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Im sorrie to bug you, kuz i dont know you or anytihng but i was reading your columns an you have helped alot of people out, so i was wondering if you could tell me if i did the right thing here....I lyked this guy for a relle long tyme, an we were koo friends buh not anything more...we saw eachother lyke every weekend an stuff..an then he started lyken mai twin sister, so i stopped lyking him. well the middle of this skewl year he transfers to my skewl, an we became closer friends, an i started lyking him alot. me and him were always together an everyone would ask about 'us' and if we were a couple or anything, an he would be lyke yah this is mai lady an stuff...then he started going out with this girl from another skewl, an i was relle bummed...so i juss gave him his space, buh lyke we became closer an stuff kuz he'd always kome kikk it wit me lyke after skewl an stuff. he always talked about me 'sharing' him wit his gf an i was always lyke no ur either mine or ur hers u kno? well he finally understood that, an after not talkn to her for a week thought she would get the point that he didn't want to be wit her, an told me that they broke up. me and him started talking, and i kind of new that she thought they were still together but it didn't really bug me. me and him were together 24/7 an to everyone we were a couple...well one day one of mai friends tried to commit suicide and i was relle messed up. i was talkn to him through text messages, an he told me that he finally officially broke it off wit that girl. it made things better, kuz he juss kept telling me how much he wanted to be wit me an that when we saw eachother that night that we were gon get together. well that night i was kinda all quiet an juss sitting with one of my friends kuz i was still sad about my friend that tried to commit suicide. he came over an asked to talk to me and with an attitude asked what he did and i told him it wasn't him. then he was lyke ok w.e. got up an left...well that was the last tyme we really talked...things were soo hard for me to watch him walk through the halls an not notice me anymore, buh i started to act lyke i didn't care. he started being really mean to me, an then one day it was lyke he was the nice guy i knew before...then he hooked up wit this girl, an i was really depressed about everything in lyfe so it juss brought me to tears. he came over to me an gave me a hug an ask'd if i wanted to talk about it not knowing its bekuz he had broken my heart. an i wouldn't talk to him. he kept trying to make me feel better throughout the day, buh nothing worked. he later broke up wit that girl and wanted to be all over me agen an i wouldn't let him...then skewl was over an i guess it kinda juss put me in a hole...the beginning of summer i was depressed all of the tyme. i knew i had to get over him, buh i always thought things would be soo much easier if i just had the ballz to talk to him. i tried to find the streangth to do so but never could. im sorrie this is soo long, buh i juss relle want to know what i should do...juss get over him completely, or try to talk to him!? sorrie for bugging you, an thanks for your tyme...
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try to talk to him... but be his friend, you shouldnt go into a relationship if he really broke your heart.. at least not immediatly... dont let him be all over you, just be friends.. or how you were before ya'll went out and stuff.. I hope everything is okay with ya'll! x3
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aiight... i might not be the person u originally wanted butt... im here now... one thing that i have to say is that dont ever be sorry or afraid to ask for help... or in this case advice... its all goood and if they dont wanna help like big dogs, get em offf the net... anyways... it sounds like a tough situation... butt u gotta basically start the relationship hunt over.... just hang out with him and chill with him and let him kno u care... tell him how u appreciate all the time he helped u and all the time u guys spend together...let him kno about the truth like when u were mad and all those times and let him kno he broke ur heart and that sometimes u were jealous and all... the truth hurts sometimes... butt other times its the best choice... let him kno anything and everything that could start and make ur relationship the best there could be... talk to him definitely... hes been through alot with u and that helps in a relationship acause he knos what to expect when certain situations that occur... u sound like u like him alot so DEFINITELY talk to him... hit me up on AIM for more help if u need it... peace peace!
-Jon :-b
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Well, it sounds like this kid has some serious problems with making up his mind. I was once in your position. I know how u feel when u say that u get upset about it...its not easy to let someone that u cared about so much go. but heres what u have to do..u gotta let go. even when he says he likes you, you still seem upset. if you want, talk to him about it, but make sure you are completely open about it. dont hold anything back. they best advice that someone has ever given me, was to just do what makes me happy. and thats pretty much what u have to do. he sounds like a jerk to me, but i know how easy it is to fall for those jerks...good luck, and let me know how things go!
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Well sweetie it does seem like your in quite the situation. I think you should tell him how you feel first and see how he reacts. If he likes u the way you like him-- go for it but tell him that you dont want this whole dating other girls stuff going on--tell him that if you two are going to be together, its just you and him and not him with some other girls. Now if he takes the other route and would rather stay friends, i guess you'd have to get over him, its really not as hard as you thing. Just hangout with friends that dont really know him and do things that dont make you think of him. Try and get your mind off of him. I know it'll be hard but always remember you've got your friends. Thats all you need
x0x-good luck hun
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