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ok im 13/f..i have a boyfriend that wants to do "stuff" like..he wants a h/j and stuff but im not really ready..hes expecting it though like tomorrow or something. PLEASE help :'(..idk what to do..
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I was friends with this guy and he wanted me to give him one but see i think im ready and ur not so just say im not ready yet and he should respect ur descion if he doesnt find a better guy who will.
* ~ Ashley ~ *
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if your not ready for that then dont do it tell him that your not ready..your only 13..if he doesnt understand then hes not worth it
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I think you should just tell him the truth. Tell him you aren't ready and w/ more time your decision might change. He should understand that and if he doesn't then maybe he isn't worth keeping! hehe...well hope i helped you ;) ally
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Tell him to do it himself until you feel its the right time to take over.
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Just tell him that you're not comfortable with that just yet and you need time. He should understand, and if he doesn't, he's not worth it. Don't do anything you're not ready for.
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Dont Do Anything your NOT ready for!! Take your time.. Tell him ur not ready.. and if he tries to convice u into doing wat he wants u 2 do .. DUMP HIM!! yOu dont need him!! <3<3<3
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Thats what sucks in relationships, they want you to do stuff, and you're like noooooooo!!! lol. Its so tough huh? But, if you're not ready, then don't do it. No one can force yourself to do it, not even your boyfriend. I mean if you really not ready, you're only 13 anyways, then don't do it. If your boyfriend likes you and cares about you, he'll wait til you're ready! And if he does expect it, just be like "I'm sorry, I'm just not ready to do that kind of stuff yet, once I am, we can do that kind of stuff." Just say something like that. Hope this helps!
xoxo Kourtney
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Thats the hardest part of a relationship, if yall date for quite some time, they expect to get some "stuff" in return. Dont force yourself to be ready and to grow up by tomorrow, nothing is worse than a boyfriend who pressures you or makes you feel quilty for not doing it. Honestly, you are very young. I didnt even kiss yet then, but the generations are growing up so quickly :-/
Anyways, please dont let him pressure you into anything you dont want to do. Stand your ground, be proud of yourself when you dont do it, and let him no straight up you arent going to give him a hand job or anything else. Be strong and confident!! Good luck sweetheart!! Tell me how it goes!
LoVe,
HeAtHeR!!
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kissing is ok but try not to go any farther ok ihad promblems like that to but i handled it my self so tell him that your not ready and your to yonug and if he leaves you he just whated to get in your pants so keep your legs closed k i am 12 so be careful of what you do ok e-mail me ok brit_430762004@yahoo.com
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If your not ready then you really dont need help you have already told yourself you dont want to do this just yet and that maybe in the future you do. Just tell him He'll understand, and if he doesnt then he was just in it for the sex anyways so your better off without him. HOpe i could help
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well if u dont wanna do it tell him that ur not ready just not yet tell him how u really fell
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Tell him your not ready. What can he do about it if you don't want to.
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first of all ur waaaay to young for that. and if u dont want to do it then just tell him ur not ready and taht u want to take things slow if he doesnt accept that answer hes not a good boyfriend and should find someone better. so dont let him force u to do it u are ur own person and make ur own decisions.
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what do you mean he is expecting it? if you dont wanna do that shit then dont. if he doesnt like ti then too bad
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hun, don't do it if you aren't ready. tell him that you don't want to. if he keeps insisting, you might want to break up with him. a guy isn't any good if he makes u do something you don't want to do. best of luck!!! come talk to me if you need more help. i'm here for ya
<3 Kristen
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Hmm. Explain to your boyfriend that you're not ready. If he keeps insisting, just stick to the plain and easy answer: NO. If he still keeps on insisting, you should break up with him because no good boyfriend would push you into doing things you don't want to do. I hope it works out.
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deffinitely DO NOT DO IT if your not ready tell him and if breaks up with you then you know hes a jerk if he doesnt and understands then hes an okay guy dont let him convince you to though because thats awful make sure he understands that you arent ready yet...
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girl if your not ready tell him your not ready....if he is gonna rush you into doin somethin like that then you need to look for a guy that won't rush you...hope it helps :)
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dont do it. youre too young to be sexually active. seems to me that you dont even really want to do anything with him. trust your instincts and dont do it. wait til youre a bit older or so, or atleast when you know YOU are ready to be sexually active. if he doesnt understand the fact that you dont want to do "stuff" then forget him. you can get someone better, who will respect you as a person and care about how you feel
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