Hey! My name is Chloe, I'm 5'1" , black hair, brown eyes w/ specks of amber, I love anime, especially Inu-Yasha! Wolf's Rain, & Rurouni Kenshin are 2 of my other faves. I love to try and help people if I can! So ask me whatever you feel! I'll answer anything you want to know!
E-mail: lady-kagome@earthlink.net
Gender: Female
Location: Houston, TX
Occupation: student
Age: 15
AIM: Xo LadyKagome oX
Yahoo: Xo_Lady_Kagome_oX
Member Since: August 8, 2004
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I’m 14/f and no one have ever asked me out on a date. I am not ugly in fact I recently learned that the boys from my old school which I left 1 ½ years ago thought I was the prettiest girl in the class. I am extremely shy and I really can’t flirt. Also usually even if I like someone I am very cold to them for a long time, it’s like a protective action. But now I just feel so lonely! (link)
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Hey, I know this is probably what everyone else is telling you, but just loosen up a bit. Don't do the whole, "become-super-outgoing-thing" because obviously, it's not you. I'm 15, and I've had 3 boyfriends, but no serious ones. No one has ever asked me out on a date though. All my relationships were like, hey you wanna go out? & i was like sure, and nothing was different from when we were just friends. My 1st b/f was when i was 14, so it's perfectly normal, a bunch of my friends still haven't had a b/f. I mean, i know a 19 yr old who's never had a b/f. Just kinda loosen up a bit, and what's more important, just be yourself! I didn't change to get any of my b/f's, because if they didn't like me the way i was, then why bother with them? I'm typically pretty stand-offish myself, it's something you kinda "grow-out of" . Of course, don't start trusting everybody, my friends told me to do that, and, not knowing any better, i did. Yeah let me tell you about it, staying cautious is a smart thing to do. Some people you just can't trust. :) Hope I helped somehow! :)
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Well, to answer your last questions...I am 16 years of age. I can definitely tell you this is not a phase, I have been feeling this for the past three years. The longest a phase is could be ranging from one week to about a year. This is almost 4 years now. By the way, I am a guy. I don't give you enough things? What do you mean? Like examples? I thought I gave you examples? Now, you seemed to have me confused. Okay, well here's another example...there is this guy, okay? Well, he told me that he liked me, straight to my face. He knew I was "straight", but he still felt like telling me. So, he did. Well, now he wants to know if we should persue anything past friends. He keeps writting me notes about how he wants to be with me. Well, the way I feel about this is, I never have really had anyone say these things to me before, so it makes me feel very good about myself. And the things he tells me, don't really groos me out, but they definitly intrigue me. Like he wants to lie next to me. He says he's never felt this before with anyone. Now, me on the other hand, the story is a little different. I have been consistent with my note writting to him, it will make me feel very bad if I tell him that I don't want anything to happen. That jst gets his hopes up. So, I don't want to do that. Well, the past 4 days, I have been seeing him as a very different person. For some reason, I have loved the way he walks and the way he bends over to get his stuuf! Damn, that turns me on so much, but it also scares me. Please help me, I don't know what to do!!!!!!!!
- ChOsEnPrEy (link)
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Hmmm. but you still like girls? The whole, sometimes thinking it's gross could be your mind telling you that you're unsure and think that maybe it's wrong, on a sub-consious level. Otherwise if you still like girls, then you sound like you're bi. which is perfectly fine. I mean, It sure sounds like you are, and the reason you're getting scared about it might just be yourself thinking that others would look down on you for feeling that way, which shouldn't influence your life. If you really feel that way then that is how you are, end of story, and anyone who decides to dislike you because of your lifestyle isn't really that great of a friend anyways. Three years, hm. Well, that's all I can really say right now, I've got an audition in a little bit so I've got to go but you can email me at lady-kagome@earthlink.net if you want a better answer, and I'll get back to you when I have time to give a better answer. :)
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Hi,
I have a lot of things on my mind. I go to Deer Park, just for the record. Okay, For the past year, I have had mixed feelins. I see girls as attractive, but when it comes to guys...I don't know. I see a guy walk by one minute and want a piece of his ass, and the next minute it makes me want to puke. I am very confused as of what I am to do. Can you help me? I watch "videos" of both sorts, and both kinds turn me on. I have absolutely no idea what to do, please help me, I am begging you.
Sincerly,
ChOsEnPrEy (link)
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I really don't know. Maybe you're bi? I guess I would need a little bit more info before I could really figure it out. Or maybe you're just confused, like a phase. Lots of people go through phases where they are unsure of their sexuality, some act upon it, some wait and ignore it. I'm not entirely too sure about you though, from your question, I really didn't get much info, I can't even tell if you're a girl or a guy!
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Okay, you know me, Chloe.
I want you to help me find this out. There this guy and me and him are really cool. Since I just move to a new school. He was nice. He likes me, but I have mixed feelings and I don't know if I like him a lot. I get extremely confused. I kinda like him, should I give it more time? I don't know if I am leading him on or not, should I just be friendly to him?
