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my boyfriend wants to have sex but I don't know if I'm ready what should I do?
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Tell him your not ready. Maybe u should just give each other oral sex first i mean it might be better then rushing into major sex. Think about it for a while then sit down and talk to ur boyfriend
* ~ Ashley ~ *
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Talk to him and tell him that you don't feel you are ready yet. If he understands then thats good he's a keeper if he doesn't then get ride of him!
x0x Jamielynn
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Wait until your ready, anyways, you might not even be the legal age yet.
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Tell him that you're not ready to have sex with him... and you want to wait till you know for a fact. Dont just do it cuz he wants you to.
-holly-
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tell him exzactly that, that u aren't ready
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Just tell him that your not ready for that yet.
xo_
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If you don't feel ready, you're definately not ready. Tell him you aren't ready to have sex yet and ask him to wait until you are ready.
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if your not ready to have sex your just not ready and if your boyfriend truly loves you he will understand and wait until you are ready.... and if he doesnt understand then he's really not worth it dont let him make you do anything you dont want to do! hope i helped!
Jennifer
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dont let him pressure into it. when the right time comes, you will know. if you arent ready (and it sounds like you arent) then dont do it because you will regret it later.
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Refuse, tell him you're not ready, don't expect him to automaticly know you're not. That's me opinion. Remember one thing, you're in control of what you wanna do, not some boyfriend, not anyone but you.
.::Chelsea::.
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Don't have sex with him if you're not ready. If you don't think you're ready,then you're not ready.
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Definitely do not have sex until you're absolutely are ready because you might regret it later on. If your boyfriend cares about you, then he'll understand and wait until you are ready. I hope this helps!
Crystal
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more than likely if you don't think you are, your not... Tell him so. If he really cares he won't get mad about it... if he does... kick his ass. don't ever give a man what he wants when you don't want to... be tough, if your saying no, mean no. with your body and everything. stop kissing and taking off clothes... until his knows it's not going to happen... hope i helped, and sorry for sounding like almost everyone else...
Andy
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well come right out and tell him your not ready...be honest with him. i know i was with my boyfriend:) and honesty gets you far in a relationship. take it slow!:)
x0x-dani
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If you dont know if your ready then your probably not. Just dont let him pressure you into doing it and if he loves you then he wouldnt make you do something your not ready for. just wait until you feel your 100 % ready
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just tell him that ur not ready he will understand and if he doesnt then hes not the rite guy 4 u.. if he pressures u at all that means he doesnt really care about u and just wants sex... dont do anything u dont want to do
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tell him that ur not ready and see how he reacts if he gets mad then thats prolly all hes in it for jus watch out and do what u wan to do
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dont do it if your not ready , he wont force you into doing it. But if you decide to then make sure u use protection nd have fun... hope i helped !
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Explain to him that you're not ready, you would know if you are ready. And obviously you aren't. SO just talk to him about it, and if he can't accept that you aren't ready, then there's a problem with him, not you.
Hope I helped
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Dont do nething your not ready to do!! If your not sure.. u probably arent ready.. When You feel totally comfortable with him and ur ready.. you should.. But Remember Be SAFE :0) Just tell ur boyfriend that your not sure.. and if he pressures u into sumthing.. i'd dump him!! You do need him!! <3<3
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i know its easier said than done, but for sure say ur not ready..thats all u should have to say. thisll be kinda like a test for u to see if he really cares bout u. if he stays and waits however long u wanna wait, then hes a keeper, but if he eventually breaks up with u because u dont wanna have sex, then hes a LOOSER and u shouldnt be with his ass...good luck.
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love kristin
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IF YOUR NOT READY TELL HIM YOUR NOT AND IF HE REALLY CARES ABOUT YOU THEN HE WILL RESPECT THAT
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just tell him that you're not ready and if he cant accept that, then hes definitely NOT worth your time. -PA
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wait until you know for sure that you are ready
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If you're not sure, DON'T do it yet. He should understand, and if he doesn't, he's not worth it anyways :o)
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tell him that, if he cant appreciate that, then hes not the one for you, theres not reason a guy cant wait a lil longer
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If you don't think you're ready then chances are you're not. Or maybe you're just nervous..when the time comes you'll definatly know, and don't be afraid to say no. He should accept it.
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its as simple as pie lady u say ur not ready thats all it takes if he doesnt accept it then break up with him.
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wait till ur ready if hez a good bf he will wait 4 u until u r completely ready! dont let him presure u into it!
Xo HoPe I hElPeD oX
nicole
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tell him you arent ready if he breaks up with you because of that he wasnt worth it in the first place but if hes fine you know he understands where you are coming from and doesnt care if he has to wait
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tell him ur not ready. easier said then done tho so good luck.
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