Question Posted Wednesday October 6 2004, 10:27 pm
Well, to answer your last questions...I am 16 years of age. I can definitely tell you this is not a phase, I have been feeling this for the past three years. The longest a phase is could be ranging from one week to about a year. This is almost 4 years now. By the way, I am a guy. I don't give you enough things? What do you mean? Like examples? I thought I gave you examples? Now, you seemed to have me confused. Okay, well here's another example...there is this guy, okay? Well, he told me that he liked me, straight to my face. He knew I was "straight", but he still felt like telling me. So, he did. Well, now he wants to know if we should persue anything past friends. He keeps writting me notes about how he wants to be with me. Well, the way I feel about this is, I never have really had anyone say these things to me before, so it makes me feel very good about myself. And the things he tells me, don't really groos me out, but they definitly intrigue me. Like he wants to lie next to me. He says he's never felt this before with anyone. Now, me on the other hand, the story is a little different. I have been consistent with my note writting to him, it will make me feel very bad if I tell him that I don't want anything to happen. That jst gets his hopes up. So, I don't want to do that. Well, the past 4 days, I have been seeing him as a very different person. For some reason, I have loved the way he walks and the way he bends over to get his stuuf! Damn, that turns me on so much, but it also scares me. Please help me, I don't know what to do!!!!!!!!
- ChOsEnPrEy
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? LadyKagome answered Thursday October 7 2004, 5:49 pm: Hmmm. but you still like girls? The whole, sometimes thinking it's gross could be your mind telling you that you're unsure and think that maybe it's wrong, on a sub-consious level. Otherwise if you still like girls, then you sound like you're bi. which is perfectly fine. I mean, It sure sounds like you are, and the reason you're getting scared about it might just be yourself thinking that others would look down on you for feeling that way, which shouldn't influence your life. If you really feel that way then that is how you are, end of story, and anyone who decides to dislike you because of your lifestyle isn't really that great of a friend anyways. Three years, hm. Well, that's all I can really say right now, I've got an audition in a little bit so I've got to go but you can email me at lady-kagome@earthlink.net if you want a better answer, and I'll get back to you when I have time to give a better answer. :) [ LadyKagome's advice column | Ask LadyKagome A Question ]
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