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I'm a very lonley person, meaning i got not no guys that im dating. I have no dated in a long time, and i really want too. One problem. Im not that pretty, and all my friends are grougus, so im always left out in the dating scence. What do you think i should do? (link)
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hey i know wut u mean, but im sure there are plenty of guys out there for u and the not that pretty comment i may not know who you are but i think everyone is beautiful if they have a great personality and im sure u have a good personality but just be out there try to hint out to the guys u like or u never know there is probably someone that likes u and is to afraid to say. but just give it time and be out there and hang with the one u want alot it helps. hope i helped
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i have liked this guy and he lives no where near me and he says he wants to see me but it doesnt seem like it and i dotn like him any more but i dont know how to tell him wat should i say? female (link)
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umm there are two ways u can tell him, the easy way (which will hurt his feelings but hey it was easy enough for you to say it) or theres the hard way (coming with a nice way to say it) but in the end he will still be hurt, anyways the easy way is to just tell him that u dont like him straight up and the hard way is to hint towards it or say its not him but u just dont want a relationship right now and ignore him. good luck
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Ive been going out with this one boy for about 2 months. and i like him a lot but we havent kissed! and i do not make the first move. how can i make him kiss me?
14/f (link)
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just tell one of his friends that ur wantin to kiss him and they will tell him to something. or hint him or give him signals.
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im really shy when it comes to people who i dont really know .. and i hate being shy im not shy around my groupe of friends .. but i'm going into highschool + i wanna make new friends but i'm shy to people i dont know .. do u have ne ideas that can help me not be that shy around people i dont know? thanks ! (link)
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hey i know exactly wut u mean. when i started highschool i was teh shyest person there i wouldnt talk to anyone. u just got to start out little by little. like say ur friends have friends that u dont know hang out with them then when u get to highschool join clubs and stuff or band band people are really nice and easy to talk to. good luck!
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My boyfriend and i had sex the first time last week. Now we are doing it w/out the condom. He says that he has his cum under control and he knows when it is comming out. So he said that when it comes out or feels like it he will get out of me and wipe it off. He said w/out cum you can not get pregnate b/c with cum it has the sperms. Now is this true or is he lying to get me pregnate. Please help Me!!!!!!! :*( (link)
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to be honest guys can tell when they are going to cum but sometimes they enjoy the feeling so much that they dont want to like stop.and i seriously doubt hed want to be gettin u pregnant on purpose but there might be a time where he pulls out a little to late so the best bet is to play it safe and wear a condom
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Last week me and my friends went to a a psychic for her 13th brithday, for fun.
The night before i had a horrible dream that i was in a a herd of wild elephants, and i was getting trampled. It really bugged me that i could not firuge out what it ment.
So i went over to the psychic and i got my pamled read all went well with that. Afterwords I asked her about my dream in privacy and she said that the heard of wild elephants ment i was hanging out with the wrong crowd of people and i should leave my friends.
after the party, i went and though about this..could i really be in the wrong crowd of people? and i am not sure.
so what od you think..should i hang out with the people i am with, or should i just go and hang out with new people next year?
thanks (link)
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well i think u should like try to hang out with both. but if there are old friends that u just dont hang out with anymore then yea just occasionly say hi to them or something. and its always nice to make new friends just dont forget the people that were always there for u before. hope i could help
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is it okie to like an 18 year old if in 13 its only 5 years n i mess w. him i tell him i will call him when im 18 n he just laughs is it okie that i like him!?!?! (link)
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wooooooaaaah now. its sooo not right hes waay to old for you. try finding someone around your age or like a year older 18 is just way to old for a 13 year old.
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There's this guy Anthony that I went out with this past January. Our whole relationship was kind of stupid and didn't last that long. He's 18 and graduated this year with my boyfriend. (they hate each other) My boyfriend went on a trip for a little while and since he's gone I figured I would spend some time with old friends. I just happened to start talking with Anthony again and we started hanging out. We talked everything over before we hung out and he knows my relationship situation and seemed to show respect for it. When I hung out with him last night though, we were just joking around and stuff. We watched a movie and we were laying on his bed. (No problems there) But soon after he started caressing my legs and stomach, and I got totally pissed. He said he respected that I was in a serious relationship with my boyfriend. What the hell is his problem? I need a way to tell him that that's not cool and to back the hell off in a nicer way then I probably would. I want us to still be cool, but for him to know that that's not exceptable. (link)
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just ask him if he respects your relationship so much then y is he doing this crap to u and tell him that you want him to stop and that if he cant yall wont hang out anymore.
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hi. im going into 9th grade and in 4'9 and i weigh 74 pounds. Im so tiny short and skinny and bcuz of that i look like a 3rd grader! i always got things like what grade r u in? and "i think ur lost little girl" like i just graduated 8th grade and on the 1st day of skool i was going to home room and this new girl saw me and shes like 6th grade is downstairs this is 8th grade. i hate it! now im going into high skool! im so worried n upset! in going to b with 18 year olds! Im gonna feel so out of place. help
LAUREN (link)
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hey dont worry about at my school we have a girl prolly a little smaller than u and shes happy shes got alot of friends cuz she doesnt care if people say anything about her height she just goes along with the joke. be outgoin and dont be shy believe me it will pay off.
