall doesnt know. but yeah, as long as you are having unprotected sex there is always a chnace you can get pregnant, eevn if he pulls out. so use a condom or get on birth control.
]
More Questions: |