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What should i do?
Hey im bisexual and me and my girl have been together for a year as of Aug 15th. Well she is REALLY good friends with my guy cousin Micheal. They went to middle school together and crap. Well she says shes in love with me..and i love her to death but theres one problem. My cousin likes her and she likes him. And it kinda hurts me because Im scared that one day im gonna loose her over him. I really love her. But i dont know what to do. I cry every night because it hurts to see him doing this to me. They flirt like crazy. And when she gets offline she writes him this long ass paragraph on how she loves him and shell miss him..bla bla but when she says bye to me all she says is i love you bye. Is it right? What do i do? PLEASE help me..
Ash
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well u should talk to ur gf .. if u dont like them flirting with each other and she dosnt care .. mabey its best if you didnt go out with each other and find some one else .. yea it might b hard but if ur gf dosnt want to b with you then there not much u can do about that .. also u should tlk to ur cousin n tell him how u feel .. i hope i was of some help :D
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you should tell her how u feel and talk to ur cousinask him wuts up and so on.but it seems like she's doing u wrong at that isn't fair 4 u at all i advice u to tell her how u feel and not cry at all cause wuts crying gonna do i mean go ahead think about it okay cry a little but don't let that take over ur heart cause that isn't fair to u and on top of that don't give her ur satisfaction of her seeing u like that cause UR BETTER THEN THAT!!!i hope i helped good luck...:)
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tell your girlfriend how u feel... just tell her that u feel like he's getting in the way of u 2. if she really loves u, she'll understand and consider your feelings. good luck.
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Hi Ash,
You want the blunt as a spoon truth? - sounds as if your probably right and you soon may have to face your ex and your cousin as an item. Theirs nothing you can do about it, if its meant to work out between you it will and if it isn't it won't. I'm not saying it'll be easy for you, I know how you'll feel but have the self respect to conduct your self in a dignified manor. I would suggest you confront your girl friend now, don't cause a seen - just explain how you feel and tell her if she wants your cousin to go ahead, if she's confused about what she wants to say so now. At least that way you'll know. Of course their is always the possibility that your over reacting, that their just good friends and that she's in love with you. Whether you act now or hide your head in the sand, sooner or later your going to find out.
Good Luck and god Bless
Derfel
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okay i'm a bisexual here to so, this is what you should do, you should go talk to your girl and tell her how you feel about her and ur cuz flirting all the time and tell her that you don't want to lose her just b/c she thinks she's in love with your cuz, just go to her house or call her and say how you feel then she will understand
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You really cant do anything except talk to her about how you feel. tell her you dont want to lose her and stuff..and hopefully when she knows your hurting she'll stop flirting with him more or something.
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