Confused Little Girl
(Okay, I am not little! But I don't have another anynomous name that I can think off!HELP ME!) (link)
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Well, dur i know you! hehe I would have known who you were just by how you write. lol Well, I still think you should just tell him that for noqw you want to stay friends but that when you figure out your mind, you'll tell him. lol im talking to silvestre so i ttyl
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I'm not very physcially fit, I dont exercise a lot and well i started skool few days ago and i have gym..my teacher is crazy and makes us run a lap, run up stairs, run down a hill, do 20 crunches, 10 pushups, and then do it one more time! Before that we have to run acrross the football field doing things like skipping, jumping,jogging whatever. And thats all for the warmup! is there anything i can do to less the pain i feel after we have our warmup??? my legs are so sore i can barley walk! thanks i rate! (link)
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Try stretching, I know it sounds crazy, but strectcing, like in dance, helps your muscles become stretched out and they wont be as sore. it also helps for cramps. lol Well thats really all i know so :)
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ok my best friend and i are friends with benefits and for a while it's been working out but now i'm hugely late on my period and i don't know if it's stress or not. if i am pregnant i can't get am abortion because my best friend will never talk to me again, but i'm not sure that i'm ready to be a mother. what should i do?? (link)
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Well, I suggest that you first find out if you ARE pregnant or not. From what it seems you might be. My view is that abortion is wrong, if you took the risk of getting pregnant, then you should be prepared to deal with the consequences. But that's me. You may feel differently. If you are pregnant I think that you should not get an abortion but have the baby and if then you still feel as though you are not ready to be a mother, put the child up for adoption, and make sure a good family adopts the baby. Although you may not be ready to carry a baby for 9 months, you ought to have disscused this beforehand with your friend. And birth control IS avaliable. And condoms. Sorry if I sound harsh! Email me @ lady-kagome@earthlink.net or IM me (AIM) @ Xo LadyKagome oX if you need anymore help!
~Love & Kisses~
Lady Kagome
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i know this girl and i was just wandering what would u like to have a guy to do u at putt-putt golf? should i "help her out" with her swing like n the movies? lol (link)
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I don't know, it depends on the girl. The whole "helping" her swing seems sweet to some girls, like me, but others may think that it is just a stupid 'move.' I would say ask if she would like help, don't say "do you need some help", it may look like you are trying to hint that she isn't good, and see what she says!
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hey i thought i liked this guy anthony so we started hanging out and we got to know eachother well one night at my friend rickeys house who is also his friend we all met up there he said he liked me alot and he kissed me hes not a bad kisser or nething but i mean i dont think i like him that way ... i and i told him that and hes starting to like my bestfriend i think because whenever im over there he calls her and talks to her and everything it seems whenever im with her which is like everyday he calls her and talks to her.. she tells me everything he says about me which is quit alot but not bad stuff ya know... i dont now what to do because i still want to be good friend with him ... help me figure this out ! (link)
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Well, make it apparent to him that you really want to stay his friend, even though you don't return his feelings. Make sure he knows that you do really care about him, but just as a friend. Give him some time as well, he may just be dealing with your "rejection" in the only way he knows how.
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Hi,
I am a 15 year old male, and I really need some help. I had a friend whom which I adored very much. She did also. She was on and off of her feelings and then she one day just "ended" it. Now, I have just been reacquainted and I have begun to devolpe feelings for her. I really would love your advice.
Thanx,
BaBooshkaH (link)
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Wow, you sound like someone I know! Well, I've been in this situation before, and if I were the girl, I might have started to have feelings for the guy again. You should tell her that your feelings are beginning to come up again. You never know, she might just like you!
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Hey..I wanna call my ex bf and ask him to hang out..like go to a movie or something. Hes a nice guy and hes single..he flirted with me last year..when i call him what should i say? im pretty sure he wont turn me down..so im confident..just start me off? lol thanks
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I think you sould go for it! If he flirted with you he might be interested in hooking up again! Go for it chick!
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I'm a girl, and 13 years old, and I just want 2 kno, is it wrong 2 like your brother's best friend??? Becuz...I do. My friends say it's fine, but the thing is, there's no way he likes me back, he's 3 years older than me, and there's no way I can ever tell him, cuz he'll just be freaked out. I didn't mean 2 fall 4 him. It was beyond my control. What am I gonna do??? I really like this guy, but he doesn't like me back. My bud, Christy, she knows him really well, and used 2 be his girlfriend, and she says there might be something there, but I think she's just saying that to make me feel better. Is she lying??? Or has he dropped a hint 2 her that he likes me back??? Me and him just recently became really good friends, but he's still my brother's best friend. So is it wrong??? Pleez somebody help. I need answers. Should I tell him?? Or wait until I'm over this??? I don't kno if I can take it n e more. It makes me really sad knowing that he doesn't like me. If I ever told him, he'd probly just freek out and never talk 2 me again. Or at least, that's what I'm afraid of. Pleez somebody help. It's tearing me up inside! Thanx SO MUCH!! (link)
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I don't think it's wrong to like your bro's best bud. I think that you ought to ask him if he has any other feelings for you, because 'a friend' (you might not want to mention her name) said he might like you. Then tell him you wanted to know because you think you're beginning to fall for him. Don't go full out and tell him that yoou like him so much, it might freak him out. Better to be slightly subtle about it!
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