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hi. i have really long legs and im very thin... great rite.. well whenever i go anywhere and im wearing a skirt or short i get really dirty looks and stares from other girls! i cant stand it. i feel awful and so uncomfortable. Is there something wrong with long legs? do i look like a giant or something? they make me feel out of place :(
what should i do?
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theres nothing wrong with u. uve been given a good gift and they are jealous of u cuz they wish the could have that so they give u mean looks cuz they are just too jealous but dont worry theres nothing wrong with having long legs they are good for alot of things.
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my boyfriend wants to have sex but I don't know if I'm ready what should I do? (link)
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its as simple as pie lady u say ur not ready thats all it takes if he doesnt accept it then break up with him.
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I've been dating this guy for over a month now. Not very many people know about us because i know they wont accept us. I really want to tell people, but im afraid of their reaction.
Not many ppl like him cause he smokes pot and stuff like that. I was going to tell my older sister, but she said if its something shes not going to like .. dont tell her...
I sneak out a lot at night to see him. I'm talkin about 11:00 pm or midnight until 3 or 4 am. I dont get much sleep at night, and i have to get up EARLY (5:00am) for work.
What should I do? Should we just go ahead and tell people about us? or should we just keep dating "in the dark" Also, is there any other way we could see each other without being "caught" (link)
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you shouldnt care wut other people think. if u really like this guy then u should be with him and if other people cant accept that then tahts their problem. and yea u should tell people cuz stayin up late and sneakin out will one day get u caught and u neeed ur sleep especially if u have a job at 5. so yea tell people because ur love is greater than wut a few people think.
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ok im 13/f..i have a boyfriend that wants to do "stuff" like..he wants a h/j and stuff but im not really ready..hes expecting it though like tomorrow or something. PLEASE help :'(..idk what to do.. (link)
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first of all ur waaaay to young for that. and if u dont want to do it then just tell him ur not ready and taht u want to take things slow if he doesnt accept that answer hes not a good boyfriend and should find someone better. so dont let him force u to do it u are ur own person and make ur own decisions.
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this year im totally changeing.. im wearing more make up and way more PiNkK.. but does n e one think that i will be made fun of bec im changeing.. thanx i rate (link)
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theres nothing wrong with changing. change is good some times. but some people think it isnt. this might bring out a different side of u. and if some people do make fun of u its cuz they are joking around with u like this one girl at my shcool she always wears pink and make up and shes like one of the most popular girls in school so dont worry if they make fun of u they are just jokin around and probably even flirting with you but remember no matter wut this brings dont forget ur friends u had before the change cuz they were there from the beginning.
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Hi i have a gf and her 16th birthday is coming up soon and i have no clue what to get her.. I was thinking like a necklace with a heart on it... Do u have any suggestions? (link)
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a necklace is a good idea but doesnt that sound a little traditional? get her something she will enjoy for the rest of her life but not like somethign that will make her think u want to get married. be orginal go through everythign she likes and think about things she enjoys doing. but jewelery is a good thing to get a girl but just make sure she doesnt have a lot and will wear urs every once in a while. make her something and make sure its from the heart. be very outgoin like go to a public place or something and show her how much u care about her by sayin out loud. but remember make sure wut u get her is unique and from the heart shell love u forever.
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Okay, I have this friend, and we are very close. He is a guy, and he goes to my school and we hang out all the time. He is really fun to be around and he is always making me laugh, but the problem is, he seems depressed. Every once-in-a-while he'll mention how he's sad about not having a girlfriend and about how hes sad because he thinks he's ugly. He's really not half bad looking, he just doesn't seem to realize it and for some reason he thinks having a girlfriend is the most important thing. How can I help him? What do I say to make him feel better? How do I help him to realize having a girlfriend isnt important. I've discussed this multiple times with him but I dont seem to be helping or saying the right things. Please help me out. Thank you.
-misa- (link)
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Hmm well i know how ur friend feels hes probably like me and doesnt want to accept the great advice that he gets. but im working on it and he should to. girlfriends arent the most important thing in life but maybe he feels that way because everyone around him may have someone and he feels left out. or he wants a girlfriend to have someone to carea bout. but to help him just tell him to give it time and that theres always someone out there for someone at first he wont accept it and tell u something but just keep telling him that because secretly he is listening to u. but just tell him that him being sad makes u sad if it really does and that u and alot of people care about him hell start to understand that friends are prolly the best thing he will have in his life. dont give up on him if he really his a close friend do wut u can for him or try to set him up with other good hearted people if u can. but just keep giving him advice he really is listening no matter wut he says.
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Ok I have a problem. I am dating this guy that I never really get to see. He doesn't talk to me much either, but yet it isnt his fault. But I like this other guy who likes me too. I have liked this guy for a long time, since before i even started dating my bf. I want to break up with my bf, but I dont know if I should. I just dont want to cheat on him. But when i'm with this other guy, I feel like i will cheat. what should i do? (link)
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Well if there isnt any more feelings with ur boyfriend now then i dont think dating is there for you and him. but yea if u want to date this other guy then dont cheat just talk it over with ur boyfriend and tell him that its just not there anymore. and if u really do like this other guy then see wut happens but remember ull have to wait till you break up cuz u dont want to be thought of as a cheater. cuz like they say once a cheater always a cheater. or at least in others peoples thoughts but who cares wut other people think. but yea talk it over with your boyfriend when you can. good luck
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