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uhh yeah.. i have another question...how can u tell if your best friend really wants to hang out with you or talk to you? Lately, my friend has been kinda acting like i don't matter to her at all. She doesn't really talk to me, and she always puts stuff in her away message like.."jenn, nathin, and alli in a chat room, what could be better?" and it gets me mad...it seems like she doesn't wanna talk to me anymore or sumthin....i... i need help.. im confused
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noo..dont get mad --> that just makes it worse. but you do have to think that she has other friends to and not just you. so..just wait..and dont get jealous
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I know how u feel. u should just talk 2 her about it one day and just put it right out there " it seems like u don't really wanna talk 2 me or hang out wit me that much nemore whats the deal?" and c what she says and keep askin her question like that but not 2 many cuz she may get mad. hope i helped *STEPHANIE* :)
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I'm sure that she really does want to hang out with you. She is probably just hanging out with some other friends. Don't make it obvious that you are upset about this just yet though. If you do this and seem clingy that will just drive her more away. Try making a fun plan with her, like goingn to the movies and a sleepover so you guys can bond again. You could also mention something casually like, o i noticed you hang out with so and so more often, how's that going? If you see that nothing has changed in a while you should confront her and tell her how you feel..see what she says..Good luck!
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well i have friends that do that to it makes me feel bad so i kno how u feel ask her if shes mad at u or sumthing and if she is see why and if not then telll her how shes been acting latelyGOOD LUCK
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I think you should try to talk to her. Pick a quiet place where you guys can be alone, and don't place any blame. Just ask questions.
'Do you still care about me? Are we still friends? Have I done anything to upset you?'
Let her know how important her friendship is to you. She might be growing away from you, and it would be better if you knew it so that you could move on. Or she might not be doing any of this on purpose - she won't know she's hurting your feelings unless you tell her.
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that happens to me too and i think it happens to alot of ppl. it sucks but the way i think of it is theirs no such thing as a best friend forever. it goes on and off. sometimes they need some time apart {{i kno i did}} well it might be hard to think that your best friend isnt always gunna be your best friend. but sometimes they need space and deside to not talk that much for a while... it sucks so much and sorry if im not making sense... i hope i am tho. its just ive been on both sides of that and i dk.
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