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i'm late
ok my best friend and i are friends with benefits and for a while it's been working out but now i'm hugely late on my period and i don't know if it's stress or not. if i am pregnant i can't get am abortion because my best friend will never talk to me again, but i'm not sure that i'm ready to be a mother. what should i do??
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if he doesnt know already thenlet him know whats going on. Tell him your late and everything, then take a test! you gotta let him know since hes the one who is the dad if there is a baby. Maybe this month is just later. But to find out for sure if you are or not, take a test! They have them at drugstores n stuff like Longs and Rite Aid. -aMANdA <3* gOOd lUCk!
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Well, I suggest that you first find out if you ARE pregnant or not. From what it seems you might be. My view is that abortion is wrong, if you took the risk of getting pregnant, then you should be prepared to deal with the consequences. But that's me. You may feel differently. If you are pregnant I think that you should not get an abortion but have the baby and if then you still feel as though you are not ready to be a mother, put the child up for adoption, and make sure a good family adopts the baby. Although you may not be ready to carry a baby for 9 months, you ought to have disscused this beforehand with your friend. And birth control IS avaliable. And condoms. Sorry if I sound harsh! Email me @ lady-kagome@earthlink.net or IM me (AIM) @ Xo LadyKagome oX if you need anymore help!
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Lady Kagome
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go to a planet parent hood by you and ask for a pregnantce test and then they would eaither give you the pill or condoms
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well first see if you are pregnant and if you arent ready and you dont want your friend mad you could put it up for adoption..
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it may b stress but just get a pregnancy test 2 make sure and i hope things work out wit u and i don't think abortions r right so i would say don't get one hehe i hope i helped u can ask me ne ? netime u need *STEPHANIE* :)
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While first off, you need to find out if your pregnant or not. So, buy a kit and do it. Then if you are (I hope your not, good luck!) you chould always give the baby up for adoption if your not ready. Don't get an abortion, I don't believe in them, but I guess it's up to you. Good luck hun!
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wait a little longer..and then if your still late take a preganace test.if you are pregnant I guess if your not going to get an abortion which is the right thing to do (not to get an abortion) then you will have to suffer with the concequences(sp)
hope i helped xOx
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get a home test called EPT its litterally the error proof test it says on commercials get tested and if it says positive go to the doctors and see cuz theres is more accurate and you can get an abortion befor it even forms b/c its not even bigger then your thumb right now..x0x0 Roxy and your friend has no say in it so she should shut up and you should keep it to yourself if you are just you and your parents.. x0x0 Roxy
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don't freak out just yet. you could take a pregnancy test to see if you are pregnant. no matter what the outcome, maybe you should re-think the whole "friends with benefits" thing...or at least use a condom.
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*Take a pregnancy test as soon as possible. If you want the best results of if you're pregnant or not, go to the doctor. If you bore the baby, you could give it up for adoption since you're not ready..*
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How late is 'hugely' late? If you are more than a week late for your period, the best thing to do is buy a home pregnancy test. They only take a few minutes to let you know the result.
If you are pregnant, then you need to do some serious thinking. If you are not ready to be a mother, you are not ready to be a mother. Becoming a parent will change your life forever - it should not be something you do to make your best friend happy.
Abortion is right for some people. Giving the baby up for adoption is right for others.
Chances are, you'll need to be brave enough to sit down with your parents ASAP; if you decide to have an abortion, you have to have it fairly early in the pregnancy.
There is a lot to think about, and you need to make the choices which are best for you. Abotion will allow you to physically carry on with your life, but you'll probably need some supportive friends to lean on. Giving up a baby for adoption is a strong, wonderful thing to do - but that means you have to carry a baby for nine months. That will affect your schooling, your friendships, and your body.
I hope you aren't pregnant, as that would make this all easier. If you are not, take it as a sign that you need to have a serious talk with your best friend. The two of you need to be using at least two forms of protection so you never have to have this emotional upheaval again; you also need to talk about what you would do IF you got pregnant.
The definition of friends with benefits 'working out' does not include the possibility of becoming a teenage mother raising a baby alone, or the idea of a girl who made the tough choice to have an abortion and then was dumped by her best friend.
The first thing, take the pregnancy test. Pray it's negative. Then get yourself to a gyno and figure out the best form of birth control for you.
Good luck.
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dont get an abortion. god might be blessing you with a kid. if you dont think you can take care of this kid but him/her up for adoption. but tell your parents, if you havent, they NEED to know im totally seriouse. keep asking me questions if you want to.
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Well, if you ARE pregnant, you could always give the baby up for adoption and not get an abortion. You should go and buy a pregnancy test just to make sure.
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i guess you should go somewhere to get a pregnancy test. it's the only way you're going to find out. best wishes! please drop one in my inbox if you need anything else. *
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Ok friends with benefits isnt cool.And if you are going to do stuff like that use some type of protection like a condom or some type of birth control!So go get checked out to see if you are pregnant or not.And if you are then its your choice what you want to do its your life not theirs!And if its a false alarm start being alot more careful trust me im 8 months pregnant right now with my boyfriend of 2 years and im only going to be 18.I dont regret this lil one but its not easy to go through it at such an early age.So good luck with whatever happens.And i hope i helped out.
~*Nicole*~
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if you're 100% positive that you're not ready to be a mother and you know for a fact that you're pregnant talk to your friend about it. tell him you're not ready. the best thing to do is put the baby up for adoption. i do not believe in having an abortion unless you were raped and you have scars and bruises to prove that. other than that (no offence to what i'm going to say) it was your own fault that you didn't use a condom and got pregnant. if you do decide you want to keep the baby then do so. you're parents might be a little dissapointed because of the fact that you aren't married to this guy but just talk to them. but whatever you do do not get an abortion! if you do... like you said you have the chance that your friend might never talk to you again and if you really think about it having an abortion is killing the baby. you don't know what that kid could be. that kid could be the one to find the cure for cancer. he could be a president. that kid could be a superstar and have all young teens and kids and even adults looking up to him or her saying "i wish i could be like that" you don't know what that kid could be. don't waste a life because of your bad judgement on not using a condom... hope i helped and i didn't mean to offend you if i did in any way.
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Uhm, you need to do what's best foR YOU!! Who caRes if youR best fRiend doesn't appRove.. it's damaging YOUR life.. NOT HERS!! Tell heR you appreciate heR conceRns and opinions, but it's NOT HER decision, and you need to do what is going to suit YOU best! Best wishes!! Hope I helped! =D
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OOOOK... one go to the doctor's and see whats goin down... if its a FALSE ALARM.... slow it down with the friend a lil bit... let the fire die down for a while...
If it isnt a false alarm... tell him... and talk to him about the whole situation... grant it, it all pends on the parental units decisions too... cause they gotta kno... if they dont kno they will read u like a book and find out and be pissed as anything... go wit hwhatever the majority decides... and dont use the "It's my body" thing too much butt a couple times wouoldnt hurt... peace peace!
-Jon :-b
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omg you idiot. well you're pregnant!!! itsd a bouincing baby boy. congradulations. friends with benefits? ok./ but friends with benefits that ahve sex? no ok. thats fucked up man.you need help, go get a pregnancy test. sorry dont mean to be harsh on you but WTF WERE YOU THINKING CHILD?!?!?!?!?!?! hope i helped!!! and i hope you realized that friends with benefits that ahve sex IS NOT GOOD.
-amber-
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There is always adoption.
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