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Help!
My best friend likes this one guy, but secretly I like him, and I think he likes me! I read in her diary, which she let me read, trhat she was mad for him! What can i do!
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i have the same problem.. just tell her that you like him a little bit and if she gets mad say that youve always liked him and that you cant control who you like.. good luck! hope ive helped
-xxoBrianna
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guys come and go but best friends last 4 ever.. i guess it depends on ur friend and if she would b ok w/ it or not i mean i no i would b really hurt if i wuz that crazie about tha guy just bcareful if tha guy is worth it talk too her but u have to b sure he worth mayb losin ur friend :-/
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ok you cannot go out with this guy!!! my "best friend" and i were in this situation and she went out with him.... of course i said i was fine with it but I WAS LYING!!! and i thought she was my friend so she could figure it out.... but i was wrong.... if you talk to her make sure shes telling the truth b4 doing anything with the guy...
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Well If i were you I'd keep my mouth shut on who I liked.. Because she might start to think that your going 2 "steal" him from her.. and then you guys would start fighting :0(!! But If you think you should tell her.. I would stop liking the guy.. I know you cannot just stop liking sum1 that easy.. but try.. Bcuz ur friendship shouldnt suffer bcuz of a guy!! And when she gets over him maybe you can start goin out with him!! Good Luck with everythin!! <3<3<3
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*Which is more important a relationship or a friendship? Wait till her madness for the guy goes away and ask her if it's okay if you could start dating him.*
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I see where you are coming from and tell her do not go behind her bac cause thats what i did and trust me you dont want to do that.......hope i helped!!!!!!!!!!
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well let ur friend take a shot at him and just be come good friends with the guy u never know what might happen maybe if he dont like u he will grow 2 like u
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thats a tough one you have to realize wether the guy or your best bud means more to you.. and if that doesnt work .. talk it out.. let your friend know! its always better to let your feelings out to her yourself then have her find out by someone later.. hope i helped! ask me for help anytime!
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U shud tell ur bff... cuz u cant hide that from her.
GooD LucK W/ EverYthinG!!
Xo HoPe I HeLpEd Ox
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come up with some sort of a compromise.. maybe you should back off to be loyal to your best friend. just don't ruin your relationship over a guy!!!! you'll regret it. talk to me if you need something else!
ly Kristen
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Nothing. You should call a truse with her and both of you look for other guyz. Do you think she likes him more than you do? If so, you should let them be and try and get over him.
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dont go for him... it will ruin your friendship with your friend... trust me you dont wanna do that
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You shouldn't tell her or you might lose a friend. You probably could tell her if she is your bff. Or you could just tell him and ask him out! --IM me on aim andrea8o6--
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tell her you like him 2 and see how he acts around you both and se if he seems like he likes you if he does don't do anything to obvious do discreet flirting and see if he asks you out then ask her if its okay...
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okay... lol. i needa breathe!! okay!! lol well for me im on the side of ur best friend if u no wut i mean. my best friend thinks the guy i like likes her and she secretly likes him and i kno it. the reason i kno it is becuz in yearbook i saw a book she was reading in her handwriting saying her nickname witch is "angel" lol. w/e but "angel" n the guys last name. but wut shes dun is not say anything she knos im mad crazii 4 him n she knoz i wuldnt lyk it if she went 4 him 2 be her boyfriend. so wut im sayin is that if u wanna go for him go for him but i kno if my best friend went for the guy i wuz mad crazii for id be real pissed for a long tyme. also IF u do that she miyt not show it for a while but then she miyt end ^ one daii burstin out n sayin all the stuf she held in b4. i hope i helpd n i hope u think of ur best friend b4 a guy cuz thats wut the golden rule of best friends is... lol. never let a guy get between u.
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Well if your best friend likes him let her have him, even though you like this guy and he might like you somethin couldn't happen between you and your best friend, so its best if you let her have him and keep your friendship:)
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Ohhh that's a tough desision. But be carful, I got into this with one of my good friends sometime last year, it's NOT worth messing up a BEST friendship... you don't want to do that, a guy you like isn't worth fighting over, I had to learn that the hard way.
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