im really shy when it comes to people who i dont really know .. and i hate being shy im not shy around my groupe of friends .. but i'm going into highschool + i wanna make new friends but i'm shy to people i dont know .. do u have ne ideas that can help me not be that shy around people i dont know? thanks !
iTaLiAn4LiFe627 answered Tuesday August 24 2004, 9:56 pm: well i had the same problem last year but all i did was try and b my self no matter who i was around just try and think of them as ur friends b/c if u really want them to like u u cant act different then u really r they will prob like ur real self better ne way so just b urself [ iTaLiAn4LiFe627's advice column | Ask iTaLiAn4LiFe627 A Question ]
saxplayer0509 answered Tuesday August 24 2004, 9:54 pm: hey i know exactly wut u mean. when i started highschool i was teh shyest person there i wouldnt talk to anyone. u just got to start out little by little. like say ur friends have friends that u dont know hang out with them then when u get to highschool join clubs and stuff or band band people are really nice and easy to talk to. good luck! [ saxplayer0509's advice column | Ask saxplayer0509 A Question ]
LiaMathias32 answered Tuesday August 24 2004, 8:46 pm: Don't Be Shy...
My Old Best Friend used to be like that.. You know what I did? I took here places with me and introduced her to my friends.. eventually she had to talk to them.. it may have sounded harse, but she is so "known" now... Once high school started she talked to me for awhile and my friends and then eventually she talked more and more... what you need to do is go out with your friends sum more... introduce yourself to people that you do know and that you might run into on a bench in the park, you never know what talkin to an old lady with her poodle might do.. trust me... Hope this helps a bit... :) If you need me feel free to email me LiaMathias32@yahoo.com [ LiaMathias32's advice column | Ask LiaMathias32 A Question ]
BrOk3n_sMiiLe_x answered Tuesday August 24 2004, 8:38 pm: well i used to be like you too .. well jus dont care wat peopele think ,, i stopped caring .. it took a while but i did nd i jus got more outgoing nd acted like myself .. like i did wit my friends .. crazy nd stuf nd i got popular b/c people were like hey shes kool .. me nd my firned wuld jus stsrt singin .. so act like yourself infrot of everyon ... even if your scared do it .. theres always someone who will not like you .. everyone has someone like thats so if someone gives you dirty looks be like im kool .. you also have to have confidence to be able to act like that .. so jus act liie yourself hard or not ... nd if you need to talk im me
[ LyL qT x lOnLy ] i hope i helped .. *megan [ BrOk3n_sMiiLe_x's advice column | Ask BrOk3n_sMiiLe_x A Question ]
LiLpLaYbOiBuNn3Y answered Tuesday August 24 2004, 8:16 pm: Hey just relax...high school really isnt that bad. Alot of people start of shy but usually end up the Varsity Cheerleading team hehe..but wen u walk down the hallways smile at people, and just be urself. People will like you for who you are. Trust me ive been there..
XOXO, Ashleigh [ LiLpLaYbOiBuNn3Y's advice column | Ask LiLpLaYbOiBuNn3Y A Question ]
Karen answered Tuesday August 24 2004, 8:14 pm: Just be confident in yourself and you'll have friends in no time. When you are walking down the hall, you could like say "hi" to someone I guess. Sorry if this isn't helping it's just I'm not shy and I can't think of anything at this moment. Hope I helped :) [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
IxAmxCrying answered Tuesday August 24 2004, 8:07 pm: Show your boobies.
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