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Hey, I'm Melanie I'm 16 a junoir in high school and i go to NCWHS. I'm involved in many sports including swim team, track, ballet and colorgaurd. I play many insturments, but i mostly stick to the guitar and violin. My friends come to me with problems they may have, and I try my best to help. You don't have to leave your name if you don't want to, and i hope my advice helps.
E-mail: royal_dork82@yahoo.com
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Location: Normal, IL.
Occupation: Lifegaurd/ Swim Instructor
Age: 16
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everytime i close my hand into a fist, something pops in every finger. it never hurts but im scared its something that'll lead to something ill need surgery with later...is this normal? (link)
hm... well i've played bloody knuckles a lot in my time and i have the same problem. i broke my knuckles (2 of them) and i never got them checked out. now everytime i make a knuckle, my knuckles move in every which direction and it hurts really bad. u may want to get them looked at, because it could lead to something you'll have to worry about in the future. good luck!


Hey im bisexual and me and my girl have been together for a year as of Aug 15th. Well she is REALLY good friends with my guy cousin Micheal. They went to middle school together and crap. Well she says shes in love with me..and i love her to death but theres one problem. My cousin likes her and she likes him. And it kinda hurts me because Im scared that one day im gonna loose her over him. I really love her. But i dont know what to do. I cry every night because it hurts to see him doing this to me. They flirt like crazy. And when she gets offline she writes him this long ass paragraph on how she loves him and shell miss him..bla bla but when she says bye to me all she says is i love you bye. Is it right? What do i do? PLEASE help me..
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tell your girlfriend how u feel... just tell her that u feel like he's getting in the way of u 2. if she really loves u, she'll understand and consider your feelings. good luck.


hey, i tried the birth control pill and it made me have really bad heart problemz from it..and well, my heart is getting better now after about a year from those damn thingz!!!!

but my question is...do any of yuz kno any good birth control methods like the patch, or anything lyk that that is healthy and that you can use if you smoke cigarettes?? (link)
it's very unsafe to smoke and take borth control pills or any type of birth control... it causes heart problems, cancer and blood clots. just warning: don't smoke and take borth control! to be safe, it's either one or the other: quit smoking, or quit having sex.


My boyfriend and i had sex the first time last week. Now we are doing it w/out the condom. He says that he has his cum under control and he knows when it is comming out. So he said that when it comes out or feels like it he will get out of me and wipe it off. He said w/out cum you can not get pregnate b/c with cum it has the sperms. Now is this true or is he lying to get me pregnate. Please help Me!!!!!!! :*( (link)
i wouldn't ever have sex w/o a condom.. or at least untill u want children. trust me, i have a friend that got pregnant and she used the same theroy. trust me, my boyfriend and i have sex too, and i refuse to let him do anything untill he has a condom on. i know he thinks he knows when he's gunna cum, but i'd take a precaution, and don't have sex w/o a condom... PLUS on top of the risk of being preganant, you can std's which can be prevented with a condom. well, i hope that helps a little. good luck!




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