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husband problems
I remarried and my husband is nit very understanding to my son and is verbally abusive. he came frome an abusive family and thinks i am a terrible mom because i don't disiplend him differently he thinks i should be meaner to him. he is so bad he accused me of wanting to have sex with my son and says this is why i'm so nice to him. i'm not overly nice and i do punish him if needed. hes just a normal teen who never wants to put anything away that he uses and won't keep a cleen room. i don't think he's a bad child but my husband does therefor we continusly are fighting because i take up for my son now he says this whats wrong please help me
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i think u should ahve a talk with ur son.. dunt act like ur mean just be real talk to him let him now how u feel talk about ur husband a mother son talk.. hes fathers an asshole so try to talk to ur son about that .. let him kno ur here.. n maybe if he realizes what ur going threw with his father maybe hell start to act better... oo yeh n what kid cleans up after themselves thats a kid.. get use to it..
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This guy's a real asshole and he's just jealous that you love your son. If it continues,get a divorce from this guy.
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hey... i thnk you should get rid of him because hes tellin you how to raise your OWN kid and its not even his and as far as him accusing you of having sex wit your LITTLE BOY thats juss disquesting and if he thinks you would molest your kid then hes def. not worth anything!! you should juss get rid of his ass! because hes retardd! hope i helped ~rate me~ thanx bye
<3.Taylor
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Eh... he really shouldn't call you a terrible mom and DEFINATELY shouldn't be accusing you of wanting to have sex with your own son. You just need to what's right for your son. I think you might need to reconsider doing something before things get out of hand and worse. I understand the concept of discipline, but sometimes it can get too far, and that'll fuck a kid up. Anyway, I'm sure you're grown enough to stand up for yourself and know what's right from wrong. Do the right thing, dear. :]
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STICK TO UR SON SWEETHEART...ur son came outa u and is gonna be with u forever HE ISNT dont let him push u around u need to leave his sorryn ass no offence but ya.. ok toodles
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dezi
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Indeed. I too would drop his arse. Guys who do this only get worse. So do something before it gets too out of hand. Good luck though.
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get a divorce--he's not worth it!
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hey ok so ive never married anyone in my life but i know i will NEVER marry anyone who treats me or my kid like that if i was you i would go and get a divorce and just kick him out of your house. or if u dont want to leave him then you should all go see a phscyatrist. Hope this helps. GOOD LUCK!!
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As I can see it, your husband probably has a problem with your son,(Obviously). When Childern become the teenage age, they tend to get out of hand. And The way I see it, Your husband probably came from a big family. He doesn't want to make the mistakes his parents made in the past. So right now, he carries out in language. It maybe a bad communication with your husband and son. So I suggest that you all sit down together and try to find the source of the problem. This is a typically normal problem that many divorced/single/remarried people go through. Especially with a child going through the adolecent Years. If there is anything else you need help with, Please feel free to e-mail me at
Fallenstar009@yahoo.com
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you gotta see who's more impotant here, this jerk of a guy, or ur own flesh and blood. u dont jsut accuse someone of wanting to sleep with ur son, and if u ask me, thats messed up. i know since yall it is married, then it is harder, but protect urself and ur son...let me know how things go...good luck!
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wow...he dont sound like the greatest guy... no effensve... but.. i mean ur son.. i dont think hes a bad child at all!! i mean all children r like that!! soo... i mean ur sons ur son.. do whats best for hym!! :)
xox Leah
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hope things works out!!
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